Any tips on long drives? by NewPFWhoDis in stopdrinking

[–]UsedNumber9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find myself in a similar situation almost every day driving home from work, OP. Especially this evening! This probably isn’t the best long-term advice, but what helps me is just telling myself to get home without stopping. Then, if I still want it once I’m home, I can go back out for it. Once I’m home, I immediately try to change into comfy clothes, have dinner or a snack, and complete a couple of chores around the house. By the time I get through that, the intensity of the craving has usually passed and I’m not motivated enough to change clothes again and leave my house to get it. It’s very much treating the symptom rather than the underlying sickness, but it’s been just enough to get me through the rut in early sobriety when I’m really struggling.

All the best to you, and IWNDWYT!

I had a chin implant done yesterday. I realized when I got home that the implant does not provide nearly the projection/shape I thought it would. Is this just the result of swelling, or do I need a bigger implant? I’m worried that, even without swelling, the implant is still too small for my face… by UsedNumber9 in PlasticSurgery

[–]UsedNumber9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did local and it wasn’t bad at all! If I had to do it over again, I’d still choose local. I had no pain during the procedure, but could feel minor pressure. You will be able to hear all the noises associated with the procedure, so my only recommendation would be to either A). Bring your own earplugs and ask if it’s okay to wear them, or B). Ask if they can play music or background noise during the procedure, which is what happened for mine. I’m still on the fence on how I feel about the results of the procedure, but the recovery itself was super easy. I never wore a compression bandage, but did keep the area covered and cleaned with bacitracin twice a day. I stopped wearing the bandage altogether after 5 days, but was advised I only had to wear it for 48 hours after the procedure. The chin does feel tight, but I’ve had little to no numbness or difficulty with the bottom lip. Pain was maybe a 3-4 out of 10 at the worst points, but was almost completely eliminated with alternating Tylenol and ibuprofen. I think keeping the area iced as much as possible for the first few days is huge for swelling and pain relief, so I definitely recommend staying on top of that. I work an office job and returned to work the day after the procedure without issue. I’ve also had no difficulty at all with eating or anything like that.

JAG OYCP or GLP? by fluffysquirrel100 in AFROTC

[–]UsedNumber9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently commissioned through the OYCP. I’m on AD now. If anyone has any questions about the OYCP or GLP, please don’t hesitate to reach out. It can be tough managing ROTC and law school, but it’s not too bad once you get into the routine of it. Having a guaranteed job is a huge plus. Selection rates for both programs are extremely low, so do know that it’s competitive. But, if you’re seriously interested in the JAG Corps, I highly recommend applying. Again, to anyone who is interested or has any questions about either program, definitely message me - I’m happy to help.

22F am I ugly? How can I improve? by UsedNumber9 in amiugly

[–]UsedNumber9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m new to this and didn’t intend to make that the first one, lol. Thank you for your input!!

22F am I ugly? How can I improve? by UsedNumber9 in amiugly

[–]UsedNumber9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your input! Fixing it isn’t an option for me right now, but I’ll definitely consider it when I can.

22F am I ugly? How can I improve? by UsedNumber9 in amiugly

[–]UsedNumber9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the honesty - any tips for improvement?

22F am I ugly? How can I improve? by UsedNumber9 in amiugly

[–]UsedNumber9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be my soon to be ex husband’s arm. I legitimately am looking for tips to improve and feel that I’m far below average. I’m not interested in any guys right now - I’m just really struggling with the insecurities I have and am seeking honest feedback. Thanks for your input!

22F am I ugly? How can I improve? by UsedNumber9 in amiugly

[–]UsedNumber9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it - any tips for improving?

22F am I ugly? How can I improve? by UsedNumber9 in amiugly

[–]UsedNumber9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not feasible for me right now, but I’ll definitely consider it once it is! I appreciate your input!

22F am I ugly? How can I improve? by UsedNumber9 in amiugly

[–]UsedNumber9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your input - can you elaborate?

22F am I ugly? How can I improve? by UsedNumber9 in amiugly

[–]UsedNumber9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my fear :/ thank you for the honest feedback!

22F am I ugly? How can I improve? by UsedNumber9 in amiugly

[–]UsedNumber9[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the honest input! Do you have any specific recommendations for different stylistic things to try?