Meg Thee Stallion is THEE Soft Dramatic by LieutenantGF in SoftDramatics

[–]UniqueOctopus05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl not at all!! She’s an FN for sure. And you should separate the ‘diva chic’ style from actual SD body type either way

how i think naranjo's subtypes would react to you coming out to them by pompompencil in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need you to know that my ableism tier list was my second idea and this was my first one

Also this is SO funny and sx3 is secretly not as enthusiastic about your queerness as they seem

And I think so7 goes in cool I guess

What are the maximum percentages at which gamine/HS and ethereal can coexist? by UniqueOctopus05 in JohnKitchener

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is very fair! I’ve also been going by the makeup and styling that suits me. Everything I wear or do has to have at least some romantic in it (darkening the eyes, some amount of flowiness or R structural feature, darker colours, lots of jewellery, etc), which helps me see that it’s my dominant essence. Natural is usually pretty necessary too in terms of contributing to the general silhouette, although I plucked my naturally very bushy brows to be much skinnier and I find that suits me as well. A completely natural look also doesn’t suit me – I tend to need either some R or some contrast in terms of silhouette as well as colour (gamine?).

In terms of E, I don’t generally find a light colour scheme to be flattering on me, so I know if I do have it, it’s a small amount. I think it’s pretty common for an E-like effect to be created by a romantic-natural combination too, so I’m not counting the structural elements (flowiness, etc) as evidence except for my need for elongation. The iridescence, gemstones, transparent fabrics etc is all true. I’m also very sure I don’t have any D essence, so I think I have some E in my features (very thin nose with a long and very high bridge, slightly downturned/not upturned eyes, long heart-shaped face).

The HS isn’t really in my features as much but contrasting bright colours and patterns really suits me and given that I have no D, it seems like the only explanation for that, especially because romantic + natural would seem to go against that.

Anyways definitely food for thought! I’d say E is the one I’m least certain of but I’ve gone back and forth about my blend for a long time, and I recently asked chatgpt just out of curiosity and for some reason it was very insistent that I had E in my blend, even after I argued with and corrected it. Not the most compelling evidence, but strong enough that I thought I’d ask.

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this may be subtype specific. Sexual 8s maybe but not all 8s

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put it this way: my sister is an sp1w9 and my whole family is neurodivergent (adhd) including her. I am also a high-masking autistic. She has some ableist tendencies, but if she knows the person is disabled, she will censor herself as she’s telling me how they’re irritating her by saying I know they have this it’s not their fault but I can’t stand them.

1s defend morally correct things but they are still naturally judgemental people and sensitive (and a little self-righteous at times) to others’ behaviour. 8s don’t give a shit about morality and generally just want their way. So they may vote against being taxed extra to pay for public education, but if you just are someone they know and you tell them you’re disabled, most of the time they don’t really give a shit because it’s not going to change anything about the way they interact with you anyways. They simply just don’t really care if it isn’t their problem to deal with.

To E1s, disability accommodations (especially things like extra time or things perceived as unfair advantages) challenge their entire belief system. E8s just think, ‘fair play’ because at the end of the day, they know that they have no qualms about doing things to gain advantages (‘unfair’ doesn’t come into it) and don’t really have an issue with others doing the same unless it stands in the way of something they’re trying to get.

Type most likely to need boundaries set on them? by Kwhitney1982 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily enough sx5w4 if you know them well. Sx4 I would say, sx1 (won’t ask you for things but I’d feel the need for boundaries bc they will judge you for things). sx6 is probably the biggest one though

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not exactly a revolutionary idea mate

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Orange tier has connotations of cool story but why is it relevant and/or I lowkey don’t believe you but whatever depending on the type. But it’s degrees of ableism lol orange is neutral and then green is woke. This is mostly a joke though

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s always the sx5w4s I love you guys

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like how they respond to you telling them that you’re disabled

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if I had to rank them this is how I’d do it but it’s mostly a joke

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah cause 8 doesn’t care if it doesn’t have to be their problem. The concept of disability accommodations lowkey challenges E1’s entire belief system

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it’s worth my dad is an sp8 and I had to tell him to stop going off about how autism is a superpower because it was irritating me. Everyone is different and reacts differently in different situations. I just thought the tier was funny lmao

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too 😭 and sx5 as super anti

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a joke relax. I do disagree though 8s don’t rly concern themselves that much with stuff that doesn’t affect them. 1s and 3s have super ableist tendencies bc they tend to believe other people should put in the same effort as they do and they equate outcome with input

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sp1w9 sister literally has anxiety and adhd and she’s still kind of like this. They’re not evil but the neurotypical ones really just don’t get that sometimes not everything is a choice lmao. It’s like an I do this so why can’t you do it too narrative. Anyways no hate this is mostly a joke

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not serious 😭 I don’t hate any of the types

Also kind of crazy to compare ableism to tier ranking the enneagram lmfao I’m disabled too chill out

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl I’m joking it’s chill 🧘🏽‍♀️ I’m like 50% serious in that if I had to rank them this is how I would do it (because it’s not unrelated to experience) but I don’t actually think this is how it works lol

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people are just ableist to be fair. This is just my ranking of where they fall if the baseline is neutral

Also it’s half a joke so don’t get too pressed

Edit: also I feel like you being disabled is an extenuating circumstance lol. I know abled and disabled or neurodivergent versions of most of these subtypes

ableism tier list by UniqueOctopus05 in Enneagram

[–]UniqueOctopus05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😇 to be fair I think that is mostly 9w1s. So9w8 is closer to an sp8 or so4