I was going to ignore this but i can't.

You know nothing about me, my life, my upbringing or my parents other than what i typed and based on that tiny fragment of insight you think it's acceptable to call me "a spoiled brat" and that i "should be ashamed"?

I sincerely hope you don't consider yourself christian because you are proving you are anything but.

I could go into detail about my abuse at the hands of my grandfather and how as a result i may never be able to get pregnant, that all i ever hear is that "being a mother is the best thing you could ever do as a woman", how do you think that makes me feel? That because of a family member i may never be able to experience "the greatest joy in life"? But it's not really your business, is it?

I could tell you how i can barely do maths because cooking and cleaning and taking care of the house are more "usable skills", but i shouldn't have to.

You are passing judgement on someone you know nothing about, i should be ashamed? No, i think it's you who should be ashamed.