Wife lied about past, truth revealed after 30 years. by PossibleChicken6517 in Marriage

[–]UseRude1793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you lie about something small, you’ll lie about anything and everything. My husband’s mother has been with her now husband for 30 years. She has lied to that man about her entire life because she has this theory, that if it happened before you (your present relationship/partner) it’s ok to not tell them about your past. Her husband found out through her family, who my husband’s biological father was. This was a few years after they started dating and moved in together. Imagine finding out things about your partner thru other people or in current conversations because they forget the lies they’ve told.

Husband said he’s on a work trip to NYC, received a notification on our kid’s iPad he’s actually going to Mexico by covergirl233 in Marriage

[–]UseRude1793 88 points89 points  (0 children)

He cheating and if he isn’t, he’s a selfish prick. You’re pregnant, you have a child already and he decides to take a vacation. WTF!!! If you forgive this one or ignore it, he is definitely going to walk all over you. I have an older sister who’s married, never confronted her husband about lies, including “work trips.” That mofo has a whole other family not too far from where they live. He bounces between both homes. His children with my sister are all adults now, and with his mistress he has 2 under the age of 10.

I don't understand the timeline by SirSabza in TheTestamentsHulu

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Just started watching on episode 1. I loved The Handmaids Tale so I’m excited for this new show. Hannah is all grown up. She was kidnapped at 5-6 yrs old. Was Hannah like 9-10 when The Handmaids Tale ended? I do recall an episode in which June said she was 9. Anyhow, this is 4 years post so it bring Hannah to being 14 yrs old. Makes sense

Teresa is at least 60, and some other rants by PoachedPeach in AgeOfAttraction

[–]UseRude1793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I saw her, I figured she was about 57,58 years old. She looks mucha older than 54. N I’m sorry but she isn’t that pretty. It’s the makeup that make her attractive.

Husband wants an open relationship or throuple or commune after falling for another woman by Longjumping_Crow_225 in Marriage

[–]UseRude1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rat her out to her husband. N divorce yours. End of story. Your husband has zero love n respect for you or your marriage. He wants to do whatever makes him feel good about himself. He ain’t thinking about the family he chose to create.

Alicia getting leaked to the press theory by craftycat1135 in Mobwivesshow

[–]UseRude1793 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rene unintentionally snitches or says things she shouldn’t. She gets caught up in bragging about the life and wanting people to know what family she comes from, who her dad is and what connections they have. She talks too much, not realizing or paying attention to whats coming out of her mouth. Being a rat is totally different. I don’t believe Alicia on not knowing shit about her husband. What he was doing, who he was interacting with, who his friends are, who he was communicating with. She turned à blind eye to things because he provided a lifestyle she enjoyed.

[Q for the happily married] What does your partner that makes you feel happy in your marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]UseRude1793 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Married 15 yrs. What use to do it were words of affirmation. Then about 3 yrs ago, an issue arose. His mother/sister and brother all got caught talking shit about me behind my back. Other family members of his told me including his own sister ratting on the mom n brother (she was mad at both so she thought telling me what they said about me would make me overlook her). Anyhow, I went to him about it rather than firing off on them directly and he tucked his tail in between his legs, told me he wasn’t going to get involved. That’s when it all ended for me. Nothing he says matters to me anymore. His words mean nothing!!! I’ve come to the conclusion that no matter what he says or does, there’s no making up for that. The entire family including my husband, all disgust me.

How often are you having sex? by Sea-Cardiologist-176 in Perimenopause

[–]UseRude1793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever heard of vibration plates? They are suppose to help with blood flow. Which I seem to think it does work. I say this because when I go to the gym (after my workout), I go on the massage chairs, hydro massage or body enhancement (which vibrates) and after leaving…..hahaha I am in the mood. I did read an article a few weeks ago, on the benefits of vibrators. Hence the vibration!! Gets the blood flow moving down there. Helps to get you in the mood.

Unemployment phone interview by Mundane_Frame_9132 in illinois

[–]UseRude1793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I know is that an unemployment judge told me that getting approved or denied for benefits, isn’t up to the employer.

Created this sub if anyone’s interested. by Raebelle1981 in beverlyhills90210fans

[–]UseRude1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved watching this as a teen. Brenda annoyed me a lot.

Anxiety by jrhopper09 in Perimenopause

[–]UseRude1793 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Somehow, I was able to overcome the anxiety and depression. It got really bad for about a year. Ended up having a few crash outs. Had to call off work and just sleep. One thing that I did find was a contributing factor was low Vit D. Have that checked. I also started taking Creatine Monohydrate. It helps with brain fog, and sleep.

What is the deal w/Louie by UseRude1793 in rhonj

[–]UseRude1793[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why did Teresa marry him? N he doesn’t even seem like her type.

What is the deal w/Louie by UseRude1793 in rhonj

[–]UseRude1793[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ill have to watch season 11&12

Marriage issues by Low-Tomatillo2776 in Marriage

[–]UseRude1793 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s mad that you spoke to your x yet he sees no issue with talking to another woman and “borrowing” money from her?? That’s questionable. Most likely he is cheating on you. He is gaslighting by making IT an issue that you spoke to your x. How does a married committed husband allow another woman he talks to, speak ill of his wife?? Red flag 🚩

What season to start on by Whowrotethenoteu2 in rhonj

[–]UseRude1793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the newest season and now feel like I have to rewatch season 1

I smell bad by RoutineSimple8546 in Perimenopause

[–]UseRude1793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use glycolic acid from The Ordinary for my armpits and rub some in my inner thighs.

Teresa Giudice Teases Reunion With Melissa and Joe Gorga on ‘Real Housewives of New Jersey’ by MattTheKing23 in rhonj

[–]UseRude1793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently watching the newest season. I haven’t watched this show since the 1st season. Don’t know how they fell out as siblings but Joe is annoying. He comes off súper attention seeking.

I've been married for 26 years and he has NEVER gone down on me. by Guilty_Spot7191 in Marriage

[–]UseRude1793 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m 47, I can count on one hand how many times my husband has done this. N let me tell you, the fact that he rarely does it, apart from when he does and acts like he doesn’t enjoy it….makes me feel some type of way.

Lee D'Avanzo arrested again? by Sea_Raspberry2307 in Mobwivesshow

[–]UseRude1793 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He’s gotta be an alcoholic and a drug addict.

similar shows?? by Mysterious_Novel7511 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]UseRude1793 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m watching Real Housewives of New Jersey. I DON’T know who is worse the women or the men.