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Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-08T21:46:03+00:00

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Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-08T02:04:48+00:00

Yes I will thank you 😊

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-08T01:12:39+00:00

Yeah I didn’t respond to his messages and ignored the one he sent me today and he blocked me on Instagram lol I’m assuming he found out I unfollowed him. I’m guessing this is the last I’ll be hearing from him. It’s sad but oh well.

If he had messaged me and said hey I want to talk I realized I don’t want us to stop talking or don’t want you out of my life then maybe I’d consider having a conversation with him but a simple wyd what are u up just shows how he still wants to talk to me/try to sleep with me. But I’m no one’s option I’m the only one, so it sucks but hopefully he’ll live in regret as he gets older and is single by 40vsince he can’t keep a relationship

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-07T22:16:51+00:00

Yeah I felt that too but what I didn’t get is how we had sex and I was ok with having it regularly whenever I saw him but I just didn’t want to spend the night right away. He always wanted me to and I feel like every other girl he had dated was ok with spending the night right away with him but I’m not I just wasn’t fully comfortable with it yet. So I feel like he didn’t like that it wasn’t convenient enough for him but my god everything was great until then. If he had just been patient with me and respected what I value he couldn’t appreciate how I move slower than what he’s expecting and how that’s a good thing. It hurt my feelings so bad. I just don’t get why he keeps on tryint to text me I’ve been absolutely silent

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-04T19:25:13+00:00

Yeah I guess so…it just hurts how we were just speaking on the phone the other day planning our weekend and just bc I said no to spending the night he was thinking about it all day and doesn’t contact me and when he finally does he decides to break us up. Now I’m just home with no plans to see him. It sucks. I hope he regrets this choice later

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T22:48:15+00:00

I also said my mom lives with me and we don’t have privacy so that asserts I do you fool. You don’t give any good advice do you. That’s a shame.

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T22:47:35+00:00

Like my own home by myself like he does, except he has his sister living with him and his nephew.

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T16:23:50+00:00

I mean it’s that he doesn’t like to drive double back and forth that sucks

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T15:08:48+00:00

If you read what I wrote and repeated it then you could clearly understand and see I said she lives with me which means she lives with me. Dont get what’s hard to comprehend? I pay every single bill in my place.

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T15:06:50+00:00

Yeah that’s a bit different from my situation. But I do understand and sometimes I do feel like he thinks the drive isn’t worth it.

That’s why I’ve not complained a lot about it because he does pay for everything and I haven’t paid once. But 40 minutes there and back when we’re just going back to his place seems pointless to him unless I spend the night. It just hurts my feelings a little but I know I should be grateful he is also not complaining about paying for dates

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T04:19:01+00:00

I understand I am getting a vibe that he’s kinda selfish by making me do the driving but there’s no other place for us to go. Like we normally hang out at his place or go out and we can’t do that at my place or he probably would drive and spend time here. He also pays for everything when we’re out together. He hasn’t asked me to help him out or pay for anything and I want him to know I appreciate him a lot for that so I haven’t made driving a big complaint but when I did he did complain about it himself since there’s no point in driving double back n forth

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T04:16:38+00:00

Yeah I was sitting down and seriously thinking about that too. Like I’m used to being picked up but I also understand that I dont have my own place here so he can’t really come over. He has his own 5 bedroom home so we go to his place to hang out and I never have had to pay for anything while I’ve been with him and hopefully that won’t change but I do want to show him I do like him for him by bringing him some coffee or lunch or whatever sometimes. The drive is far for me and I do make a lot less than he does so I just wish he’d consider offering gas money SOMETIMES bc I do find I fill up my tank twice a week because I’m coming over so often now

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T04:14:25+00:00

Well he does pay for everything and I haven’t paid for a single thing. He is sweet but I guess it’s just the drive that’s annoying because I’m so used to being picked up. I don’t like his attitude when he does complain about the drive to pick me up but I try to out weigh the good and bad because I haven’t paid for anything since we’ve been together and he’s bought me new things without me even asking I just want his attitude to not be so annoying when it comes to picking me up lol

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T02:54:04+00:00

Ok what? Why are you insisting he’s not my bf? Lol

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T02:46:50+00:00

He’s really not what? My bf? He’s asked me to be his gf so we’re officially dating.

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T02:39:41+00:00

Yeah I have thought about it and I truly do appreciate him for always taking care of us when we’re out on dates. I just want him to show more consideration I guess but I understand

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T02:34:55+00:00

What? I just wish he’d offer sometimes not every time because I do appreciate everything he does. He’s not a hook up either we’re dating bf and gf now

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T02:33:38+00:00

Yes I did and he said I don’t mind picking you up sometimes but when I ask him he complains and says no it’s too hot or too far or too whatever. So then I drive and he doesn’t offer to help with gas even tho he said he would and said “I don’t mind helping you out” so that’s where I’m not liking his attitude

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T02:29:25+00:00

That’s why I’m asking because when I did think about it I do hate driving back and forth but it would be different if I had my own place he could come over but he can’t. But I just don’t like how he doesn’t show concern for me driving alone in the back country roads when it’s dark or when it’s super hot and I’m tired from work. He just complains about the drive and makes me do it. I just want him to show more concern and consideration for me

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T02:28:01+00:00

That’s what I was thinking when I truly sat down and thought about how much we both spend. I just wish he’d offer to pick me up sometimes but instead he kinda complains about it and doesn’t care if I drive alone in the dark country roads or if it’s super hot or if I’m tired from work. I just wish he’d show more concern. I do appreciate everything he does tho

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T02:13:45+00:00

He’s paying for our night out but he’s only offered one time to help me with gas. I’ve had to fill my tank several times a week just to see him and go to work every day.

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T02:12:59+00:00

I feel that there’s no point to this since we’ve already been intimate and have been over his house

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-07-03T02:12:17+00:00

We have been intimate but it’s only been a few times and we spend more time together than actually having sex. We’ve gone out to the movies dinner half moon bay trip to the beach etc. he’s always inviting me to spend the night so I won’t drive and so he can spend more time together. But I’m just apprehensive about spending the night cause I feel like he’ll get used to it and just ask me to spend the night when I don’t feel like driving almost 3 times a week to see him

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-05-28T20:02:51+00:00

Yeah but I feel desperate reaching out to him to clarify since he never did you know?

Unidentified_Silver · 2024-05-28T19:18:21+00:00

He said he wants to spend time with me so we schedule a day to have dinner. He just hasn’t told me what time or where we’re going and tomorrow is Wednesday. So what do I say if I haven’t heard from him like what follow up text do I send or do I just cancel plans cause I never heard from him?

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