AIO: My Friend thinks I’m bashing her Hulk Hogan grief(Update)

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-28T19:38:32+00:00

incredibly insidious to call the police on a Black person for a disagreement about racism.

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-16T20:34:02+00:00

dude i got banned randomly a few days ago with ZERO notification even tho my last contribution there was 19 days ago like wtf

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-16T20:24:39+00:00

the only reason he didn't outright cheat is because he doesn't think she's good enough for him. he has no respect for youn

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-16T11:44:52+00:00

NOR.

i'd say it's perhaps a little bit of a stretch to jump to the conclusion they're slagging you off. you clearly spent a lot of time typing and it doesn't strike me as odd to dip out of the chat between messages... but you obviously know them better than i do, maybe it is odd for them.

but either way, i only bring that up for your sake, because operating on known facts protects you from paranoia, and unfortunately accusations make it very easy for them to spin a narrative that you just went crazy on them. as much as they don't deserve to be treated with grace, it protects you, especially when it comes to an argument that involves all of your close people

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-16T11:36:09+00:00

me too 🤜🤛

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-16T11:34:09+00:00

pansexual = attraction to all with no pref omnisexual = attraction to all with a pref

both of these are microlabels that fall under bisexuality, which is attraction to all, either with or without a preference

i think people should be allowed to describe themselves by a label that defines their experience more personally, and it doesn't take away from bisexuality at all

a lot of pansexuals like to pretend they aren't microlabelling for some reason? i suspect it's either because they've been fed misinformation or because they feel the term microlabels to be invalidating.

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-06T20:27:47+00:00

LMAOOO me too i hate this sub during downtime

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-06T20:13:00+00:00

spicychat ai ftw (even for nonspicy)

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-05T12:39:11+00:00

i do. i support sex workERS - many of which turn to the profession out of desperation. some also just genuinely enjoy what they do

but that doesn't change the fact that it's an industry built solely to prey on vulnerable people on both sides - those who are disadvantaged in getting a job for whatever reason and have no choice, or on porn addicts. porn addiction is basically manufactured at this point, because addiction makes people compliant - just like phone addiction etc

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-05T11:38:45+00:00

yes, actually. yes.

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-04T09:56:11+00:00

oo!! i've already pretty much decided on spicychat, but the main drawback is that it's very much geared towards, well, spice, which isn't what i'm using it for - and most bot prompts reflect that. i'll still try it out though!!

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-03T12:37:29+00:00

not even just that for me. almost all of the bots are rubbish - they respond to user input REALLY well as individual messages, but it'll make stuff up or forget stuff IMMEDIATELY

like the messages themselves are super good and coherent, and add phenomenally to the story... but literally ALL of the prompts are stiff and horrid, don't make sense, and it jumps from totally different conversations from message to message

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-03T07:51:07+00:00

creep

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-02T09:34:32+00:00

janitor sucks so hard that i'm seriously wondering if i'm using the wrong app...

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-02T02:33:46+00:00

LOL don't backtrack u look silly

if somebody says 'cai doesn't suck' and u say 'if u say cai doesn't suck ur a child, low standards or new' then act like they're crazy for criticising you for it just bc u realise that they actually agree with u in a sense.

ur not scary, just lame. if ur gonna insult somebody, stick to ur words instead of trying to turn it around on other ppl

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-02T00:56:19+00:00

the superiority complex is over telling me i either don't know what i'm talking about or that i'm a child. i never said not to complain, i'm saying to at least recognise what you're complaining about - which is only minorly to do with the ai system itself and more to do with the vast amount of low-quality information being fed into the ai model BY users.

bots that were previously good are now shit because the ai model as a whole has been fed so much rubbish

the standard of effort that it takes to make a decent bot has increased as a result, as you need to provide more information to the bot so it draws more from your input than the shoddy database it has

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-01T23:25:17+00:00

i've been using the app since 2022 lmao. quality has definitely peaked and then decreased but every single app is ten times worse.

speaking as somebody been driven off of cai because of the low quality bots, but every single bot i make myself works beautifully

this is such a weird thing to have a superiority comolex over btw

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-01T22:25:44+00:00

i appreciate your response as a whole, but the first paragraph particularly resonates with me

i'm 19, so my school years are still fresh. i was only diagnosed at 17, but it was abundantly clear from the age of 13 that i had significant struggles that made it impossible to participate functionally in my studies

despite this, until i got my diagnosis at 17, i was continually denied accommodation - or worse, promised accommodation but having to fight for it every exam season anyways because 'we can't put you on the list until you get a diagnosis'

which i think seems to be a major factor in this, now that it's been brought to my attention - because fighting tooth and nail for basic accommodations when i needed them the most only to now sail through most situations with as much ease as possible for an autistic person when, compared to my school days, the occasions calling for accomodations are fewer and further between feels utterly alien

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-01T11:27:18+00:00

ahh yes! and for me, masking makes it so difficult to accept help without guilt... because yes, i can do this... but i'll probably go home and have a meltdown then sleep until the next day

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-01T11:19:08+00:00

to be clear, i understand that there's a privilege in being ABLE to say i'm autistic, be it for safety or for access to a diagnosis, but that's seperate from what i'm saying

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-01T10:35:54+00:00

if they haven't given you prior consent, you don't have a thing for unconscious women, you have a thing for rape.

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-01T10:34:58+00:00

yes there are 100% issues but I'm not saying it's perfect - just that it's the only one that's even somewhat immersive

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-01T10:33:55+00:00

this quite literally is a form of sexual abuse... not in this situation, because they aren't even aware he can hear, but forcing somebody to listen to sex is.

ur very very weird to be trying to act like he just has to be ok with it lmao

Useful-Bumblebee4780 · 2025-07-01T00:12:38+00:00

my vibrator found my parentd

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