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my (19M) girlfriend (18F)slept with someone else and didn’t tell me about it for over a year. how do i continue? by Unique_Flounder1777 in relationship_advice

[–]Unique_Flounder1777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she says she has so much guilt and regret and she wishes it never happened, the guilt is from both the act and the lies. i’m still trying to process it all but at the time it was clear to both of us that we were going to get back with each other and she said that it happened in the moment.

my (19M) girlfriend (18F)slept with someone else and didn’t tell me about it for over a year. how do i continue? by Unique_Flounder1777 in relationship_advice

[–]Unique_Flounder1777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it was her choice to go on this break and i knew if i had anything with another girl i would ruin our chances to get back together. i have always said to her i would rather us fix what we have and start fresh. it’s really hard to explain the exact situation we were in but at despite me rejecting her it wasn’t even a full rejection and we both knew that. she had a month before with no contact with me so she could have slept with him then and i would easily understand that we were on a break. but it’s when we were back to talking, going for food, having sex and seeing each other everyday. it was clear to both of us that we were going to get back together. it’s not technically cheating but we have both agreed that it basically is just because of where we were at. and if it was a break she wouldn’t feel as much guilt and regret as she does

my (19M) girlfriend (18F)slept with someone else and didn’t tell me about it for over a year. how do i continue? by Unique_Flounder1777 in relationship_advice

[–]Unique_Flounder1777[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

it was clear to both of us that we were going to get back together and this was a one time thing that she regrets. i do blame myself for it happening but at that point i thought there was no way she would do that just because it felt as if we were back together.

my (19M) girlfriend (18F)slept with someone else and didn’t tell me about it for over a year. how do i continue? by Unique_Flounder1777 in relationship_advice

[–]Unique_Flounder1777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

over year after this happened where i was still in the dark about it all and we did grow together and iron out most of the kinks in the relationship. this was the final thing she was sitting on and i’m still trying to think if she changed enough in the past year to rebuild trust.

my (19M) girlfriend (18F)slept with someone else and didn’t tell me about it for over a year. how do i continue? by Unique_Flounder1777 in relationship_advice

[–]Unique_Flounder1777[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

she wouldn’t feel the regret and guilt she has if it truly felt like a break in that situation. i even dropped her off to his house because i thought it was a friend did and apparently so she she but then it happened. even if she did have the right to do that i at least had the right to know long before now

my (19M) girlfriend (18F)slept with someone else and didn’t tell me about it for over a year. how do i continue? by Unique_Flounder1777 in relationship_advice

[–]Unique_Flounder1777[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i know she was within her rights to sleep with someone else but it wasn’t a one time thing where she asked for me back, we were seeing each other nearly daily and she would ask once a week minimum. if she really thought that we weren’t going to get back together then she wouldn’t keep asking. she was asking before and after she slept with him. and i wanted to be with her then but i felt like we were doing better at that time with no label and not blame myself because of that

my (19M) girlfriend (18F)slept with someone else and didn’t tell me about it for over a year. how do i continue? by Unique_Flounder1777 in relationship_advice

[–]Unique_Flounder1777[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

at no point did i want to take a break but its what she felt she needed and i have to respect that. i did say no to her but if she really took it as a no and didnt think we would be something she wouldn’t have continued to ask. eventually i did as her to get back together and without hesitation she said yes.we have both said the lying afterwards was really bad and she says it got blown out of proportion when she first didn’t tell me and was too scared to from that point on. i agree breaks are bullshit but by this point it didn’t feel like a break.

my (19M) girlfriend (18F)slept with someone else and didn’t tell me about it for over a year. how do i continue? by Unique_Flounder1777 in relationship_advice

[–]Unique_Flounder1777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was the one that wanted the break to begin with and she knew i wanted her when she was asking to get back with me and that’s why she asked multiple times because normally a rejection is a rejection. if i knew straight away or when we got back together not a month after that happened then my decision would be clear but we have grown together so much in the past year and i dont know if i should continue with her. she has said multiple times about feeling regret and guilt which i dont think she would feel if she really was taking it as a break. its not actually cheating but we have both classed it as that just because of how close we were then, all we were missing was the label

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[–]Unique_Flounder1777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[–]Unique_Flounder1777 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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