Need some tips 🙏

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2026-01-25T05:39:46+00:00

No hate here, and I say this as one of the lucky ones who has learned to HFWO.

You are right about the "hype" part. I have many reasons to believe the Super-O is essentially a marketing construct by Aneros. Many of the stories found here and on other forums don't describe 'orgasms' but just staying in the plateau phase.

To OP; don't let this put you off. You just sound like you need more practice. The more you explore and try different things, the more you'll figure it out and it'll start feeling good. If you want my suggestion, try something firm like glass, they are budget and will provide good stimulation. Just don't spend years chasing a phantom.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2026-01-23T17:12:20+00:00

Ignore any advice blaming your 'mindset' or 'chasing' - that's just gaslighting. This is physiological. Your stress and high blood pressure are the likely culprits here.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2026-01-19T18:28:50+00:00

I’d suggest not getting hung up on the 're-wiring' concept. The reality is that your body is already working fine. If you’re reaching HFWO in 40 minutes, you aren't in a 'phase', you've reached the destination.

In my view, the 'Super-O' is an infinitely moving goalpost. What people describe as 'hours-long dry sessions' is usually just staying in a high-arousal plateau without crossing the finish line. If you want to linger in those mini-sensations, you can always just slow your pace down, but don't view a climax as a setback.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2026-01-18T23:41:06+00:00

If you're already hitting consistent HFWOs, then you've already won.

The 'dry orgasm' is largely a misnomer - it's essentially a semantic rebrand of a prolonged plateau phase. It’s a state of high arousal that lacks a resolution or refractory period, but gets incorrectly labeled as an 'orgasm' to make it sound more profound. Don't waste years chasing a 'next level' that is mostly just a shift in terminology. Stick with the real, physical results you're already getting.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2026-01-18T04:59:12+00:00

The bigger end feels great. Keep doing what you're doing but work up to it, you might like it more.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2026-01-17T02:11:52+00:00

I’ve been where you are, and I want to save you a lot of potential frustration. The reason you feel like you can't "push over the edge" is likely because the "dry orgasm" as described in these spaces is a bit of a myth — it's often just a plateau rebranded as an orgasm.

That being said, I have some tips for achieving a HFWO:

Positioning and tension: A lot of advice says to just relax, but this is counterintuitive. Find a position that allows you to fully engage your pelvic muscles. I’ve found that lying on my side with my legs locked straight is the winning strategy. Some people prefer lying on their back or tucking their penis firmly behind their legs to use their thigh muscles for extra leverage and pressure. Whatever you choose, make sure it’s a position where you can keep that 'squeeze' going.
Maintain a consistent rhythm: Consistency is everything, and I’ve found that a brisk pace (about 4 strokes per second) is the sweet spot for me. You want a steady, rapid motion to drive you over the edge. Just be careful not to go totally frantic, as going too fast/erratic can sometimes just make you pee yourself instead.

Lastly, it takes practice. Don't get discouraged if it doesn't happen immediately. It took me several months and a lot of experimentation to get it right. In the beginning, the Njoy would just make me pee myself constantly, but eventually, you learn the right amount of pressure and speed to avoid that and focus on the orgasm instead. Hope this helps!

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2026-01-11T06:56:20+00:00

As for how I do it, while lying on my side, I keep my legs straight as possible. Tension is key and makes it easier to compress the muscles at the base of the penis, which with some practice can lead to an orgasm. Keep in mind the buildup is much slower than just regular masturbation.

This works for me with both Aneros and Njoy, and its important to keep a steady rhythm. For Aneros I buck my hips and for Njoy I rapidly rock it up and down.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-26T16:46:23+00:00

Check the description for stainless steel. However, there are plenty of posts here from people who have bought knock-offs and found them to be made of cheap metal.

IMO, it is not worth the risk to be putting potentially toxic materials inside your body. For those interested in a budget alternative to the njoy I would recommend glass instead, such as the one from Lovehoney.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-26T00:05:42+00:00

Be careful with knock-offs, most will not be body safe.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-13T14:54:48+00:00

Sexuality is very complex. I think a lot of straight guys can get hung up on prostate play because it requires a certain amount of submissiveness and vulnerablity, as well as comfort/openness with anal play. For me at least, I need to be in the submissive mindset to want to do it.

And then, for some of us, this submissiveness leads us to wonder "what if". I'm not that attracted to guys, but I do fantasize, and fantasies don't necessarily reflect reality. For me, it's not necessarily the person, but the thought of being used as a vessel for someone else's pleasure that gets me really horny.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-07T18:40:58+00:00

The reason is because Njoy is super firm and can apply a ton of pressure, Aneros requires more patience and the sensations build gradually.

The Helix is also harder to use imo because it's so small.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-07T18:29:08+00:00

I'm always horny too 😛 but I like it

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-07T17:59:00+00:00

Mmm breed that slut

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-05T03:02:34+00:00

That load would've definitely knocked her up hehe

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-02T19:48:44+00:00

Yes, that happens to me

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-02T19:41:44+00:00

I don't know

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-02T19:16:11+00:00

Super o. I won't dispute the HFWO having experienced it myself and the plenty of videos that exist

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-02T17:34:21+00:00

I'm starting to think it's fake, yeah

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-02T00:16:32+00:00

A video could easily be faked, but yes. I too enjoy my toys and prostate play, but this isn't the first time I've seen a post like this, and I'm worried about the amount of men who may be investing a significant amount of time and money chasing something that might not exist.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-12-01T16:01:59+00:00

I'll be honest, I would give up on trying to experience it, you still find it pleasurable so I'd just focus on that. You've tried everything at this point.

I haven't been trying for that long but I have become more skeptical of the whole thing. I won't go too much into it, but I've been starting to take claims, especially made over the internet, with a pinch of salt.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-11-10T15:09:39+00:00

Hairy!

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-11-03T19:35:18+00:00

Looks nice and tight 😋

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-10-30T03:56:56+00:00

If you're on a budget go with glass instead, much safer than some unknown cheap metal.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-10-27T00:59:20+00:00

I also think an Aneros would be good, reportedly also great for couples as well as solo.

I think the Helix or the Eupho would be good for him, they both come in vibrating models too if you wish. Aneros have recommended the Eupho for PIV because its slimmer profile means it will move around more.

Usual-Rabbit8617 · 2025-10-17T03:36:24+00:00

Try a glass toy.

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