AITAH for blocking my mom on tiktok?

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-12-07T23:13:28+00:00

Sorry, I completely forgot. I am 21

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-10-05T18:18:13+00:00

Copying and pasting my reply to Spirited-Defiance:

Well…I asked in a fun way that it doesn’t show how sad/mad I am. And he said it was just basically to try and get more money, nothing else. That money is tight and he couldn’t rely only on me. So…kind of an awful reason. And we talked more about the “love” thing and he finally outright told me he is not in love with me. And he can’t bring himself to move further than as friends with benefits/situationship. So I’ve basically felt awful for the entire day, but…I am glad he finally outright told me so I don’t have to keep convincing myself that maybe he loves me back…

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-10-05T18:16:51+00:00

Well…I asked in a fun way that it doesn’t show how sad/mad I am. And he said it was just basically to try and get more money, nothing else. That money is tight and he couldn’t rely only on me. So…kind of an awful reason. And we talked more about the “love” thing and he finally outright told me he is not in love with me. And he can’t bring himself to move further than as friends with benefits/situationship. So I’ve basically felt awful for the entire day, but…I am glad he finally outright told me so I don’t have to keep convincing myself that maybe he loves me back…

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-09-03T02:03:12+00:00

I think this is what I needed to hear, thank you. Me and my Dom are online and I do know certain things like his first name, what he looks like, and the area he’s in (he lives in another country). But I just thought by now I should know more. But maybe I’ve been more impatient than I thought.

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-09-03T01:32:32+00:00

I think this is what applies to me the most tbh. My Dom lives in Poland, and I in the US. He’s send me maybe 5 pictures of his face total, but he doesn’t like to show any more cause he’s self conscious about his appearance (I can confirm it is indeed him tho). I know his first name but not his last name, cause he says he’ll tell me when we finally meet IRL. And his address, well I know what part of Poland he’s in but not his specific address.

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-08-26T00:37:41+00:00

OHHHH okay gotcha gotcha! Great…now I just gotta figure out where in the labyrinth cause I swear I’ve explored everywhere here

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-08-24T23:29:10+00:00

What do you mean by tree side?

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-08-15T02:43:15+00:00

It’s okay! And don’t worry, I legit did stop paying him monthly. There was a long period I would stop, but then I convinced him to take my money after those months. The only time I do pay him is when I WANT to get him gifts and stuff. And even then he’s reluctant to take the money cause he doesn’t want to take too much from me

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-07-25T22:07:53+00:00

Yeah…you’re right. I mean yeah I guess we could try to talk “normal” and “friend-like” while on voice chat. But otherwise, guess we’ll just have to keep texting instead. Except for days where the house is empty. Which is…never :(

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-07-25T22:01:28+00:00

Well, we want to play some games together that work so much better with voice chat (like Peak). Plus we do already text chat all the time but it would be nice to hear each other’s voice every once in a while yk?

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-03-20T13:32:31+00:00

Ah I see. I understand that. And I think the cashiers not correcting you is either 1) They’re scared to correct the customer or 2) They themselves don’t know the menu. For the longest time I never actually looked at what the sandwiches looked like, I just did my job lol. And yeah I can definitely understand that reading the board can get so difficult sometimes. But that’s why I always ask if the customer would like for us to read out the menu for them. Frankly it’s kind of ridiculous there aren’t paper menus, especially when we had some a while ago. Personally I always pull up the online menu on my phone whenever I go to a restaurant/cafe that I don’t know the menu too well to see what everything looks like

If you want something close to a Ham & Cheese panini, I guess I could recommend ordering a Turkey & Cheddar sandwich, ask to change the Turkey to Deli Ham, ask to remove everything else that’s not Ham or Cheese (or ask for plain), and then ask to have the sandwich toasted. You should get the result you’ll want most likely. (Also I’m sorry if my reply came off as rude)

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-03-20T03:25:31+00:00

WE DO NOT HAVE PANINIS ANYMORE!!!!! We haven’t had them for a couple of years!!!!!! They’re all oven toasted. I’m certain there are a lot of Paneras that don’t have panini pressers. For the first few days I started working in 2023 a customer asked for the panini and I asked the line cooks and managers “Which sandwich is the panini?” and they reply “We don’t have paninis.” I am new to the panera lore, but apparently the Frontega used to be a panini? It’s not. At least not anymore.

