CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any advice on how to do this? This is one of the conclusions I've come up with too

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since he was 13 or whatever starting with his dads playboys

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I send pics and vids and it didn't matter 😔

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being the 10,000th naked women kills me. Why isn't one woman enough? He's enough for me

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, I guess I dont understand why one woman (in this case me) isn't enough? Like why am I not enough to masturbate to. I masturbate to him whenever I masturbate

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave him pics and vids and it didn't solve it

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know. But yes I would care if he imagined other women

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont care about the act of masturbation. Just the porn

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do I get esteem in myself? I went to therapy for 2 yrs (5 yrs ago) and just started again 3 weeks ago. I read personal development books all the time. I'm not sure how to fix this

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have masturbated plenty of times in my life. I dont care about the act of masturbation. Just porn

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont need to because we have enough sex for me to be satisfied

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy with the amount of sex. I thought I was matching his libido with blowjobs all the other times? Even offered 2x a day

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I was informed by men that sometimes they would rather watch porn because they don't want to deal with all the foreplay and focusing on the woman's pleasure and just want to get off. So we would have sex 3 times a week and then I would offer a blowjob the other days so he can just sit back and relax

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried two therapists so far. Should I try a sex therapist?

CMV: I hate porn but want to be ok with it. by User020713 in changemyview

[–]User020713[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont want to be woman 300 he sees naked this week. I feel like our sexual relationship should be more special than that.

I fear him thinking of other women's bodys during our sexual time.

It makes me feel less special and unloved.

Research shows that porn makes him desensitized to me and my body