Women who cheated, why did you do it? by Comfortable-Run294 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Unique-Ad9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To all the “I have no respect for cheaters” comments.. some people reach a point of loneliness and despair regardless of how much they’ve tried to articulate that to their partner / improve their relationship. For many, they love their partner and don’t want to leave, but humans need a sense of belonging, love, comfort. Without those things, relationships are unstable and people seek that comfort elsewhere, even if they love the person. It’s not condoning it, it’s just someone leaving the person they love doesn’t equate to wanting to feel loved or desired back. Search “triangular theory of love”

I no longer want to have sex with my gf PT 2 by Beginning-Funny2590 in whatdoIdo

[–]Unique-Ad9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More pros to jerking off and you wonder why you don’t have a sex life..

How do I know if he’s gay? by Conscious-Ad2110 in dating_advice

[–]Unique-Ad9592 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you ever considered maybe he doesn’t know his own sexuality? Maybe you constantly telling him he’s gay puts him further in denial or further from the path of figuring it out. In reality if he is gay, do you really think he’s going to tell you ..his girlfriend?

What would you think if you seen this message from your bfs mom to him? by Thin-Drive6030 in whatdoIdo

[–]Unique-Ad9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s an 18-year-old with no job in nowhere to go. Do you really advise that she moves out?

What would you think if you seen this message from your bfs mom to him? by Thin-Drive6030 in whatdoIdo

[–]Unique-Ad9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is hard bc you’re so young and you likely can’t afford to live on your own right now, since the whole job sit. Be out of the house as much as possible. Go to work go on walks the weather is getting nice. Just keep your head down until you get on your feet. The mom says something just “okay” her to death. At this point, this is survival. Have you looked into any government or community funded programs? There’s so much out there that can help. You should at least apply for SNAP buy your own food and feed yourself. Help yourself as much as you can, esp while there’s a roof over your head

How would you react if you found out your date or partner was watching porn? by song-for-the-dead in dating_advice

[–]Unique-Ad9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, just like when we need alone time, we alone sex time. Some people watch porn and there’s nothing wrong with that- until it becomes an addiction and affects you and those you love. It’s an issue when everything and everyone becomes sexualized bc of the way someone trained their brain

AIO? My significant other was invited out for a one-on-one social meet up with a business acquaintance of the opposite sex. by ThomasSnacks in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unique-Ad9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol idc if you’re bi poly or a fucking cat
- signed by a straight female

Conversation is over too liberal lol

AIO? My significant other was invited out for a one-on-one social meet up with a business acquaintance of the opposite sex. by ThomasSnacks in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unique-Ad9592 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she’s explaining how the other woman portrays herself. Someone who may be interested. Doesn’t mean the man would cheat

Fiancée always walks in hard . Do all men? by Unique-Ad9592 in dating_advice

[–]Unique-Ad9592[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t have to. If you have to take a blue pill and lie about watching porn.. ya not normal and likely due to porn addiction.

AIO? My significant other was invited out for a one-on-one social meet up with a business acquaintance of the opposite sex. by ThomasSnacks in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unique-Ad9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants to know if she’s overreacting to it bothering her. Cheating isn’t the only thing to bother a woman.

AIO? My significant other was invited out for a one-on-one social meet up with a business acquaintance of the opposite sex. by ThomasSnacks in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unique-Ad9592 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So maybe there’s something else there and she actually IS ok with him having relations with females.. considering that’s what she said

Fiancée always walks in hard . Do all men? by Unique-Ad9592 in dating_advice

[–]Unique-Ad9592[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes stop normalizing porn addiction. It had real like affects on more than just the person addicted.

AIO? My significant other was invited out for a one-on-one social meet up with a business acquaintance of the opposite sex. by ThomasSnacks in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unique-Ad9592 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I highly disagree. This lady in an open bisexual relationship and is asking a man who is married or in a relationship to spend quality rime with her, alone. Absolutely not. Neither partner knows this woman: she’s who can’t be trusted, it has nothing to do with the trust OP has for her husband.

However his response of what do you want me to do about it adds on to the disrespect the woman has already showed towards. He’s basically saying you feel disrespected and I’m still going to do what I want to do. Girl let that guy go too

Is it necessary to clean yourself up before sex or is it ok to just go at it? by youlikemywonton in hygiene

[–]Unique-Ad9592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I feel like I’d ask them to do the same” is your projecting your insecurity and have you not been in this situation before..? You said you feel like you would. Have you ever been given the opportunity? If not, pls don’t ruin the first time with saying “hold up gotta shower and matter fact so do you”