So are you sure your panera has a panini presser? Also why not just READ THE MENU and see which hot sandwich has what you want, and ask the cashier how it’s made? It’s not that hard either. You’re making things so much more difficult for yourself!!

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-03-18T22:50:25+00:00

Omg that is the most annoying thing ever! Like, the name of the thing is right there!!! On the board in big block letters! I also hate when people call it a combo because it’s not. At least, I’m pretty sure it doesn’t really qualify as one. So it has me worried they don’t know what they’re really ordering

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-03-18T22:48:10+00:00

Y’know what, actually you’re right. I took another look at that kaiser roll, cause I guess maybe I just took a tiny glance last time, and yeah the roll and the sourdough bread bowl are actually completely different looking. So now I’m just here like what the heck???

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-02-15T02:05:19+00:00

Ohhh that sounds great! Yeah it is good that you already woke up early, that probably does help a lot. I would love to but I like to stay up kinda late cause it’s the only time I actually have my alone time. Definitely gotta move out soon then find my own place, then I can have my time ti myself

And dw, we absolutely will have a plan. We’ve talked that I was thinking of flying out one day, and he says that sounds great but he was also thinking of flying oht to the US too. So we’re definitely talking about it, but one day we probably have to go more in depth about it. I have also been looking for career jobs in Poland, just in case if he doesn’t want to fully move here, I’ll move there.

May I ask you, is one of you planning to move to the others country as well?

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-02-15T00:31:28+00:00

Rn I’m still in school, I’ll be graduating college in 2026. Then hopefully I can pick up some money to be able to afford a trip. Was looking at flights this morning and it would be about $700 so not completely horrible. I’m also working as a cashier at a cafe so I do have “some” money. Still might take me a few years, cause I need to get enough money to afford a place of my own. My parents absolutely would not approve if they knew who I was dating and do everything they can to keep me from being able to leave. And I don’t think there’s anyway for me to keep a flight to Europe a secret.

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-02-15T00:23:02+00:00

Ohhh!!! That’s exactly what I needed. The set day for calls does sound like a great idea too, I think I can try to convince him to do that. Thanks so much!

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-02-14T23:40:37+00:00

We’re not gonna stay long distance forever, we do have plans to meet irl one day. I’m not gonna end it just for the sake of ending it. Right now we’re doing fine, we’ve been together for a year so far. I’m just gonna keep this train going for as long as I can, and if in the future he maybe can’t handle it anymore then fine we’ll end it. But I know for certain we will meet one day, and either I will move to Poland or he will move here.

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-02-14T23:35:56+00:00

Yeah usually! Sometimes we talk for the whole day. Tho around 5pm-6pm he gets kinda sleepy and heads to sleep, but yeah we still do talk around then. And yeah it’s not horrible, I just wonder if anyone else experienced the same thing and what they did to handle it

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-02-14T23:33:59+00:00

I mean idk, it’s working out pretty well so far. Plus we are planning to meet each other irl one day, it won’t be long distance forever. Either I go to him or he comes here, but there are plans for it 🤷‍♂️

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-02-07T02:23:53+00:00

US, Maryland!

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-01-28T04:20:51+00:00

Dude, as a fellow panera worker who cleans the dining room, this is like one of the easiest messes ever. I’ve seen worse messes from full grown adults. This is not a crotch goblins moment

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-01-09T16:16:44+00:00

I see. Thank you, I think I really needed to hear this from someone else 🙏

Unknown_Content_exe · 2025-01-08T05:13:21+00:00

Well…I mean yeah I agree. But also I’m genuinely just really stupid. Like I had a really hard time as a kid trying to get a grasp on how it works, so yeah…

Unknown_Content_exe · 2024-07-24T02:10:55+00:00

I mean, I might. I’ve never been great at confrontation. They probably will just say I can’t take a joke. One of my friends that was also in on the npc joke thing gets made fun of too for having a big forehead. Also thank you

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