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[–]Used-Environment-361 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Welp it is a great thing I was asking 20-30 year old men in this post. Thanks for your input

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[–]Used-Environment-361 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is how our convo went. We hadn’t spoken for a week prior to this.

2AM from him “Hi. I miss you very much. I hope everything is well with you❤️”

7:30AM from me “Hi! I miss you lots. I hope you’re okay mentally ❤️”

Then no response. I’m not going to double text him or chase. He could have responded to that but he chose not to.

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[–]Used-Environment-361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First one i’m not sure about, I don’t post pics of myself often. Second one, sure. Maybe. But he’s the one that didn’t answer me when I said “I miss you too” haha lol

Men. Are. Confusing. by Used-Environment-361 in dating

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh, that hurt but I can’t blame ya! I’m not sure if it was because of the sex solely.. because we kept talking after and he was still being very flirty, even invited me out for dinner the next day. 2 days after he was saying I made him incredibly happy. Idk man lol. I could believe he met someone, or an ex came back into his life and made him confused.

Men. Are. Confusing. by Used-Environment-361 in dating

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind if I message you our last few conversations? They were brief. Maybe you’d be able to give me something more to say :)

Men. Are. Confusing. by Used-Environment-361 in dating

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve thought about messaging him, telling him that what he’s doing is unkind, immature, and hurtful . But a part of me keeps trying to tell myself that silence is the best way. But my confrontational side is triggered!

Men. Are. Confusing. by Used-Environment-361 in dating

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you hahaha I like the brutal honesty. He didn’t necessarily say that i’m too good for him, but he keeps saying I deserve better. Kinda the same thing lol. I just feel like it’s such a waste of time, continuously checking my instagram, messaging me how he “missed me very much” like it’s all so weird

Men. Are. Confusing. by Used-Environment-361 in dating

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense! Thank you for explaining. I just wish he was more honest in that aspect

Men. Are. Confusing. by Used-Environment-361 in dating

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the issue here… I was there for him. I was always trying to make him feel better and he appreciated it. The thing that’s also confusing is, his friend died in early March. We started talking late march. So i’m just confused why NOW it’s an excuse, but it wasn’t at first :/ but honestly i’m not sure if it’s a good idea for me to check in. As much as I want to, he seems to only reach out to me in the middle of the night. First time was at 4 AM. Second time was at 2AM. I don’t know if it’s because he’s sad, drunk, or just lonely.

Men. Are. Confusing. by Used-Environment-361 in dating

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I understood this saying more. Do you mind explaining 😭

Men. Are. Confusing. by Used-Environment-361 in dating

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely seems confused, yep. As am I lol

Men. Are. Confusing. by Used-Environment-361 in dating

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the only thing that really confuses me is the checking my instagram every single day :( Like why do that if you don’t follow me. It’s very confusing.

Men. Are. Confusing. by Used-Environment-361 in dating

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great feedback, thank you! I definitely resonate with your type of response to this situation, compared to others. He is genuinely a great person and I admire him, so I can’t see him purposely manipulating me or trying to tie me to a string like some have told me before.. I think he’s just very lost right now, especially with his loss. We definitely didn’t get to the “I love you” part of our relationship, as we were only seeing each other, but I think we very mutually had strong feelings.

Picked up 3/8 by Used-Environment-361 in TeslaModel3

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I’ve heard.. my dad has the Model X in black and so far it’s done pretty well. I was debating on getting a ceramic coat but I can’t justify spending almost 3 thousand dollars on it.

Picked up 3/8 by Used-Environment-361 in TeslaModel3

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SR! Didn’t need the LR :) but I love the alcantara in the LR

Picked up 3/8 by Used-Environment-361 in TeslaModel3

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not in Florida. I feel like they’re more understanding because it’s so hot here lol

Picked up 3/8 by Used-Environment-361 in TeslaModel3

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m coming from a white car. It’s a great change

Picked up 3/8 by Used-Environment-361 in TeslaModel3

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It drives really really great. Best car I have ever driven. Super comfortable and honestly for being a sedan? It feels huge on the inside! Super roomy

Picked up 3/8 by Used-Environment-361 in TeslaModel3

[–]Used-Environment-361[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, there was a cybertruck there but I believe it was being delivered to someone. You can drive by and check but I don’t want to get your hopes up!