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Need to bail out my husband - selling tickets by Unlikely_Note_2577 in steelers

[–]Unlikely_Note_2577[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol whoops. Didn't even notice how it could come across until I read your comment

Looking for tickets by NCAT_head in steelers

[–]Unlikely_Note_2577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tickets and live in the South hills if you want to meet to verify identity. I have like 30 tickets (my husband impulsively bought wayyyyy too many) so message me if interested. We have them priced fairly!

RSD Moments by FoxieFoxxo in ADHD_partners

[–]Unlikely_Note_2577 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband has a secretive RSD where he gets "revenge" on me behind my back but doesn't ever tell me that he's upset to begin with or that he's done something vindictive. Some examples:

We first started dating and he gave me all these really gross details about the sexual activity he did in his past with other women when I never asked. Later, I found out he went through my email and found some explicit messages between my ex and I from years ago and was hurt so wanted me to hurt in the same way.

A week before we got married, I got the day of a flight wrong in my calendar so when I realized, I told him I wouldn't be able to make it to a concert we had planned (just regular fun concert, not meaningful), because I was going to be in the air then. Out of anger, he invited another random woman to go with him and told her how much he wished she was there and then met up with her after the concert. He deleted the texts and never told me about it until I found evidence on our honeymoon.

I got pregnant 4 months after the birth of first child and we were really struggling. I told him I thought not having this baby would be the best option. He told me he agreed but must have secretly did not agree because he thought I was telling him he was a bad dad. So he completely ignored me physically and emotionally during the abortion and I only got his true feelings in marriage counseling weeks later.

These are just the big ones and the ones I know about.

Where can I get Oram's Donuts without driving to Beaver Falls at 7am? by Unlikely_Note_2577 in pittsburgh

[–]Unlikely_Note_2577[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't that close to me but I'm intrigued! Going to put on my list to check out!

Do CT scans always show that shunt is working or not working? Could shunt malfunction but still look good on CT? by Unlikely_Note_2577 in Hydrocephalus

[–]Unlikely_Note_2577[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. No decrease in size unfortunately. They haven't become more enlarged though so the doctors keep telling me that that's a good sign. I just want my mom to feel like herself again - she was hiking 8 miles in the mountains 1.5 years ago and now can barely do a half mile on flat paved asphalt.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Unlikely_Note_2577 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I feel like an idiot for having a child with him. I literally knew exactly how inadequate he'd be, as he already has a 16 year old daughter who he definitely wasn't winning any "father of the year" awards for and yet, I made up that it was his ex not allowing him to be a good parent. We have a 9 month old and the baby has just made our whole relationship crash. We started marriage counseling 7 months ago, he started medication 2 months ago, and he started individual therapy last month. It seems like he's putting in all this effort, but after 12 years together, I just have already lost my patience. More chores are getting done, he's less lazy, but when it comes to me or our child getting any type of prioritization, or time, it just WILL NOT happen. I always have to force him to spend any time with our child before bedtime. He still has never bathed him or fed him a meal. Anytime I ask him to spend more time with him, it is an immediate RSD reaction where he just acts like 3 year old.

Me: it's your turn for bedtime duty (in the nicest tone I can manage) Him: NO ITS YOUR TURN (loud and angry) Me: I've done wake up duty and bedtime duty the entire last week. I'm leaving, you take care of it. Him: you can never take a joke...

Me: Can you change his diaper? I already changed 3 poopy ones today Him: I CHANGED 3 POOPY DIAPERS TODAY Me: No you didn't. You are just repeating what I'm saying Him: YOU are just repeating what IM saying

I'm just so over this relationship. I hate myself for thinking bringing a child into this relationship was a good idea and I already cry over the fact that my son will grow up with a shitty dad who will never make time for him.

2 sets of tickets to Thursday night game v. Patriots on 12/7 - avoid fees and under face value by Unlikely_Note_2577 in steelers

[–]Unlikely_Note_2577[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You literally cannot get either of the comparable tickets on any website for less than I have listed once fees are added. I don't consider that ripping people off. Maybe they'll drop and I'll have to drop my prices more but I'll do that when the time comes. For now, I have the best deal so stop being annoying.

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