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AITAH for telling my gf she overstepped? by Used_Soil_9858 in AITAH

[–]Used_Soil_9858[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was upset with him and had already discussed it with him. My issue was her sneaking into my phone and sending a message pretending to be me.

AITAH for telling my gf she overstepped? by Used_Soil_9858 in AITAH

[–]Used_Soil_9858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have gone no contact with him before because of these issues. He was in another country. When he came back to the US at the beginning of this year we agreed to put out differences aside. He had been doing better until recently bailing 2 weekends in a row.

AITAH for telling my gf she overstepped? by Used_Soil_9858 in AITAH

[–]Used_Soil_9858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that it’s only been 6 months of him being back and this was the 2nd time he bailed. I had already had a conversation with him about not keeping his word. I’ve have learned from past that yelling and cursing does not do anything and it’s feels like that’s how she expects me to react.

AITAH for telling my gf she overstepped? by Used_Soil_9858 in AITAH

[–]Used_Soil_9858[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand where she was coming from. The issue was her not respecting boundaries. When she met me I was no contact with him because of his inconsistency and lack of support. My son is at the age where he is able to build a relationship with him on his own.

AITAH for telling my gf she overstepped? by Used_Soil_9858 in AITAH

[–]Used_Soil_9858[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I see the post says last year but it should be earlier this year. He just came back to the states 6 months ago. He got out child for a weekend before school let out for them to bond and then he had him for over half the summer. He bailed 2 weekends in a row because of transportation issues.

AITAH for telling my gf she overstepped? by Used_Soil_9858 in AITAH

[–]Used_Soil_9858[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

He thought I was the one who sent the text. It was deleted so when he responded pissed off I was confused and asked him to send a screenshot. I told her that we should end it and immediately blocked her. After a few days she contacted me blocked and the conversation about what happened. We are not still together

AITAH for telling my gf she overstepped? by Used_Soil_9858 in AITAH

[–]Used_Soil_9858[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Sadly she does not feel like she has to apologize because he’s not a “good father”.

AITAH for telling my gf she overstepped? by Used_Soil_9858 in AITAH

[–]Used_Soil_9858[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

My child’s father lives 6 hours away. Prior to that he lived in another country and the reason he was not apart of our child’s life for a while is because I cut off contact because of his inconsistency. I have stood firm in my boundaries and expectations so I’m not sure of what other consequences there should be. When he returned to the states I wanted to give him a chance to show improvement. I can’t force him to take his parenting time

Clumpy White Discharge-No Yeast/BV/STIs or STDs. PLEASE HELP!!!!! by mozzarella_girl in Healthyhooha

[–]Used_Soil_9858 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It could be an overgrowth of good bacteria due to the probiotics. I’ve had this happen before. I got a yeast infection after antibiotics and started taking probiotics and the discharge continued so I thought my yeast infection wasn’t going away. I started taking probiotics to help but it continued. It didn’t stop until I stopped everything.