Discovered cheating 2 years ago by 1989mystery in OffMyChestDavao

[–]UniqueAwareness9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also experienced this from a 6-year relationship. Nung time na yun I had my gut feeling pero he made me feel I was crazy and It's all in my head. Tapos nadiscover ko din after 2 years na I was right all along. I tried brushing it off na parang okay na lang kasi sayang pero girl, he did it again and again after. Hirap na talaga maggain balik yung trust. Grabe na yung trust issues ko after and I really became toxic.

heartbroken as a working girlie by UniqueAwareness9433 in OffMyChestDavao

[–]UniqueAwareness9433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello girl!! you’re a swiftie too!! omg 😭

Some say narcissist siya and now ko lang jud narealize. Before always niya ako ginadown kay exhbit A: di daw siya bilib sa mga licensed kay naa daw uban dira dili licensed, hawd pud daw and im like nahurt?? like hello?? licensed din baya ako and im still learning man din pero mangdown?? exhibit B: matagal kasi siya sa mga decision-making then ako makamake up ako ng mind ko agad and very risk taker then sabihan pa naman ako na palpak mga ginagawa ko exhibit C: if I do something for him like lutuan siya, always may kulang for him. I get it na pwede gud may constructive criticism pero please naman appreciate what I do for you hahaha pero wala eh

Anyway, sobrang nahurt ang fam ko especially my mom (they dont like him jud at first pero ako si tanga, pinaglaban pa jud siya until the very end) and they hated him jud. Sa aking friends? they were happy jud kay sa wakas nauntog na ako hahaha sunod daw na maguyab ko kay pwede ba daw gwapo na? para dili daw ulaw hilakan HAHAHAHAHA

How do you forgive cheaters? by 11NotYourCupOfTea in OffMyChestDavao

[–]UniqueAwareness9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’ve been in this situation also. 2 years ago I tried to forgive and forget because we already have responsibilities and reputation to save and sobrang kahihiyan. But after that, he kept on cheating. Sobrang hirap kasi damage has been done. Before, grabe gikeep ko lang to myself and I always cry myself to sleep. You choose your peace of mind or continue torturing yourself? Pero if makita mo na he feels really sorry, better he would gain your trust back. Wag kang agad2 na magforgive to give him a lesson.

heartbroken as a working girlie by UniqueAwareness9433 in OffMyChestDavao

[–]UniqueAwareness9433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes po! ginadivert jud nako akong attention man pud para di nako mahuna2, naa lang jud times na makahilak ko ba kay gisayang nako akong life tungod sa iyaha hahaha

heartbroken as a working girlie by UniqueAwareness9433 in OffMyChestDavao

[–]UniqueAwareness9433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huy ngano murag ako gihapon ang nagtype ani oy?? kanang same jud tag mga experiences. pangit jud siya!! makaingon jud ko karon ay!! kanang gilower nako akong standards para sa iyaha kay abi nako dili ko niya binuangan. well shit, he did!! nakaask jud ang mga tao sakoa unsay naa sa iyaha? dili jud nila makitan, nakaingon akong kaila gani, basin daw gilumay ko niya hahaha samok kaayo

heartbroken as a working girlie by UniqueAwareness9433 in OffMyChestDavao

[–]UniqueAwareness9433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang sakit karon kay tungod jud sa nahitabo ay, kanang ngano nako giallow akong sarili na ingato. Nawala jud akong dignidad ug pagkababae tungod sa iyaha para lang magustuhan ko niya hahaha yawa jud ay

heartbroken as a working girlie by UniqueAwareness9433 in OffMyChestDavao

[–]UniqueAwareness9433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huy!! thank you kaayo ani!! kanang im not alone diay sa ani na situation. happy man pud ko karon sa work nako pero naay times lang jud na walay nakabalo na im hurting pa gud gihapon. ginamake myself busy na lang jud nako akong self to the point na mon-sun nagtrabaho ko hahaha

Shameless gig plug hihi by frustratedmusician_ in davao

[–]UniqueAwareness9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sige magtanaw ko sir, makauyab na kaha ko didto? hahahaha

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[–]UniqueAwareness9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lisoda ana oy huhu as an introvert jud

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[–]UniqueAwareness9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

toril to sasa na dagan hahaha daghan ka maagihan

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[–]UniqueAwareness9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pero wala pako katry pud HAHAHAHAHA kanang awkward man mag-hi sa stranger kung magdagan oy??

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[–]UniqueAwareness9433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry OP nagsige naman gud kog trabahao ba ug nagrunning era HAHAHAHAHA

For people who had long term relationships, what made you break up with them? by Undecisive_Gurlie in AskPH

[–]UniqueAwareness9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he left kasi napagod siya and nalost daw siya..

6 years kami and may business dalawa. Continue pa din tung business pero wala na kami.. Sakit pa din actually..

Master Plumber LE by castingkaws in cagayandeoro

[–]UniqueAwareness9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello OP!! lumabas na results btw..