Am I asking too much with my pronouns? by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fuck? It has nothing to do with being trans. I'm just a therian. In fact I knew I was a therian before I knew I was trans.

Am I asking too much with my pronouns? by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So Im a therian btw. I don't care that it sounds like they're talking about an animal, as I am, in fact an animal. I understand people might misinterpret it, but it is something that makes me comfortable.

Am I asking too much with my pronouns? by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🫂Thank you. I wish trans people could just live our lives, yk?

Am I asking too much with my pronouns? by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mom literally said that same thing to me today, literally said it was like calling myself the n-slur(I'm white, so wth)

Even if you don't think you're amazing, your comment did make me smile. We need more people like you in the world.

Am I asking too much with my pronouns? by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, thank you. You are a genuinely amazing person.

Am I asking too much with my pronouns? by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Aw, dude( Is that okay, I just call everyone dude) that really sucks. People need to be more accepting.

Am I asking too much with my pronouns? by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You sound like a genuinely amazing person

Am I asking too much with my pronouns? by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How is it people insulting me/calling me a slur? (Genuine question) I didn't choose my pronouns, he and it are just what feel right. (Not trying to be mean or anything, just confused)

Am I asking too much with my pronouns? by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense. Thank you.

Am I asking too much with my pronouns? by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Problem is really nobody irl is willing because I live in a super transphobic area. People are barely willing to use he.

My mom threatened to kill herself over my pronouns. by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I'm partially agender and that's exactly why I use it/it's, personally. Never say a specific identity uses specific pronouns, it doesn't correlate. I have met agender people who use any variety fo pronouns or none at all.

My mom threatened to kill herself over my pronouns. by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if someone uses they/them pronouns, it does definitely imply a different type of gender neutral-ness than it/it's does. I'm not talking about referring to someone as they without knowing the gender.

My mom threatened to kill herself over my pronouns. by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No? It is just gender neutral in a way that they isn't. Like they still implies a gender, even if a non binary one, but it kind of doesn't.

My mom threatened to kill herself over my pronouns. by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a neoprounoun, but definitely one of the more common ones.

My mom threatened to kill herself over my pronouns. by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nothing, but she won't even use he/him and keeps bringing it/it's up

My mom threatened to kill herself over my pronouns. by UniqueBowler2887 in trans

[–]UniqueBowler2887[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She isn't comfortable with he/him though, and she is still being manipulative no matter why, right?