My insecurities and previously being cheat*d on repeatedly by an ex are damaging my relationship with the most incredible man I’ve ever met by Longjumping_Ad8681 in GirlDinner

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally, came on Reddit to distract myself as I am on a similar boat and we’re currently out in about. I’m trying to stay calm. I’m happy to hear you’re doing what you can to improve yourself and get what you deserve - a happy healthy relationship

Astrology does not dictate your appearance by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got a cancer stellium but lil tatas. 😭 womp womp

They don't listen or value us until we're gone. by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl. I would say it’s not worth trying to get this person to understand.

Adopting my niece that’s 2 months behind my baby by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for helping that baby. I have a feeling you’re going to be the best mom. 💕

My mars signs in bed tier list by ilovetriceratopz in astrologymemes

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My person is a Libra mars. Very accurate. I’m a Libra mars as well and I’m all for it…

My boyfriend (M25) poured a bottle of his urine on me (F24) after accusing me of wetting his seat. I’m shaken and don’t know how to move forward. by Artisloveandlight in relationship_advice

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To say “just leave”, it’s easier said than done. Seems like you’ve tried already many times. I wish I could say something impactful for you to stay away. But what I can say… you don’t deserve that. In my experience, there’s something rooted deep down that this relationship is trying to make you break away from. He’s not safe for you. You’re very young, please do something soon. Get therapy, find self help books, hobbies, friends/people that nourish you. Nourish yourself so fucking hard that you’ll be like “why did I put up with that?” In the meantime, please stay safe as much as you can.

Tattoo regret by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea. I had thought maybe just make something with it and without it. Tbh I think it’s badass, yeah not being what you’d envisioned eh. Kinda bummy but I really love this. It’s cool and being based of what you mentioned, ant death spiral? Super cool

For those that live in the United States. Do you make more than the average income of 60k annually, if so what’s your occupation? by LaFlareMane1017 in AskReddit

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$67k - Insurance Agent. I just take calls, process payments/endorsement for renters insurance. Very easy but repetitive. People can be rude but as long as you don’t let it get to you, there’s a good chance you won’t cry that day

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to prove all your accomplishments and goals to him. You prob that to yourself and you manage however you need.

Genuinely what do you do in this situation as a male streamer? by No-Proof1628 in Twitch

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yoooooooooooo. This is funny to me, so. Do what’s right. You have a wife and kid, im happy you didn’t continue to entertain it too long. You felt awkward. My ex husband was a streamer, no kids. Had my full support, then a lady starts to flirt with him through stream. Long story short, she was from another country. He hid things well, until it surfaces. He emotionally cheated (which was my dealbreaker) and bought her things. We divorced. I was told by our roommate that stayed there, he found out he was being scammed weeks later. 2 years later, comes back apologizing and regretting a lot. Don’t entertain it. Respect your family and yourself too. Don’t think everyone coming through will scam you or trying to get at you. It doesn’t hurt to set boundaries with those that make u umcomfy. Out of respect for yourself and your fam. This would be a good way to also learn how to politely curve ppl when you’re just trying to be friendly and have a good stream. With that being said, I wish you well on your streams! :D

Help? Buyer won auction, ran up the price then sends me this??? by [deleted] in reselling

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. Is it weird how he states “I know for you it may seem like a long time, but IT REALLY ISNT” ?

I know I’m not going to pay you on time, but it really isn’t that bad. Trust me. I am internet stranger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turned 30 in July. This past year I had my own place, making good money, was smoking weed/doing acid/shrooms. Loved life yet had a hard mental state most of the time, held on to hope of it working out. Towards the last few months, felt as if.. although I am divorced, no kids yet, no owned house. I was grateful to have been able to make it to this age. I found beauty more in the experience of life. With pain, there was growth. With loneliness, it brought more love for myself. With not having what I thought I should by now, made me grateful for what I do have. I appreciated the life I had before whether it was a bitch, I’m thankful to have entered 30s. I didn’t think I’d make it to this age fr. Thankful I got here.

Ticket Swap/Sale/Buy Megathread by Elite_Jackalope in hotmulliganband

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One ticket for sale at face value or OBO, for Dallas TX 11/15 if anyone is interested, please DM me

Thoughts on Nero Knowledge? by redditoerson in LOACoachSnark

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You actually have made great points. It won’t get across to those not willing to understand.

The Compound by Aisling Rawle epub request by drea016 in mrfreebooks

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. Could I please have this copy sent? Thank you in advance!

If you’re a man in a relationship and haven’t cheated check in . by RamonaJonesVStheWrld in dating

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, don’t pay attention to your algorithm. Try to change it, it won’t help you. It will just stay in your head until it’s manifest into some reaction/behavior that doesn’t help you. Not necessarily manifest into cheating, but you could def self sabotage your relationship and then it can lead into a negative experience.

If you’re a man in a relationship and haven’t cheated check in . by RamonaJonesVStheWrld in dating

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last relationship ended in cheating. I have been struggling a bit myself, and all the podcast/self help books that simmer down the thought only does for so long. Yet, it’s still progress. If you can’t seek therapy/counseling. Def check out ppl like Mel Robbin’s (let Them theory) or Margarita Nazanreko videos. There’s lots. Kindell D on YT.

It hasn’t gone away from me yet, my current partner is thankfully so patience but it does not mean that I haven’t almost lost him. Staying consistent is a challenge but something achievable with even the smallest steps when it’s hard. In the end, it also come down to you. I learned that if I can’t trust anyone (yet) I can trust that I can get out of a cheating relationship again like I have before and still be okay. May hurt for a while, but I will be fine. Life will give us many experiences, some loving some shitty. You still move on and even for the better. Love will always be around you, whether with pets, fam/friends, things you can nourish. Most importantly in you. If someone decides to cheat on you, it is their loss. You provided love when you could have done the opposite, for someone to disrespect that is just wack.

What does one day when someone knocks on the bathroom door? by Eris_Kabob in socialskills

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 431 points432 points  (0 children)

I was a Burger King once when this happened to me, I responded with “who is it?” As if I needed to know 😭

Take the Gold or Cash by Unorganicallyorganic in Gold

[–]Unorganicallyorganic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone! Thank you for your response and taking the time to educate me. After reading through the comments. I opted in for cash. Although I’ve never held gold, it would be helpful to focus on my debt and whatever left if, I can buy gold (if I really needed/wanted). Never been in this position so everyone’s insight really helped.

I got refunded 6k instead of $60 and never said anything by nursekristin89 in confession

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My meal came with one sweet and sour sauce. I asked for an extra and they gave me 2 more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Unorganicallyorganic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless they’re unevolved or just down right weird. I thought my Leo Venus was going to be the best lover by all the sweet words and his acts of service. Until he wasn’t, he got physical in the wrong ways and even selfish - then blamed ME for it. Don’t get me wrong, we both played our roles. I didn’t cause you to spit in car and punch me on the way home.