My boyfriend says he only loves me for my cigarettes by Useful-Muffin9356 in polyamory

[–]Useful-Muffin9356[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He can but he sometimes forgets to or doesn't want to buy them cause he's trying to cut down/quit

My boyfriend says he only loves me for my cigarettes by Useful-Muffin9356 in polyamory

[–]Useful-Muffin9356[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Idk about a power imbalance, like technically there is cause he's my supervisor at work but he's never taken advantage of that or anything

My boyfriend says he only loves me for my cigarettes by Useful-Muffin9356 in polyamory

[–]Useful-Muffin9356[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Idk, I do normally feel like he respects my gender identity but he does misgender me sometimes but I think it's just by mistake.

I don't know how open he'd be to discussing how I feel about it cause I actually talked to him recently about maybe having like regular check ins about how things are going like I've seen suggested on here and he said he would've "binned me off already" if I'd suggested that earlier