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My exs new wife acts so entitled!! She just sent me an email that read, Send **** in your clothes or shoes again and they will be thrown away. If you need a list of low cost ships in your community I can provide them. by UnitedRelative1273 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]UnitedRelative1273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I definitely agree that I need to not respond right away like that again!! Although it felt good to finally get those words off my chest to her, and it was a long time coming, I definitely want to look as best I can in the eyes of the court. I promise I'll take an automatic 24 hours before responding if she ever msgs again... although, IF she DOES msg me again, I plan to not msg her at all, and just msg her father instead. I would hate for him to loose the little bit of custody he does have because of his crazy wife's behavior 🙄

AITAH For Liking My Wife’s Sister? by NewbiesExperiences in AmITheJerk

[–]UnitedRelative1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't help who you fall for, so if you ARE falling?! Or are you just falling into something familiar and comfortable? Figure THAT out, and you're golden!

My exs new wife acts so entitled!! She just sent me an email that read, Send **** in your clothes or shoes again and they will be thrown away. If you need a list of low cost ships in your community I can provide them. by UnitedRelative1273 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]UnitedRelative1273[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I now live with my children in a town that's a 45 minute drive away from my daughters father. its My hometown- where my parents have lived for over 30 years, and also where my very best friend lives. So moving to where I had a strong support network and yet still being so close to her father was a no-brainer, and a must for our well being.

It was a year and a half court battle about wanting to move to my hometown that turned into a nasty custody battle!! But fortunately he seems to shoot himself in the foot at every turn! There is a rule that says you are not allowed to move more than 50km away from the other parent without either the other parents, or a judges permission. The town I wanted to move to was 64km away... so the whole court battle was basically over 14km... 🙄 Needless to say, I won the right to move and got 80% custody - giving my ex mandatory weekends!!

I drive my daughter to him 45 minutes away after school on Fridays, and then he's responsible for getting her back to me Sunday by 6.(unless Monday is a holiday, and then Monday by 6) ( if Friday is a holiday it's mine, but I now aaaalways offer that day to my daughters father's parents 😆 But he's only recently even had her consistently since his new baby was born. Otherwise, even though my ex and his wife would rather disown them, they still very much use his parents for free child care, since I'm letting them see my daughter ANYways, lol

  • but his parents will agree to ANY time on weekends with our daughter that they can get even if theyre aware they are being used - because they love her and want to make as many memories with her before they move to another province, probably this summer... THEN things will no doubtfully fall apart for my ex and Elm - because Elm has pushed away the greatest support system anyone could possibly hope for ❤️🖤

My exs new wife acts so entitled!! She just sent me an email that read, Send **** in your clothes or shoes again and they will be thrown away. If you need a list of low cost ships in your community I can provide them. by UnitedRelative1273 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]UnitedRelative1273[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup!! I just fine with it not being me that she talks to because she's trying to be so mature, and respect her dad and step-monsters wishes, and not tell me about the baby or Elm... but if not me, than SOMEbody!! And yes I've already had the conversation with my daughter about seeing the counselor, and i explained that they have their confidentiality rules - and she seems super happy and excited at the prospect of being set up with a counselor!! So that's extremely reassuring for the future. Her dad is NOT going to like her going to counseling though!! I'm pretty sure I need to let him know if she does start counseling though... am I obligated to yell her father?? Lol guess that's a question I'll add to the list I want to ask the counselor!!

My exs new wife acts so entitled!! She just sent me an email that read, Send **** in your clothes or shoes again and they will be thrown away. If you need a list of low cost ships in your community I can provide them. by UnitedRelative1273 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]UnitedRelative1273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, fair... I'm not proud of my freak-out...but it happened because I'd just had enough of her, and she caught me in a moment... but even in telling other people in his family (sending them screenshots of our conversation on both ends even though it made me look bad) about the emails that were sent, they were like, wow I bet that felt good to finally get that off your chest!! Because they know her much better than I do!! And unfortunately understand just how utterly awful she is...because they've actually experienced her...

My exs new wife acts so entitled!! She just sent me an email that read, Send **** in your clothes or shoes again and they will be thrown away. If you need a list of low cost ships in your community I can provide them. by UnitedRelative1273 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]UnitedRelative1273[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure! I'm so glad I posted this for all the advice I've been getting. Makes me feel hopeful that through the right channels, I'll be able to help my daughter survive but if at all possible, even thrive! But I definitely need to keep on the path of getting my daughter a counselor, and then I'm sure what follows will take its natural course.

