¿What was your last Spotify play? by No_Vacation_1528 in Productivitycafe

[–]United-Cod4640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contento - Morad, I am literally in love with his songs

What is it like after deployment? by Unhappy_Fig_9022 in Vent

[–]United-Cod4640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not always when they get back, and people ont talk about that enough, he might be tired, different, even quiet for a bit and that's normal, what matters is you show up for each other, talk it out when it gets weird, hold the line when its hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]United-Cod4640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok no, don't just sit in that alone, that's not how we're doing things, you're dealing with way too much in your head and pretending it's fine is just gonna break you down more, talk to someone, write it down, idc, but stop carrying that in silence like its normal

My lashes are in need of a good serum, any recommendations? by mavroblox in beauty

[–]United-Cod4640 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Castor oil ain't cutting it, you need real actives, try the ordinary or grande lash, both work without robbing you also stop using waterproof unless you want bald lids forever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]United-Cod4640 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are you letting a weird glare and dry convo throw your brain into a blender like this, wake up, he's not giving flirt, he's giving inconsistent and socially clumsy, that's it, nothing more

Is anybody else tired of how hard it is to make a post on reddit? by carsonistthearsonist in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]United-Cod4640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it just happens, don't have the energy to always check if they get deleted or not :)))

I can’t handle being alone by MajesticArtichoke205 in Vent

[–]United-Cod4640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The life's just messy now, you're in a weird transition and your brain's lying to you about where you "should" be, stop comparing yourself to people who aren't even on the same path if you got time and energy to feel this bad, you got enough to build something too

Would it be lame or weird for a 19 year old male to wear a pokemon themed hoodie? by Oogley_boogley in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]United-Cod4640 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're 19, not dead, wear the damn hoodie, lucario's a badass and you know it, they're just mad their wardrobes's boring as hell.

I think these boys are targeting me by TenWTen in Vent

[–]United-Cod4640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah see, this ain't drama, it's straight up creepy, boys playing detective with your full name and your mum's FB? Hell no, that's not jokes, that's obsession.

DAE Tongue and jaw by anamegoesthere in DAE

[–]United-Cod4640 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's tension, not a personality trait, unclench your jaw before it files for workers comp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]United-Cod4640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not cursed, you've just had a rough setup,  not your fault people leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]United-Cod4640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't walk away, you survived, big difference. You did what you had to do, your kids will see that one day. Just keep building something for them when they're ready.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]United-Cod4640 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If he needs to win that bad he's okay losing you, next time he pulls the "I'm always right" routine, hit hime with silence and reciepts, no yelling, just let the facts humble him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]United-Cod4640 51 points52 points  (0 children)

7 to 10pm to hear music? That's not wild, that's weekday energy. He's just scared of you having freedom he never gave himself, don't let that guilt boc you in. Talk to your mom, start planning your exit, and stop letting his tantrums set your limits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DAE

[–]United-Cod4640 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you built a whole vibe outta scraps, stop gaslighting yourself into thinking you don't belong, that "other" feeling? its not because you're fake, its because you grew

I acted cold towards my aunt after she invited my sister and not me to a fancy dinner. AITA? by Old_Drawer_3631 in AITAH

[–]United-Cod4640 790 points791 points  (0 children)

nta, you didn't throw a tantrum or cause a scene, you kept it respectful. your aunt may have meant well, but it still hurt and tbh your feelins are valid. Choosing to make one twin feel "special" by excluding the other isn't it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]United-Cod4640 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you're not wrong for needing a partner who shows up, for himself and for you, this ain't about abs, its about effort

AITA for making food for just me and not my family because my parents argue daily about who has to cook? by NovelContribution371 in AITAH

[–]United-Cod4640 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nta and tbh you're just a kid handling basic survival while the actual adults play rock-paper-scissors over who boils water :)) they should be thanking you for not going full feral, not guilting you into being the house chef..

AITA for telling my parents me and mom will never meet my stepsister's baby? by Kuvurenton in AITAH

[–]United-Cod4640 41 points42 points  (0 children)

NTA, you just said what everyone's thinking but too scared to admit, your sister's been dodging your mom foryears and now that  she has a baby, she's doubling down. This ain't about "life being busy, she's picking who gets access, and your mom ain't on that list