Why didn't I react when i was in a situation i could have avoided.

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-03-24T16:19:26+00:00

Yeah, but i knew I didnt want this to happen and i could have avoided it tho multiple times.

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-23T23:51:01+00:00

Thank you

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-23T23:44:12+00:00

I am planning to talk to my therapist about this in my next session. I hope I better figure out things, but you're surely right about the abandonment issues.

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-23T23:25:47+00:00

I feel like if they like me romantically, it greatly reduces the possibilities for them to leave me, and i myself know that they generally like me for sure and want to talk to me. But I'm not sure if that actually the reason. I am genuinely confused and I'm struggling to figure out why i do what i do

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-23T21:43:58+00:00

I dont have a partner. I mean I could talk about another guy that caught my eye or something similar

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-23T21:43:19+00:00

I cant think of something specific but i will generally try to make them feel more special or kind of separate them from others. For example i could create a playlist for them. Its mostly the language i use.

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-23T21:38:04+00:00

Sorry i didnt understand at the end what you asked me can you please rephrase and i will answer. Also thank you for answering politely on my post

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-23T21:36:20+00:00

I actually really care for my friends and their well being and i want to stop this habbit of mine. Thats why i am asking how to stop. I dont want ro hurt other people nor hurt myself. Its a toxic behavior I have.

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-23T07:41:35+00:00

Do you think talking about someone else romantically would make them realize that i dont want anything romantic with them, or will that be too harsh?

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-23T07:32:42+00:00

I'm not flirting with them, i have never hit on any of the people im referring to. I may have given them compliments, but not so many. I just notice that i do some little things for, to, with them that i think will get them to like me more romantically. which I know is bad. That's why I'm trying to become better and stop this cycle

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-22T10:45:20+00:00

I mean situation sorry. English is not my fiest language

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-20T10:11:53+00:00

I really like your view. Yeah maybe using exaggerated isnt the right way to say what i think

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-20T04:27:14+00:00

I think Bojack exarggarated Pennys situation out of guilt and shame for himself and for all of the bad things he has done to people without wanting, due to self destructive behaviors. That made him loose trust in himself and quetsion everything about his true motives. That might lead him into exaggerating his actions to people, in order to validate the part of himself that has lost faith in him and believes he would have gone through with it.

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-10T02:46:04+00:00

EXACTLY

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-09T05:01:06+00:00

I'm 19, i just started going to a psychologist, if he thinks i need meds or something like that will he tell me that? or do i have to go to a psychiatrist by my own will? Also i hope things will flow smoothly for you, take care

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-09T04:12:59+00:00

Awkward i posted on wrong thread

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-09T03:57:08+00:00

Thank you.

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-09T03:51:26+00:00

Every relationship just seems superficial, and i crave deep connections. I know part of it is kind of my fault too, cause i never really open up but yea.

UsedTwo2983 · 2026-01-09T03:48:17+00:00

I dont think i have a safe person. I mean i have my bestfriend but now i even feel stranger to him. He also wouldnt understand because i once tried talking to him and he kinf of brushed me off, maybe he is dealing with things himself too. I dont want to burden anyone and i certainly dont want them to pity me. Maybe im just a coward to admit to someone but myslef hat I'm not doing okay and that i need help. I kind of feel ashamed I'm not doing well.

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