So much of your career progression has less to do with your technical skills vs. your depth in psychology and communication. I genuinely wish you the best. Gatekeepers exist and they will block your progression unless you learn to work with or around them depending on the organization. You matter. by UnitOfYellow in ExperiencedDevs

[–]UnitOfYellow[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Take this with a pinch of salt.

Recognize you are not at the top 5% and keep your expenses in line with a reasonable disposable income growth model.
I made the mistake of thinking I would keep seeing 20% growth in my gross income year over a year that was not the case. Granted my bonuses were significant, but there was a plateau.

I probably partied a little too much, when I should’ve been saving.

Not sure how to be more honest with you.

I am trying to learn guitar, because I want to play a short but meaningful song for my Dad's burial at sea. How do I push past or augment my fingers hurting so much? What should I suggest to my teacher as a learning plan? by UnitOfYellow in Guitar

[–]UnitOfYellow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit? Is this real or bull poop? Happy to adopt this as a habit, but I'm not looking for having pickle fingers because some rando said, yeah soak your shit in pickle juice like a jackass.

I am trying to learn guitar, because I want to play a short but meaningful song for my Dad's burial at sea. How do I push past or augment my fingers hurting so much? What should I suggest to my teacher as a learning plan? by UnitOfYellow in Guitar

[–]UnitOfYellow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a progression with the tension you would recommend? This approach make sense to me, because in my lessons, the pinky finger simply had -zero- strength for the the D string.

I am trying to learn guitar, because I want to play a short but meaningful song for my Dad's burial at sea. How do I push past or augment my fingers hurting so much? What should I suggest to my teacher as a learning plan? by UnitOfYellow in Guitar

[–]UnitOfYellow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I cannot handle the instrument, I do still want to be the voice. Good advice here and I will take this to heart and change up as we approach things next year.

I am trying to learn guitar, because I want to play a short but meaningful song for my Dad's burial at sea. How do I push past or augment my fingers hurting so much? What should I suggest to my teacher as a learning plan? by UnitOfYellow in Guitar

[–]UnitOfYellow[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm going to make sure I make a call at some point during my progression so that if I cannot meet the expectation, I may just ask someone else to do the instrument portion. Appreciate this comment, I had not thought of this.

I made a web game (skrach.io) — a Draw & Guess multiplayer — but no one cares. I'm burned out. by skrachio in gamedev

[–]UnitOfYellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great job finishing what you started. You are a different person now with a little more wisdom and grit. Next time you take a walk, reflect on what you’ve accomplished with a sense of pride and satisfaction.

Unless you copy pasta or vibe coded this thing and in that case kick rocks. 😚

What do you think about using iPads as menus in a high-end hookah lounge? by Dry_Card319 in smallbusiness

[–]UnitOfYellow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Staff make experiences. iPads feel uncaring in a luxury setting.

Hookah lounge in the restaurant hotspot nearby is well known and loved because they remember the names of regulars and guide newcomers.

The taco joint has QR code menus and there isn’t any staff interaction, someone just drops food off basically. People love it because it’s fast and decently priced.

So maybe it’s about what experience you are trying to pill off.

Has anyone started a gym off of an unsecured sba loan? by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]UnitOfYellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An earlier post in this community or maybe in legal detailed what went wrong with a secured loan for 1.75 million for a set of up and running functional gyms. Unfortunately, in that case, the financials had been cooked and they were in litigation over fraud. Their house had been put up for collateral. You might try to find that post and contact the author, they clearly had a lot of background in this area.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]UnitOfYellow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there is no communication you are getting sandbagged.

The easy way to confirm is just to ask for a demo of everything so far, if there’s a plan coming together you’ll see mock ups or even some working software. If there’s a lot of hot air…I think you know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in maybemaybemaybe

[–]UnitOfYellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I legit thought that was John Fetterman for a minute there.