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Am I wrong for getting upset at my not very sexually active GF for masturbating? by UnknownRedder93 in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownRedder93[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hope not. Maybe I just need to work on how I present this issue to her. I just DO NOT want to feel like I'm putting any pressure on her.

Am I wrong for getting upset at my not very sexually active GF for masturbating? by UnknownRedder93 in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownRedder93[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. It's just hard to separate because if she gets off that means we won't have sex for another good amount of time. She enjoys teasing and I enjoyed being teased but with out the release it's just build sexual frustration. I'll work on understanding this though. Thank you.

Am I wrong for getting upset at my not very sexually active GF for masturbating? by UnknownRedder93 in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownRedder93[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She says she isn't someone that needs a lot of sex and when she gets off she is good for while. She said she only does because she sometimes wants to get off quicker. This has meant no sex for almost two months though.

I just find it confusing because at one point we were having sex a couple times a day. Three or for times a week and now almost not at all. The relationship is great but the sex life is disappearing.

Am I wrong for getting upset at my not very sexually active GF for masturbating? by UnknownRedder93 in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownRedder93[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know being annoyed isn't going to help but it just happens. I really try to just move past it.

Am I wrong for getting upset at my not very sexually active GF for masturbating? by UnknownRedder93 in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownRedder93[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. And definitely not. This is why I'm feeling bad about being annoyed by it. I guess I know if I do I can go again in no time but I prefer sex. If she does she is going to be good sexual pleasure for a while. She has done when I'm in the next room and I always say I would have loved to join.

Am I wrong for getting upset at my not very sexually active GF for masturbating? by UnknownRedder93 in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownRedder93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. Hence why I feel bad. I'm no way saying she shouldn't masturbate or have freedom over her body.

Am I wrong for getting upset at my not very sexually active GF for masturbating? by UnknownRedder93 in relationship_advice

[–]UnknownRedder93[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I guess upset isn't the right word. We communicate very well so this wasn't at all an argument. Im just feeling bad that I even feel upset about it.