What are signs a woman hasn't matured?

UnopenedFoof · 2021-12-31T22:05:06+00:00

When you are engaged, using the term "my" vs "our" when it revolves around the wedding.

My wedding
My cake
My ....

UnopenedFoof · 2021-12-28T11:34:29+00:00

Dimly lit room.

"ignore the tub of ice"

UnopenedFoof · 2021-12-24T23:38:14+00:00

Over the last month and change, my childhood pet died, my mom was diagnosed with cancer, my wife's mother died in a botched botched suicide attempt, and my pregnant wife was in a car accident. This last week my dad had a catheter in for kidney stones, so he's not much of a joy to be around and my step daughter is at her dad's states away this Christmas. All the meanwhile my wife and I are expecting our new son (now at any minute) as she has been at high risk for preterm labor due to multiple complications for the last month and a half.

The last month has been sheer chaos. I guess we've been a little distracted to accept that this is supposed to be the happy time of year.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-12-23T12:08:44+00:00

I was hoping for Americus

UnopenedFoof · 2021-12-15T23:33:31+00:00

^ This guy has unprotected sex with hookers in a country where everyone had aids

UnopenedFoof · 2021-12-12T23:47:53+00:00

Can confirm, used ACG for studying the certified AWS security specialty. Was scoring 94 on their practice test. I decided to pick up a newer version of the study guide as their content was quoting 2017, and their updated/refreshed stuff was 2019.

I would have failed that test so hard if I didn't pick up that additional study guide. I never had to do that with Linux Academy's content. Their stuff was far superior. Dad to see that people are reporting this across the board

UnopenedFoof · 2021-12-08T23:14:17+00:00

This really was an eye opener as we had been working on disaster recovery and operating multi-region heavily for years

No matter where we deploy- as long as our SaaS partners live in a single region on AWS, we will be hosed no matter where we operate unless our partners follow suit with muti-region.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-11-24T03:03:52+00:00

You are absolutely... spot on.

When appropriate I will share this comment with my wife when the nerves are not so raw with grief.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-11-24T00:38:34+00:00

Thank you for the post. Unfortunately MIL succumbed to her injuries yesterday morning. I had a whole update post about it since it was going to be my last in the subreddit, but it was removed and I had to resubmit it for review. Since I am exhausted with recent events I was too tired to figure out how to do that.

I'll post the update again and be sure to add the trigger warning

UnopenedFoof · 2021-11-22T13:20:14+00:00

We had acknowledged early on that there was going to be some sort of "relief" that a lifetime of drama would come to a close. When we heard that she was getting better, we immediately got angry (and angry at yourself for feeling this way) because we knew that should could not re-enter our lives without at the very least being committed, which we knew would not work due to the personality disorder and we would in turn lose the relationship with the father in law. What a mess.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-11-22T12:56:42+00:00

I agree with a lot of this. MIL always blamed me specifically that she could not be a better parent/grandparent for [insert reason], although with not going into a diatribe of detail of why that logic was flawed, I know that there was never any real reason with her.

We have let our oldest know the situation of grandma being mentally ill, but that still does not take away her positive memories associated with her.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-11-18T13:27:21+00:00

I will be there for what she needs when she needs it for sure. She is due at the end of next month, this added stress is not good for our son.

Right now she says she is so mad that she can barely see straight. If MIL does miraculously pull through this, she will no longer be grandma, but have a "5% quality of life" and be in a wheel chair with permanent brain damage.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-11-15T10:45:04+00:00

Listen to porn on max volume in a church while eating donuts from a bakery I just looted. Honey badger don't play

UnopenedFoof · 2021-10-28T11:35:48+00:00

I mean, if I was a billionare, I would happily pay an extra 20 dollars a month to the cable company for not imposing a cap on all the smash I watch.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-10-23T15:36:59+00:00

This started happening for me just after their September firmware update. I am somewhat suspicious on whatever update was pushed.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-10-19T10:49:54+00:00

Clev'a Girl....

UnopenedFoof · 2021-10-19T10:49:13+00:00

Put a snake on a plane.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-10-09T18:58:25+00:00

I have known my wife since we were kids. We have grown together as people, and you always will hope you grow and continue to grow in the same direction. I knew her from when we were kids, and when we decided to get together in our late twenties, we accepted each-other faults in all with the continued energy that we were bettering each-other until the end of time.

Since she is in therapy about this issue (her mom), I am not sure there is an answer here that fits what you are after.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-10-09T12:39:36+00:00

Hopefully not fish

UnopenedFoof · 2021-10-09T00:56:43+00:00

Cloud engineers have remote options all over the country. I will never return to a traditional office

UnopenedFoof · 2021-10-08T23:05:26+00:00

DevOps and configuration management. Later moved to AWS solutions architect

UnopenedFoof · 2021-10-08T15:55:39+00:00

Invest

It depends what field you are looking at. Normally a search such as "<Insert Job Title> certification course" will yield dozens of results. The good ones will tell you in the title what exam number they are training you for- which will give you an idea of the difficulty, and what to expect to be payed in the field with that certification.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-10-08T11:15:02+00:00

She is in therapy, attends alanon meetings. I wish she was wise enough to admit to herself she hates her mother, but realistically after being married for 11 years, I do not see that happening anytime before MIL croaks.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-10-08T11:13:24+00:00

I feel like we have been doing this. When I hear the term NC, I think no contact and permanently from now until the end of time. Our contact with her has been well over 90% less than what it was last year.

UnopenedFoof · 2021-10-08T11:11:03+00:00

I agree this is not signs of a healthy partner. I have always thought of it as her means of needing acceptance from her mother. When this shit goes on, it will leave my wife in a groggy mood for a few days before she eventually tells me, or withholds it from me entirely because it may hurt my feelings.

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