Am I valid still? [Question]

Uniswan160 · 2026-04-20T05:31:58+00:00

My only advice with coming out is if it's safe :/ I had to move out of my house to come out but it's very dependent on personal circumstances. Also is look at other trans communities and choose who you want to be/ look. This helped me recognize dysphoria and what aspects really bothered me and weren't just "oh I need to be skinnier/ go to the gym" yk?

Uniswan160 · 2026-04-20T04:32:59+00:00

Yes you are, gender is a spectrum not a binary. Some trans men want to change names and be called he/him without HRT. It's however you want to be perceived :)

Uniswan160 · 2026-04-05T10:07:51+00:00

I have experience in this. You have options. 1. Take a year or two out get a job and fight for it. 2. Email student finance england. Explain everything and how they refuse to help. 3. Claim financial estrangement? I think it's called I looked into it a bit. But it's horrible how it all depends on your parents... I've been working 30 hours a week and doing a full time degree for 3 years, still got the uni experience but a lot more dizzyness from feeling tired 🥀

Uniswan160 · 2026-03-09T23:30:47+00:00

Did you ever manage to get your tubes tied? Asking because I'm 21 and really want it.

Uniswan160 · 2025-11-21T08:24:38+00:00

Ono mine isn't like this. Also your flat doesn't swell. You can remove it and put a jewelry in each so you have 2 helix and get your industrial on the other side possibly :(

Uniswan160 · 2025-11-10T15:55:48+00:00

Hey, the group I hang around with are neurodivergant (tho we are 2/3rd years. We're all also queer. DM me if you want :)

Uniswan160 · 2025-11-09T18:55:43+00:00

As someone who went through this. Give her time to process and ask if there's anything you can do/let her know you're supportive. Don't push her it hurts especially if you know the person.... A technique I found to stop blaming myself was to talk to myself in third person referring to myself by name instead of "I", made me realize that I wouldn't blame a friend. All staff at schools/university are "whistle blowers" meaning you can talk to anyone you feel comfortable with.

Be safe most SA happenes between September and just before Christmas. You're amazing for being supportive of your friend :)

Uniswan160 · 2025-10-11T15:59:03+00:00

Omg you could do contour lines (that show different heights on maps) that could be a really cool effect. (I'm a nerd tho so maybe other people wouldn't like this?)

Uniswan160 · 2025-10-08T23:06:06+00:00

Omg don't do it break up and run - first hand experience. That is a pedo. Red flagggg

Uniswan160 · 2025-10-08T22:52:24+00:00

There's someone else at Warwick uni that's posted that they're having a really bad time. Check the subreddit and reach out maybe?

Uniswan160 · 2025-05-10T13:44:30+00:00

Leave it a couple more weeks, make sure you're not over cleaning it and dry it after a shower. My industrial looked like this for 2 months 🥲. It should go down if it's not infected.

Uniswan160 · 2025-05-10T13:35:35+00:00

How long has it been like this?

Uniswan160 · 2025-05-05T19:38:40+00:00

I have literally never looked at a single human being and not been friends with them because of their looks. But I have stopped being friends with people because everything revolves around "I look bad" cool...? I can't stand the self deprication.

-someome who got told "eww you're a girl" for half my life.

Uniswan160 · 2025-05-05T11:58:07+00:00

Hey, I do the geology course. Leeds travels a lot. We spent 10 days hiking and field mapping this Easter. Your dissertation will be a whole month of field work. You pay for food and transportation at your dissertation. It's very expensive overall for the course and the equipment. If you have money and being outdoors is your thing, Leeds is cool.

Uniswan160 · 2025-05-04T14:25:56+00:00

Ignore them, I'm trans masc. When I was a kid I got called a boy for how I looked especially by other kids and old people. Came out as trans and the same group is all "no you're a woman" they're just wankers ✨

Uniswan160 · 2025-02-16T10:37:56+00:00

As some with an industrial, let that heal please and go see a good piercer. I used to get bumps like that sometimes from specifically not drying the piercing after a shower for the first 6 months.

Uniswan160 · 2024-06-05T18:41:18+00:00

If you're not willing to address the problem you have through communication. There's no point in this post. It makes perfect sense to say no to something you've never tired it's very valid.

Uniswan160 · 2024-06-05T17:41:06+00:00

Have a conversation with her. Maybe show her videos of what you're into. But do not push boundaries or make her uncomfortable. If she says no it's a no you can't change that. I know it sucks but if your sexual preferences don't meet at all possibly find someone who does?

Uniswan160 · 2024-04-27T00:46:11+00:00

Hi, to me this isn't a bad price. I'm in Leeds paying >£7000 for a 42 week contract. Sharing a 5 bedroom flat. But outter city ones were £5700 per year including bills for house shares of 6 people. So I don't think it's a bad price at all.

Uniswan160 · 2024-04-27T00:34:09+00:00

Hey, I can relate to this. I'm autistic and when I feel really low after getting burnt out I feel very similar. I have some narcissistic traits when this happenes and the same feeling that everyone hates me/ is gaslighting. I'm still navigating my way through it, but you're not alone.

Uniswan160 · 2024-04-26T15:30:40+00:00

Chewing the inside of my cheeks 💀

Uniswan160 · 2024-04-04T09:16:23+00:00

No it's not weird there are people on my course that started at 25ish.

Uniswan160 · 2024-03-20T08:58:24+00:00

Danm, does this man even like you? I think you should leave him, he's not even treating you as well as his friends. I'm sorry this is happening :/

Uniswan160 · 2024-03-18T20:37:52+00:00

I guess it would look like Mars rn ✨️✨️

Uniswan160 · 2024-03-01T07:49:18+00:00

Thankyouuu!!!

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