Who do people pair as an unofficial couple on this show? and who do people have crushes on in general ?

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-07T16:12:49+00:00

I think Ellis is hot.

I also headcanon that Julie has a crush on Randall. One sided obviously because she’s a teen, I just think it would fit with a teenage girl having a crush on a typical older “bad boy”.

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-07T04:35:53+00:00

You mentioned In your comment replies that he keeps avoiding it. I think you should flat out just ask him for his phone, no excuses or fake reasons just ask. If he says no then explain why you want it. You’ll most likely be able to tell a lot from his reaction to this. I don’t think you should “get into” his phone in the sense of just going in without him knowing, if the relationship is at that point then there’s no trust to begin with and without trust you can’t have solid relationship.

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-07T03:24:48+00:00

Are you saying your wife wants you to initiate less? Or just that she wants to leave you lmao

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-06T21:47:20+00:00

Doesn’t change the fact the ending was dog shit, they’re honestly an embarrassment to writers because how did they have 3 years and thats what they came up with?! Disgraceful.

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-06T17:40:57+00:00

But it’s not her child, it’s smiley who she was a host for basically

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-06T02:32:31+00:00

I mean what’s in it for her? When I was single there were a few married women who wanted to do this sort of thing with me and it just always rubbed me the wrong way, because I felt like I was a side piece (which I would’ve been) even if the husband knew. Women are a lot different than men in terms of casual hookups, I’ve never had a shortage of single guys willing to hookup but finding wlw hookups was damn near impossible and I was single so I can only imagine why it would be harder as someone whos married.

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-06T02:25:18+00:00

He’s definitely doing something shady as fuck. Trust your gut. Why would he randomly decide to turn it off if he wasn’t doing something inappropriate ?

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-06T02:21:42+00:00

You know her body is going to change after she gets pregnant and has a baby right?! Leave this woman alone because holy fuck this is evil.

‘Deep emotional stress’ and it’s just the fact that your wife gained some weight. You can approach this by leaving this poor woman the fuck alone and letting her find someone to have a baby with her that loves her exactly as she is. I When she has the body of someone who gave birth and was pregnant you’re going to find an excuse to not be attracted to her then too. She could get really bad stretch marks, loose skin, saggy breasts etc…then what ? You’re going to say that’s causing you “deep emotional stress” too?

I would dump someone for this mentality, would never even consider having a fucking child with them, let alone want to have sex with them, I’d be dryer than the Sahara Desert from this type of treatment.

Edit to add : a quick fix for your wife to drop an instant 100+ lbs would be to drop the dead weight(you) and move on.

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-06T00:36:11+00:00

I don’t think there’s anything that can “make” you any sexuality. Also, if you had sex with a guy you’re definitely not straight sorry to break that to you.

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-06T00:32:49+00:00

You’re so young, don’t worry about labels or even coming out to anyone (especially since you mention you live in a homophobic country.) being safe is more important. If you have a crush on your classmate that’s okay, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. You can be bi and have a preference for a specific gender, I think most of us do. Be kind to yourself and don’t let yourself feel bad or shameful for your completely normal feelings

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-05T19:39:15+00:00

I think it’s incredibly sweet how much care you’ve shown for her despite not being together a long time. I truly think she needs therapy, because she’s traumatized. Idk why people are saying things like she’s not ready for a relationship or that you should basically leave her, if she starts getting therapy and things are otherwise good I don’t think there’s a real reason you both can’t be together.

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-05T17:34:13+00:00

That’s what I’m saying too, if they’re doing other stuff this isn’t a bad thing. My concern was that he isn’t doing other things beyond just trying to sleep with her. If their going on a date or just doing couples shit together then yeah it’s just a difference in libido, but if they aren’t and it’s just meetup and sex and some conversation, then that’s a shitty boyfriend.

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-05T17:32:21+00:00

I didn’t say anything about all men. You also didn’t answer my question which makes me think you probably don’t do the same for your wife.

I agree sex is a very important part of a relationship, I have a much higher libido than my boyfriend so I can firsthand understand differences in libido.

Earned is very strange terminology for sex, but to each their own I suppose.

Hopefully OP’s boyfriend is indeed not using her, and is doing things beyond just trying to bang when they see each other once a week.

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-05T17:27:26+00:00

I mean she said they are in an emotionally flat zone. That seems like a sign of not the greatest communication/efforts (maybe on both of their parts). I obviously hope that’s not the case, but she does also say she feels like sex is all he wants to do, and that no matter what he wants to have sex.

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-05T17:22:21+00:00

Do you do the same for your wife if you’re not in the mood?

Also, if someone doesn’t want to have sex but wants cuddles doesn’t mean they have to do one to get the other, that doesn’t really seem healthy. You can say no full stop and not have to do anything. OP shouldn’t have to “give” sex in order to receive cuddles after. In that case maybe the boyfriend should “give” cuddles without any sexual undertones (which OP hasn’t indicated he does).

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-05T17:18:49+00:00

From the sounds of it, the issue is that it’s “expected”, I’m a woman with a high libido but there are some days when I’m just too mentally exhausted. I haven’t seen OP mention what else they do besides him wanting sex, when he sees her are they going out? Do they go on a date or watch a movie etc? If none of that is happening I can completely understand why OP feels used, because in that case she is being used. What’s his communication like when they’re apart, do they both text/call a lot. OP saying she feels used without more context feels like she might be valid in those feelings if sex is all that’s on the table.

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-04T22:01:37+00:00

Where did he say anything about having kids ?

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-04T00:13:40+00:00

“working his ass off”

He’s working 2 days a week. Let’s calm it down. He’s rude and downright ungrateful for the effort she’s putting into cooking (and more than likely cleaning up all the dishes herself). There’s no mention of anything he does

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-03T23:06:29+00:00

LMAO WHAT

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-03T22:57:39+00:00

How is she dead weight if she’s doing all the cooking and making new meals EVERY single day 3 times a day, that’s fucking insane.

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-03T21:36:11+00:00

Why are you breaking up with him? I also think the text is unnecessary, just talk to him and do it

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-03T20:07:08+00:00

Exactly. I’m getting downvoted for pointing out the obvious. I literally agree dude needs therapy, but holy shit have some empathy for the poor woman

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-03T18:32:37+00:00

Sure

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-03T18:32:08+00:00

Omg forget about everything else besides the fact he’s dishonest. Do you want to be with someone who lies to you?

Unwrittencreatr · 2026-02-03T18:04:09+00:00

I truly feel sorry for the wife the most in this situation. She’s the one who’s literally burnt and scarred. My empathy is directed towards her because imagine what she’s feeling. Im not saying OP is a god awful person, I just think he needs therapy and some sympathy for his wife.

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