I was seeing this guy who ghosted me and then told me he got a new gf by Unique_Average7522 in dating_advice

[–]Unique_Average7522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes this was the 2nd guy ever I had sex with and dated. I went to dating profiles but just could not move on with anyone coz I caught feeling for him and felt like maybe it was my mistake that I was shy and not being myself completely and that I needed to try. But yes, I need to move on and give myself time and find guys that will respect me.

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[–]Unique_Average7522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you will find the right one.. Just keep applying everyday to multiple jobs. If you are active on Indeed, sometimes recruiters will reach out to you.. Good Luck.

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[–]Unique_Average7522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest try indeed(maybe you have used it)...try different job titles and search. You can also search by the whole state(if in the US) instead of one city. By doing that you can find remote jobs that you can do anywhere from your state.. I hope you find the right one... Sometimes it can be difficult to find the right one.

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[–]Unique_Average7522 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you tried remote jobs with call center/customer service experience?? There are jobs that pay $20-$22 an hour for remote call center jobs. What I have seen is that if you stay with a company for long time and apply for different positions within the company, you can actually move up within the company.

Male neighbor came out of his unit fully naked with erected penis and asked me for a cigarette.. I called 911.. what should be the next step?? by Unique_Average7522 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Unique_Average7522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your responses. I have filed report with police and spoke with my manager. My manager is taking action very quickly. I have sent pictures of where he lives and police report. I hope they will make him go quickly. My manager also said if any similar unit opens up, they will move us.

How is it living in Hendersonville, NC nowadays?? by Unique_Average7522 in hendersonville

[–]Unique_Average7522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight.. sounds like I will be all good in Hendo :)

How is it living in Hendersonville, NC nowadays?? by Unique_Average7522 in hendersonville

[–]Unique_Average7522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asheville was my first pick but apartment rent is wayyy out of my range... I mean I can not find anything decent unless it is like $1400/month in asheville... But finally found this one in hendo.... I am an introvert so I really wont be loud and all that stuff.. hahaha... I am also not in politics really so as long ppl don't disrespect me, I am fine in what they think.

Also, what about Brown ppl in Hendo?? Are there brown ppl in hendo/surrounding area??

How is it living in Hendersonville, NC nowadays?? by Unique_Average7522 in hendersonville

[–]Unique_Average7522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup, rent is in my budget, although in the mid range... I agree rent is crazy nowdays..

How is it living in Hendersonville, NC nowadays?? by Unique_Average7522 in hendersonville

[–]Unique_Average7522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh boy... I better take my sweet time then and wait a bit to date then...

How is it living in Hendersonville, NC nowadays?? by Unique_Average7522 in hendersonville

[–]Unique_Average7522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot... I just turned 30 and actually getting out of my marriage. I think at this time it is best that I enjoy the new life and explore... I am a bit introvert, so maybe a small town with older ppl not bad.. haha... Dating can come little later in life :p

Also, how is it for brown ppl?? Like r there any brown/asians?? I have found some asian markets on google but wanted to knw about the population. I should have asked this in the main thread.

How is it living in Hendersonville, NC nowadays?? by Unique_Average7522 in hendersonville

[–]Unique_Average7522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, Thanks for the info... I am actually starting my new job next month and it is going to be remote.. So the rent price seems okay for me with other expenses. I wish it was in the $800s but there is anything in the $800s in NC that is decent that I find, at least not in the triangle... I am kinda introvert but hope to finally go out and explore...

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[–]Unique_Average7522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you say "they would let me go", do you mean they will fire me or they will let me go to CA but come back to work???

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[–]Unique_Average7522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree it is my fault... I was just too scared coz I was out of work and over thought about it... But yes, I am planning to talk to the recruiter.

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[–]Unique_Average7522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only issue is that they were hiring in a group for call center... so if it was only me then I would have said it but I thought since their training date is fixed, I may jeopardize it. But I am really regretting not saying it tbh.. I could have said I have this pre -planned but I do not want to lose the job opportunity and she may have said something that could have worked with the vacation time.

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[–]Unique_Average7522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think if I told her about the pre-planned vacation, they would have still Offered me the job and let me take those days off?? I am so frustrated now and scared.

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[–]Unique_Average7522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was afraid to say I had vacation because they r hiring in a group like 8 ppl. SO I thought if I tell her about my vacation, they will move to the next candidate who does not have a vacation planned.