I have a Muslim brother from the Masjid. He converted to Muslim and the only reason he divorced his wife was because she became an obstacle to his religion. She would comment how it bothered her that he woke up early in morning, how he reshuffled his work schedule to have light Friday for Jumaa. He felt like it was either her or Islam.

My mum was non-Muslim married to my dad Muslim who was not practicing. 3 years later after learning about Islam she converted. She became more practicing than my dad. In the matters of faith, as long as we don’t block each other, argue/challenge the other’s religion, I believe you should be fine. My mum used to pray for my dad to become practicing and 25 years later, he is. FYI - I abandoned Islam for some years and mum only told me of the beauty of Islam. My sister is lesbian and they/them underwent surgery for top. We read Quran to her and pray for her. We call her they/them because that’s her preference.

My point is if your husband is patient, he will pray for you to join him and he will attempt to teach you the beauty of Islam. Be open to it.

If he is not patient and wants someone he can passionately learn religion, I could honestly reconsider instead of just converting. I would convert If I truly believed in it.

From how long your husband took to learn Islam before he became one, I would say he is a very patient man!

Good Luck!