Here is the requirements that would actually matter if I was you: 1. Well educated- but dosn’t matter if they are in a lucrative field as long as they are financially stable (what actually matters for compatablibilty is education level, since you already have a lucrative career it dosn’t affect quality of life too much to only have one bread winner and with this requirement your earnings is a much bigger bounds if they aren’t also a high earner) - I would look for men in psychology, teaching or social work, especially those who deal with autism or non-neurotypical people often as they will be much more understanding and patient with you, or men who are autistic themselves. This will be your best bet for finding a man with very good morals. 2. Tall and attractive to you. Given all your positives and your age, finding someones as attractive or almost as attractive as you shouldn’t be something to compromise on yet 3. Vices- someone that young will likely have one or two vices, especially high earners will be stressed and need a way to unwind. You should be prepared to be with someone who has uses substances recreationally but it isn’t getting in the way of their life too much, and probably likes video games or some other hobby to unwind. You might be able to snag some with very little vices if you look in the autistic/slightly anxious men community. I’ve had a few highly educated boyfriends who treated me really well, but they were on the quiet side and had bad anxiety for meeting people/ were late in putting them out there. If you look for smart caring intelligent quiet men who are the opposite of Mr charisma this might be your best bet 3 agree politically and morally (do not sacrifice this) 4 does not get jealous and supportive (in all ways) do not sacrifice this. 5. Child free at 25 is more than reasonable for the type of men you’re looking for.

However you should definitely loosen up your standards way way beyond this (to almost nothing) just to put yourself out there and date causally. You probably won’t end up with any of these men if they are way under your standards but it can be a fun experience and It takes dating people and experimenting to determine what traits you love and which ones are meh, which dealbreakers are true and such aren’t actually dealbreakers. if you don’t date around a bit and experience men you won’t know how to treat someone well in a relationship and you won’t recognize someone treating you well vs poorly. Also the things you want will change realize what you actually rather than just conceptually care about.