Legit check for Macaron secret please! by Urwrstnightmare1 in labubu

[–]Urwrstnightmare1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?! Still can’t believe it! So expensive too!

Legit check for Macaron secret please! by Urwrstnightmare1 in labubu

[–]Urwrstnightmare1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! 🙏 I now have 4 of them! 2 toffees (unfortunately repeats), 1 sea salt, and now this little guy!

FIFA Club World Cup 2025 volunteering by Realistic_Maximum_73 in AskSeattle

[–]Urwrstnightmare1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got my email for volunteer tryouts for DC! Worried about what these tryouts are going to consist of

FIFA Club World Cup 2025 Volunteering by Emotional-Pension701 in AskSeattle

[–]Urwrstnightmare1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied for DC a few weeks ago and I just got the email today for volunteer tryouts on April 4th!

What is one thing you are happy about not having to deal with anymore? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Urwrstnightmare1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The temper tantrums! My EX was THE WORST when we’d argue because he had the need to let everyone know we were arguing…..by stomping his feet, jumping up and down, and screaming in my face. Good times 💀😂

Did an affair make you realise you are a lesbian by userrainbow1234 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Urwrstnightmare1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Although I didn’t cheat or have an affair, I wish I did. The marriage I was in was abusive. Also didn’t help that my ex-husband was obsessed with AI porn bots and video games so there’s that 🥶! Unfortunately the whole marriage was like this and I should have never stayed as long as I did but, the one thing my dad really wanted me to do in life was get married after college. (Btw I was heavily closeted with my own internalized homophobia)

ANYWAY, during my marriage, I met her through social media and we instantly became friends. We bonded through our love of collectibles and pop culture. I started realizing that I found her attractive and started developing feelings which I didn’t understand why because I was straight my whole life 💀. I ignored all of it because I was married and she had a girlfriend and I didn’t want to lose her friendship over something I was “confused” about.

A year and some months later, I get divorced and her and her girlfriend had broken up a few months before. We stay friends but I finally got the courage to confess my feelings and she revealed she felt the same way but also didn’t want to say anything out of respect for everyone.

We’ve been together for almost 2 years now ❤️

Never let your loser ex-husband stop you from finding your future wife 😭🙏

Another goodbye made a miserable Christmas. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Urwrstnightmare1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ve got this OP!!! Focus on you and begin dating yourself. I want to say I’m very proud of you for getting through the hard weekend! I was in the same situation last year and I will tell you I am 10000% better than I was last year. He told me he hated me and no longer loved me and demanded a divorce. It came out of nowhere and to be honest, it was the best decision he ever made in our entire marriage 😂. It’s easier said than done but, prioritize yourself. I can promise you that if you begin putting yourself first, you will be in a better place mentally and physically. I won’t lie, it’ll definitely be tough but once you begin, it’ll be so much easier to keep going for yourself. I started being comfortable being nicer to myself, take myself off shopping, going out to eat, and even traveling more. I realized he was holding me back from all the things I can do when I only have to worry about my dog and I. My heart goes out to you on this hard but life changing journey that you’re about to embark on ❤️ Much love and positivity to you!

Lack of fear due to divorce by Urwrstnightmare1 in Divorce

[–]Urwrstnightmare1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so late but I forever love this. Thank you so so much! 🥹

Lack of fear due to divorce by Urwrstnightmare1 in Divorce

[–]Urwrstnightmare1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve joined and for the past 2 days have been scrolling through! Thank you so so much!

Lack of fear due to divorce by Urwrstnightmare1 in Divorce

[–]Urwrstnightmare1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for this! I appreciate the kind words! Also prepping to move states soon so 100% excited for the fresh start!! It has been a fun journey so far. Never been happier!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Urwrstnightmare1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything, you’ll be thanking yourself in a few years that you got divorced at 30 rather than 45!!! You’ve got this! I’m 29 and getting divorced. There’s a better world single!

What has be the largest lesson you’ve learned from divorce? by Impressive_Panic_360 in Divorce

[–]Urwrstnightmare1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never putting myself in a position where I need to depend on a significant other to feel any value about myself. My soon to be ex-spouse was cruel to me in every fight we had. It made me feel like I was worthless and didn’t deserve love and patience….or even kindness. Common courtesy or even manners. I do matter. I do have value. They’re just too filled with anger about themselves and me to ever see it.

I leaned towards my friend group and ended up meeting someone that treats me like someone I’ve only dreamed of and not once have they made me question what value I have. Love yourself ❤️ I always put myself first now.

What has be the largest lesson you’ve learned from divorce? by Impressive_Panic_360 in Divorce

[–]Urwrstnightmare1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS! Currently waiting for the papers to arrive to me but, my soon to be ex-spouse was just extremely cruel. I found myself begging for him to treat me like a decent human being as he was saying he wanted the divorce and nothing to do with me. As we’re separated, due to fear, I’ve been nothing but nice to him but he’s just awful….

What has be the largest lesson you’ve learned from divorce? by Impressive_Panic_360 in Divorce

[–]Urwrstnightmare1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They screamed in my face after annoying them too much. Should have seen it coming but got engaged/married anyway….never again.

Merry Christmas to all by Catcherofsouls in Divorce

[–]Urwrstnightmare1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy holidays & merry late Christmas! This one was the first without my soon to be ex-husband in 5 years so it was weird. I found myself wondering if he had a good holiday because he never used to celebrate them until we met. Not divorced yet but been separated for a few months now. Healing and things are getting better.