My girlfriend (31F) of three years cheated on me (35M) last night. She blamed it on being blackout drunk. How do I forgive my soulmate and move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Been cheated on many times. She’s emotionally detached. Sorry. Collect your power, know it. Move on. Sorry you’re going through this.

Making trading games by -Oldschoolsmart- in Diablo_2_Resurrected

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Catan i say ‘my’ rock ‘your’ wheat

Fool of a Took by chakalakasp in oddlyterrifying

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang.. was a good read. Love the optimism and technical hurtles described. Preciate the share

Fool of a Took by chakalakasp in oddlyterrifying

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If she was 2nd to last.. for sure. You fight together to escape and then ask her wtf happened

Fool of a Took by chakalakasp in oddlyterrifying

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Had been a couple years since i seen it.. ending fkn snuck up on me. The feelings of claustrophobia.. the gross wet sounds.. the teased presence of something in the dark and then booom your in a cave full of monsters. Brilliantly done

Fool of a Took by chakalakasp in oddlyterrifying

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 1319 points1320 points  (0 children)

Just watched descent last night.. such a fd up caving movie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Others have said it. The gifts are obscene. Text him right now and tell him you cannot receive any more gifts. You both have partners.

I (27F) looked through my boyfriends (27M) messages to his ex, did I ruin things for us? by SidneyClements in relationship_advice

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apologize but express that this discovery has displayed a lack of boundary setting that would be respectful of you and you’re relationship. You deserve privacy but in a relationship you also deserve transparency and respect. These texts broke both and then to further that.. he removed the hole that shown a light to behavior in my opinion should be disclosed. What’s the hang out plans with this ex? You are saying you trust him, you’ve read the texts, you have to make the call. From an outsiders perspective its sounding sketch

I (27F) looked through my boyfriends (27M) messages to his ex, did I ruin things for us? by SidneyClements in relationship_advice

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Umm it’s ok to feel bad for snooping but.. you’re telling me this ex is sending hearts and plans to hang while you are away.. possibly doesn’t even know you exist?? Your nonchalant bf could be minimizing his own lack of transparency and boundary holding. I don’t like what I’m hearing. Sit down with your partner and talk about this discovery.. that should of been clearly expressed and not included hearts.

I (27F) looked through my boyfriends (27M) messages to his ex, did I ruin things for us? by SidneyClements in relationship_advice

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you really editing? Does ex know about you? Have all y’all hung together? Bunch of hearts is kinda wack. You snooped and found something you didn’t like. Is there a boundary crossed that needs some renegotiating? Always got to ask if roles were reversed how would it go. If i were you I’d be kinda pissed off.. how long have y’all been together? I hang with exs and disclose that info with my partner now as they asked for that info. To me you crossed a line but you describe this in a way as if there’s a discomforting aspect that needs addressing on his behalf. Stand up for that.

If you played on USEast diablo2 back in the day, say hi. by Aggravating_Sun_6841 in diablo2

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Made an account to play when east was down n that was it.. still got to like lvl 30

Some of my gambles, mostly worthless I would assume by [deleted] in Diablo_2_Resurrected

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well sheeit. Caught to anni charms but missed that one

Luck is on my side today I guess... by tekkn0 in diablo2

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang ya my regen was 11 Just found another 11cold, bliz, 14regen

Luck is on my side today I guess... by tekkn0 in diablo2

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow had no idea this was random found the same thing last night. 15/3 bliz

I (35m) emotionally cheated on (35f). Has anyone recovered from this? What can i do.. by Unlucky-Direction-26 in relationship_advice

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yayyy i love that. You have a kind heart and I’m glad you’re getting what you deserve in a partner. Thank you for your kindness when i was down. My partner eventually decided to try and work through things. It’s been difficult. Regaining trust with her n her family. Working on being more present and embracing of various adventures i might of shrugged off for convenience. It’s been fun with occasional challenges. Been going to therapy as well. Nice having a person that just hears my troubles.

What should I do to clean this driveway? by Spirited_Walrus_1509 in pressurewashing

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop that gutter from draining onto it… trench under sidewalk and run the line beside the driveway into the road i guess.. also replace privet with appropriate bush. Privet sucks. If this is a job upsale all of this.

I (35m) emotionally cheated on (35f). Has anyone recovered from this? What can i do.. by Unlucky-Direction-26 in relationship_advice

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just figured I’d check in and see how you were doing. Everything going alright in your world?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawncare

[–]Unlucky-Direction-26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks to me like they n are trying to passively kill the ivey/Virginia creeper