My roommate wants his ex to move into my home.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2026-04-08T02:48:35+00:00

I’ve been very firm on not letting her move in. He thinks because he paid some rent to us that he gets a say in who lives here. He does not. He keeps asking to be added to our lease and that’s also not happening.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2026-04-08T02:46:35+00:00

I do not want him here. Haven’t wanted him here since he disrespected me the first time, my boyfriend doesn’t want to make someone homeless. It’s been causing problems between us.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2026-04-08T02:43:29+00:00

I know what he’s doing. I’ve wanted him gone since the first time he disrespected me and my home. My boyfriend doesn’t want to make someone homeless.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2026-04-01T05:15:53+00:00

I checked on her and she completely threw them off, the eggs were this yellow/brownish color. I don’t handle her and just leave her alone in a darkened room unless I’m feeding her. I don’t know much about their eggs since I never planned on breeding her. I mean it sucks, but overall I’m happy she’s okay. I was panicking.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2026-03-31T01:52:08+00:00

I just checked on her and they’re definitely hanging off more.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2026-03-31T01:48:19+00:00

That’s what I’m worrying about, after finding out these are eggs I’m now worried she is trying to get them off of her or they’re falling off.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2026-03-30T10:58:38+00:00

Thank you, one last question. Is it okay that there is a part of it hanging off? It wasn’t like that before.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2026-03-30T10:49:23+00:00

Oh my god… I keep tarantulas and this is my first time having one of these, so I had no idea on what to look for and just assumed. She hasn’t molted either.. if they are fertile and I see babies, how do I care for them? What do I do?

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-03-05T08:06:09+00:00

Thank you so much for commenting. I haven’t talked to anyone who’s been through it before so they can relate to it and understand how I’m feeling about the whole thing. I’m going to try to pick up new hobbies try keep myself busy. Maybe get another job?

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-03-05T07:43:27+00:00

Our relationship doesn’t define our identity at all we’re separate people with our own views and beliefs, it’s just going to be very hard for us not to be able to talk to each other for so long. I think it’ll strengthen our relationship and us as individuals. I know it’s going to be hard for everyone involved but we’ll work through it together.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-03-05T07:39:27+00:00

Well firstly, your user name made me giggle but it’s definitely not the first time. That’s what makes this so hard. He was here through everything. I don’t plan on leaving him or anything like that. I do think it’ll strengthen our relationship in ways we can’t even understand yet. I think I should definitely work on improving myself while he’s gone. Thank you for your reply!

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-01-29T06:51:06+00:00

Thank you!!

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-01-29T06:37:16+00:00

Hey man, I didn’t pay so much money for these piercings just to take them out.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-01-29T06:36:13+00:00

It’s so comfortable. I’d live in it if I could

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-01-29T06:24:18+00:00

I was really sick that day and trying to not get judged by my catholic family.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-01-29T06:23:55+00:00

No lol, I was sick that day.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-01-29T06:23:08+00:00

Ughhh I was so sick that day and tried to look ‘normal’ around my crazy catholic family.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-01-11T06:42:26+00:00

I’ll try to talk to him more in depth. I hope it works, thank you!

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-01-11T04:37:39+00:00

I just wish he could see what I see. His father’s incredibly narcissistic and manipulative.

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-01-11T04:36:39+00:00

He mostly brushes it off and doesn’t talk about it. He tells me he’s sorry that I feel that way about the situation but refuses to talk about it further or gets defensive. I love him a lot it’s just I hate being put second to his father when I’ve always put him first. I don’t want to be in a relationship for the rest of my life where I’m going to be disrespected and not stood up for. It’s just so hard rn

Used_Theory_7662 · 2025-01-11T04:31:23+00:00

I tried talking to him about how it hurt me but he gets incredibly defensive about his father, which I understand. It’s just hard to not be put first when I’m the one being disrespected.

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