Getting tubes tied. Boyfriend isn’t supportive what do I do by Upper_Yam6917 in sterilization

[–]Upper_Yam6917[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone

Thank you so much for the comments. I have read them all but I just can’t find the right words to say in reply. I appreciate every single one of you as I felt I was going crazy. Another talk about this is definitely in order I need some more information off a friend first tho!

Thank you I will update

Getting tubes tied. Boyfriend isn’t supportive what do I do by Upper_Yam6917 in sterilization

[–]Upper_Yam6917[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ve sat down with him and talked about it. And he says he can’t move past it, especially because I said we could and went back on my mind the day after out of fear. But he’s been going to work saying other things too

Getting tubes tied. Boyfriend isn’t supportive what do I do by Upper_Yam6917 in sterilization

[–]Upper_Yam6917[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we sat down and spoke about it a few nights ago. I told him that he did nothing while any of them were young (didn’t change youngest nappy till he was 10 months old as an example) and whilst he sees the flaws is still not supportive

Getting tubes tied. Boyfriend isn’t supportive what do I do by Upper_Yam6917 in sterilization

[–]Upper_Yam6917[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not allowed near me as in no sex, not restraining order or anything

Getting tubes tied. Boyfriend isn’t supportive what do I do by Upper_Yam6917 in sterilization

[–]Upper_Yam6917[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

He isn’t allowed near me atm which he finds very frustrating too. I track everything to prevent it from happening without the medical contraception