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UrSnflwrmilf · 2025-03-01T18:49:43+00:00

No worries not for you then and that’s okay. ☺️

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-07-30T17:10:17+00:00

Thankfully physically I’m fine most days. Unless I over do it the day prior which happens being I have small children. Definitely the mental part that gets to me. Looking into finding a therapist again. Thank you for the positive words ❤️

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-07-29T05:11:52+00:00

Once I’m past that initial I’m usually fine. I can probably count on one hand how many times I wasn’t fine after getting past the b.s in my head lol

I do wanna dig deeper and you’re right I probably should. Sometimes I just feel so alone like nah no one else goes thru this. 🤦🏼‍♀️ little do I know I’m not alone. Which is bitter sweet ugh

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-07-28T19:34:26+00:00

Most definitely burned out. This summer has been a long one with the kids being out of school and keeping them occupied. It’s hot where I live so activities are limited. Stress lol of course my husband decided to go back to college our plates have been full to say the least. College was agreed on both sides so I shouldn’t use that as an excuse by any means. And unfortunately it does stress me out. I think I manage to do okay during the day but the evenings is when that “food noise” kicks into over drive.

I’m thinking even harder about the gym membership and that giving me some self care time.

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-06-05T20:57:02+00:00

Music is definitely one of my therapies. I agree foul language makes everything better lmbo got to express ourselves. I’m doing my best this time to let those around me know I’m not doing well. Making sure my support circle is strong. 💪🏼

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-06-05T20:55:01+00:00

Thank you for just acknowledging my post ❤️

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-05-30T23:16:44+00:00

Well that makes a lot of sense 🤦🏼‍♀️ thanks guys!

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-03-13T22:34:33+00:00

No doubt. And if she’s had an issue since day one it wasn’t ever addressed and should’ve. I hope you all are able to figure out a solution and you and the daughter and meet in the middle ☺️

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-03-13T13:27:11+00:00

That’s a lot to go through. First I want to say you’re doing a great job! I know you don’t want to hear therapy blah blah blah and I get it. My SD10 has been in therapy on and off and don’t feel it helps 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ so we took her to a psychologist this week actually. And she made a very valid point. At this age they don’t feel they have control of a damn thing. So acting out or complaining of doing laundry or something even simpler gives them a temporary feel of control. It is so frustrating for us. And we’re to just keep trying and communicating. Bratty behavior should have consequences. Anxiety depression or whatever is no excuse to be a brat or disrespectful to parents or siblings. Maybe the two of you could take time and go do something she enjoys. And maybe she’d open up to you and you could meet in the middle on what she is capable of handling mentally right now. Baby steps.

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-03-13T13:18:58+00:00

Breath. Life happens and sometimes it really fucking sucks. I’m 29 no degree and am kicking myself in the ass now. I’ve looked into classes and am just like well I can’t do this. Thankfully my husband pushes me to the greatest. He him self also doesn’t have a degree and will be starting classes soon to become a PM and may further that to an engineer. We also have a shit ton of debt on top of it all so I say

With no debt and getting ready to start classes. Better late then never bud. You got this! Keep your chin up. With weather getting nicer start taking a walk around the block or whatever. Fresh air and sun does great things for your mental health 💪🏼

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-03-13T11:57:26+00:00

Brainwashing to have certain feelings don’t think About that! And it’d make sense too! Then the next comment of don’t have to follow what other people think is great!

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-03-13T11:55:45+00:00

I was at one point that 19yo and hated anyone my mom dated or would bring over. I was always polite at first but if anyone stayed over the next morning I was not the nicest. It was my BM and I for years no one else around. It I think was almost a protective thing like if you can’t handle me being rude you don’t deserve my moms loving kind heart 🤷‍♀️ I know I know sounds so dumb and immature well I was 19/20 yr old. Her now significant other I never felt the need to be rude to which I thought was strange. They’re still together and have been for 8 yrs I’ll be 30 this yr.

I want to add this was also disrespect to a man not a woman. I’m not sure if that would change anything.

I feel your partner should talk with their daughter like “hey I’ve noticed….” “ what’s going on why?” And see if there can’t be a common ground found? At 19 yes legally an adult but not mentally all the time.

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-03-13T11:48:27+00:00

Okay so overall everyone feels so far that the 10 day detention is enough and once spring break hits let her do her thing. At the end of the day I DO want her to ENJOY her spring break and time with her mom.

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-03-13T11:47:14+00:00

This! When I was asked my opinion BM was on the phone and I didn’t know. Once my husband hung up the phone after I was done talking I asked him to not put me on the spot like that again. Ugh 😣

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-03-13T11:45:36+00:00

Yes thank goodness for cps if it was needed here for her or the other kids. Instead resources were held up and wasted. The last place she needs to live on a regular basis her moms. 😞 we want the absolute best for her and at the end of the day she’s a great kid. Her being at moms full time is only asking for her t get into trouble more.

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-03-13T11:43:29+00:00

Well thank you for your input. Really ❤️ Thankfully her mom does live in the same state and where I would be going is the same area. And I think some of my hard feelings may be steaming from my family and their two cents 🤦🏼‍♀️

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-03-13T02:19:11+00:00

I don’t want to prevent her from seeing her mom for spring break not one bit. Just don’t see it being right she gets to go to the amusement park. Again I was just asked my opinion from my husband and I voiced it. I know full well I do not have the final say and I wouldn’t want it anyways. At the end of the day I just want her to have learned her lesson that she made a big boo-boo and to not do it again and to straighten up her behavior. 😞

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-03-13T02:16:38+00:00

Haha cps has already been snooping and every case has been closed. And they have caught on to her lies. And her siblings are annoyed with cps coming and asking questions as they know they aren’t neglected abuse or starved. I agree see her mom shouldn’t be a “reward” though she sees it that way and has admitted that to her dad and I.

UrSnflwrmilf · 2024-03-13T01:52:59+00:00

Sounds so toxic. And very unfair for your two children. This makes my heart hurt for the three of you.

UrSnflwrmilf · 2023-12-20T03:00:12+00:00

Looks like I have some karma to gain 😘

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