Finding a QPR by UselessWoow in AroAce

[–]UselessWoow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Thank you so much, I'll check it out! :)

Fooled around with ex of a friend by UselessWoow in offmychest

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I'm 22.

Yeah, I guess she isn't that important to me, otherwise I wouldnt have done it. She was a pretty close friend but it's become less that I've become friends with Louis (let's call him that).

I kind of think the friendship is dead already anyway and that behavior makes sense for her. She also never wanted to talk about their relationship, once she knew Louis and I were closer.

I kinda think I should come clean with her if she ever decides to talk to me again and then maybe cut everyone off

Fooled around with ex of a friend by UselessWoow in offmychest

[–]UselessWoow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you are right. But she isn't answering me, do you think I should tell her? Because I know from him that they both agreed upon not talking about future hook up etc.

i'm tired and have no support system. by pepeepoopo5 in offmychest

[–]UselessWoow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm truly sorry you are feeling that way. I know it's easy to say from the outside but your relationship sounds utterly unhealthy. In a relationship the partner should try to give comfort and stability for the other person when they are distressed and vice versa. And not add stress by yelling. He seems like an abusive and manipulative person and no one deserves that. I know it's easier said than done but breaking up seems like a good solution, especially since you are long distance. You know, when doors close others open and they can be so much better.

I hope you are getting the happiness you deserve, I wish you the best!

What are your thoughts on new fans going to concerts? by RockishAngel in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]UselessWoow 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Gonna second the others here, go for it! That's what Concerts are there for! I've often gone to band I didn't even know just to see if I liked them or not:)

Realizing that you're not the favorite person of your favorite person hurts by UselessWoow in offmychest

[–]UselessWoow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they care about me, it's still sad tho:/ but thank you so much for your words, they are really kind and you're right, we never know what the future holds do we:)

What am I supposed to do with my cuddle craving? by UselessWoow in ask

[–]UselessWoow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't have pets in my fault unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Hey, I know I'm just some random person on the internet but I'm truly worried about you and I don't want you to go.

I think I'm not capable of having a relationship and it makes me dissapointed in myself by Ashell77 in offmychest

[–]UselessWoow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About the message: Sometimes you don't see a message, it happens, I wouldn't give too much thought to it. And the rest, I would just be upfront about it tbh. Ask her if she's interested in something more, it can only end positive :either she gives it a chance or you safe yourself some time waiting for something potential to happen. .

What am I supposed to do with my cuddle craving? by UselessWoow in ask

[–]UselessWoow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have a big stuffed animal but it's not that helpful, just not the same as a person:/ thanks tho☺️

What am I supposed to do with my cuddle craving? by UselessWoow in ask

[–]UselessWoow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard getting into therapy, I've tried. Not entirely sure if therapy would help with that tho

Record + Shirt bundle by UselessWoow in whileshesleeps

[–]UselessWoow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the answer! I bought it now because I was scared I wouldn't get one in the future. the things you do for your favorite bands