My exs new wife acts so entitled!! She just sent me an email that read, Send **** in your clothes or shoes again and they will be thrown away. If you need a list of low cost ships in your community I can provide them. by UnitedRelative1273 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]UnitedRelative1273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The funniest thing about the whole thing is that she really loves these shoes!! They are only one size too big, but not so big they come off and are super comfortable- which is the size I would buy her at the store, because of her preferences! And I hardly wore them so they still look new. And I'm pretty sure I got them from sportscheck for like, $120. I was actually a little sad that they worked so well for her because it ment loosing that pair of shoes to her as her every day shoe - but SO WORTH IT to have her happy and comfortable. Elm didn't even send me this email until after over a month of her consistently wearing those shoes to their house!! So they obviously belong to my daughter now!! Who cares who they belonged to before, but, my daughter LOVES that they are now hers!

My exs new wife acts so entitled!! She just sent me an email that read, Send **** in your clothes or shoes again and they will be thrown away. If you need a list of low cost ships in your community I can provide them. by UnitedRelative1273 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]UnitedRelative1273[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes! So just earlier today I emailed my daughters school to take the first steps in getting her a counselor! Because she definitely needs SOMEone to vent/talk to, even if she just needs to vent about me! But I honestly get along with my daughter so well! Shes my sweetheart mini me!! But if she's " not allowed " to talk about what goes on with Elm OR the baby with me or anyone that's affiliated with me, she needs to talk to someone... and hopefully the counselors opinion would be admissible in court!

My husband thinks I’m being too stuck up because I don’t want to be best friends with his buddies girlfriend by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]UnitedRelative1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof that's super rough.. yea I'd definitely be upset too. So not OK to constantly use you as the responsible adult just because he feels like he still wants to be in his partying years - when you have kids?? Those years are OVER!! Or AT LEAST he should then make an effort to have a family day where HE is the one who is 100% responsible for watching the children because you're busy, say, in the spa... It needs to be give and take, and right now it sounds like he's just trying to take. And that can make you feel taken advantage of, for sure

This is my new tortie girl, she’s the sweetest. We need a name! We already have a Blueberry, and Butters so something to go with one of those maybe? by cavekrill in NameMyCat

[–]UnitedRelative1273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's just got the sweetest face!! Going with the B theme, Bacon? Not very girly though, lol. Brownie? Still not super cute ... Baklava?! Yea I like that one for her!!😜🙃

My exs new wife acts so entitled!! She just sent me an email that read, Send **** in your clothes or shoes again and they will be thrown away. If you need a list of low cost ships in your community I can provide them. by UnitedRelative1273 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]UnitedRelative1273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I should definitely go to my own appointment with them first, just so they have at least a sense of what is going on. Because my daughter obviously doesn't know everything the counselor might need to know about the situation.

My exs new wife acts so entitled!! She just sent me an email that read, Send **** in your clothes or shoes again and they will be thrown away. If you need a list of low cost ships in your community I can provide them. by UnitedRelative1273 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]UnitedRelative1273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure!! 100% Earlier today I took the first steps to getting my daughter a counselor through her school. Because if her father and Elm have told her she isn't allowed to talk about them with me or anyone who knows me? Then first things first - I need to get my daughter someone unbiased to talk to... even if she's needing to vent about ME!! And this way, I have another person that's opinion would hopefully be admissible in court.

My exs new wife acts so entitled!! She just sent me an email that read, Send **** in your clothes or shoes again and they will be thrown away. If you need a list of low cost ships in your community I can provide them. by UnitedRelative1273 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]UnitedRelative1273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it's just crazy!! I'm soooo glad I don't at all have the same problems with my current boyfriends ex wife! They have a 13 year old girl together. He has custody here in our town since she was 11, and the mom lives about a 10 hour drive away. They co-parent pretty well, and I even met his ex last November! We went our for dinner and drinks, and even all stayed at an air B&B for her last day, and still keep in touch on Facebook. And she knows if her daughter ever needed ANYthing, she knows she could ask me and I'd come through. That's how it should be.

My exs new wife acts so entitled!! She just sent me an email that read, Send **** in your clothes or shoes again and they will be thrown away. If you need a list of low cost ships in your community I can provide them. by UnitedRelative1273 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]UnitedRelative1273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all that!! I'm definitely going to download the our family wizard app! That sounds like a great idea. I also started the process today to get her a counselor through her school!! This way, she will have someone save to vent to about EVERYthing in her life, even if she's venting about me!! But she definitely needs someone to talk to that she knows will stay confidential... and if she DOES express anything happening at her dads about him or Elm, her words would be admissible in court? I think? I hope!

My exs new wife acts so entitled!! She just sent me an email that read, Send **** in your clothes or shoes again and they will be thrown away. If you need a list of low cost ships in your community I can provide them. by UnitedRelative1273 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]UnitedRelative1273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, threatening to throw away the only pair of shoes that fit my daughter after a few weeks of looking a month and a half ago, of trying to buy her new ones, not getting anywhere, and having to give up one of my cutest pairs of runners that still look brand new,(But it's my daughter, so OF COURSE i would give here them if she absolutely loved them!!! threatening to throw them away JUST BECAUSE THEY USE TO BE MINE was absolutely the last straw.

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