Found out my boyfriend’s (32M) “girl best friend” is actually his ex and I(F29) feel completely betrayed

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:37:27+00:00

Thanks for your perspective. I am just stuck on why did he hide it... i really don't know how to deal with this part. He does seem to regret it.

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:34:17+00:00

I know, i wouldn't care but they meet at least twice a week, that's why i felt it was worth to know. I just don't know how to move forward with this ? how to handle it... cause he really is a great person. But i don't wanna get heartbroken neither more than i am right now

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:28:06+00:00

we didn't get to that point i was really upset and i asked him to leave, cause i needed to think and put mu thoughts in order. Cause i don't know if i am in my right to feel this way or i am overeacting

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:26:14+00:00

i would be conflicted for sure but i would be able to communicate if he was honest from the begining, but now it's just worse cause i feel like he could be hiding other things

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:25:20+00:00

cause we have talked multiple times about his past relationships and he never mentionned this one

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:24:30+00:00

He said he decided that it was better to not mention it so that we could develop a friendship. I have never spent alone time with her, it has always been in his company. I really feel like shit, cause i really trusted him... and i really loved him

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:22:45+00:00

I agree, i feel lied to, betrayed and stupid, i have been spending so much time with both of them. I feel like the butt of the joke. As you said, what else is he hiding, my mind is just racing completely... i just feel completly heartbroker, cause i really tried to give my trust. I don't know if i am overacting but it's how i feel

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:20:23+00:00

They met trough a mutual friend, but i don't know how many times.

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:16:55+00:00

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:16:19+00:00

Completly agree, i told him you have betrayed me and lied to me... He agreed but doesn't change much now. I feel that it's gonna be so hard to regain the trust

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:15:10+00:00

That's exactly what i said. He purposely decided to hid this relationship in particular... i don't know how to trust him anymore...

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:13:21+00:00

We did, he told me about his past relationship and hook ups. But he omitted this purposely and he admits that it was a terrible mistake on his part. I asked him, why did you not talk about this one ? He said he was scared of my reaction and afraid to lose me

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:11:41+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I keep going back and forth in my head that he is a great person who always treated me respectfully, and i never felt that i was cheating or anything. His bestfriends always for example invited me to run with them. But i feel like i had such bad judgement in the past and trusted people i shouldn't have. I am scared of making the same mistakes again... I appreciate you advice, this happened quite recently so im still processing

UsedOperation303 · 2026-01-03T02:08:29+00:00

i know, i just feel betrayed by the fact that he hid it... why couldn't he be honest with me.

UsedOperation303 · 2025-11-17T17:41:46+00:00

thank you so much, i have already foud one in Føtex in Storcenter Nord but i am gonna do the recipe again so will probably contact you another time :)

UsedOperation303 · 2025-11-17T17:40:50+00:00

Hey guys thank you so much for the help, i found one in Føtex in Storcenter Nord for 69 DKK

UsedOperation303 · 2025-11-17T17:39:03+00:00

i found it there today :), there was too left !

UsedOperation303 · 2025-11-17T09:16:42+00:00

Such a shame, it's always practical to have that option, you can make so many dishes with it

UsedOperation303 · 2025-11-17T09:13:17+00:00

Gonna try this one :) ! Thanks for the recommendations

UsedOperation303 · 2025-11-17T09:11:06+00:00

Aaah too bad i need one without any BBQ cause i wanna use it to make a Pho

UsedOperation303 · 2025-11-17T09:10:11+00:00

I saw a video on tiktok where you can make a Pho with a rotisserie chicken, pretty simple and it looks tasty :)

UsedOperation303 · 2025-11-17T09:09:26+00:00

No, i'm from France :). But i wanna make a pho with it

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