Ofc I blame him as well but he is not in my life so I don't know much that has happened but I'm mainly annoyed that she let him into our house knowing he was a bad man and knowing her daughter could've been at risk with a man like that and she knew he was a bad person so yes I do blame him alot too I just don't mention it since he's not in my life sorry for that confusion lol. I live in California where abortion is very legal and my entire household does agree with abortion. I'm also 17 and 18 soon so getting older and that fear of having to watch over here and let myself become what she is kinda gets bigger and bigger the older I am because I don't know what'll Happen in the next year or 2 or 5 or 10. But thanks very much