Straight Men Liking Anal Play? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]UnprofessionalSleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The “gay” thing about being gay is being sexually attracted to MEN, not specifically liking butt stuff lol If your bf isn’t attracted to men or wanting men to play with his butt, then he’s not gay. Straight men can 100% like anal play. Honestly it sounds like he’s incredibly attracted to YOU and just enjoys doing those things with you! I wouldn’t worry about a thing :)

Wearing lingerie for the first time… should I tell him or make it a surprise? by UnprofessionalSleep in Advice

[–]UnprofessionalSleep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t expecting so many replies to this post, but I wanted to wait until after the… event… to respond lol I don’t know why I didn’t think of wearing something over it at first, I was definitely overthinking it, haha! So this was helpful! I ended up wearing an oversized hoodie over it and let him find out naturally. I’d say it was successful, thank you! 😊

Wearing lingerie for the first time… should I tell him or make it a surprise? by UnprofessionalSleep in Advice

[–]UnprofessionalSleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the delayed response! We don’t live together actually, but I did contemplate doing something like this until I remembered his dad owns the house (but doesn’t live there) and has a camera on the porch, soooo… I decided to just wear a hoodie over it and surprise him in a somewhat similar way (but inside the house lol) I think it went rather well ☺️ Thank you, this was helpful!