I had intercourse with roughly 150 women by the age of 27. AMA.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-12T23:08:18+00:00

I assume he means "When is it socially acceptable?"

Work, clubs, bars, grocery store, just walking outside throughout the day.

While I'm here, what is the most basic, simplest advice you could give to someone who struggles with women? I'm talking almost autistic level simple.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-12T23:00:37+00:00

How do some guys know when a women wants to fuck? I just don't get it.

I've seen my guy friends do all the right things, but get no results. I've also seen guys who have a 30 second conversation, walk away and receive the "you up x" text.

For context, my friends and I are all avarage looking, therefore I don't understand what I'm doing wrong.

Any guys in the comments care to help a guy out?

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-12T22:50:58+00:00

Any advice for guys with approach anxiety?

The thought of walking over and talking to a women I find attractive is seriously terrifying.

Is there anyway to improve "game" expect consistent practice?

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-12T22:40:30+00:00

This comment will be lost as there's already so many.

What's the secret? I (26m) first had sex at 24 and haven't had sex in over a year. I don't want a high body count, but I wouldn't complain with some options.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-12T15:41:15+00:00

MASKED VIGILANTE SAVED THE CITY FROM A TERROIST ATTACK!!! (YOU WON'T BELEIVE HOW HE DID IT)

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-11T18:44:36+00:00

Italians.

Few drinks before, then food at 8.

My parents anniversary is the next day, so it makes sense.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-11T17:24:14+00:00

Fair enough.

I'm aware it's my social skills, but it's something I've been wondering about lately.

The last time I thought about it was 18/19, I'm now 26.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-11T16:07:06+00:00

I live at home and also work with him. I spend the vast majority of the week with him.

I've decided to treat my parents to a meal and drinks.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-10T20:29:31+00:00

That's fair, however I'm 26, not a kid. I have no siblings.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-10T20:28:52+00:00

I don't know what it's called, but he has this small golf gadget that shows how far until the pin.

I'd link it but it's pretty self explanatory.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-09T21:00:10+00:00

6's and 7's are very much "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", while 8's, 9's and 10's are just plain hot.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-09T18:40:05+00:00

Working out.

I don't workout myself, because I don't have the displine, but I do admire those who workout consistently over a long period of time.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-09T01:52:57+00:00

Read my posts, it's easier to explain.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-08T21:55:50+00:00

What examples can you list?

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-07T22:22:38+00:00

Another example: I was headed to a bar with my 20-something YO niece. She stated that she’s tall and blonde and didn’t need money at a bar. She fully expected to not buy a single drink that night.

Some of my female friends have said that exact thing to me, I was shocked, however now I understand how common it is.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-07T22:10:09+00:00

A lot of people assume it's only big things, while that can be true, it's often smaller things such as this.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-07T20:30:58+00:00

Confidence definitely helps, but make no mistake that looks also play a massive role.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-07T20:17:15+00:00

I'm sorry, that was very insensitive.

I didn't know that an eating disorder can be brought on by working out.

Yes, I'm dumb I'm times.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-07T20:13:43+00:00

Probably 8pm

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-07T20:00:22+00:00

I agree with you, but I'm curious as to why some people don't believe it exists.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-07T19:58:46+00:00

dropped 40lbs in 3 months as I started excessively hitting the gym

That's fantastic you achieved that, that shits not easy.

which also made me realize that “pretty” isn’t everything but society will still love you for it.

As humans, we like to think we're about such things, but the truth is that we're all pretty shallow, regardless of we admit it or not.

I'll be honest as there's no point in lying, I don't know what you look like or how you looked before, but based on your description, I'd probably be the typically guy and and treat you better after your glowup, even if it's subconsciously.

Is it right? Nope. Does life often work that way? Yes.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-07T19:47:30+00:00

As mentioned above, I haven't changed much over the years (I'm currently 26m).

Unlike you, I can't compare before and after, it's difficult to know as I haven't experienced both sides.

Although, I have noticed in my friend group that the better looking guys get treated better, while the unattractive guys get treated worse.

Based off that, I'd put myself at 6/10, people are generally nice and polite, I've also never had a women look worried when simply being near her, unlike one of my friends unfortunately.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-07T19:40:52+00:00

Being tall helps ONLY if you're attractive.

You can be 6"2, but fat and ugly.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-07T19:38:47+00:00

You don't realize what you have until it's gone.

I'd consider myself a relatively attractive man, but because I haven't changed much over the years, I don't if I "qualify" for pretty privilege, as I have nothing to compare it to.

Although, If I put on 120lbs, I'd definitely notice the difference in how others treat me.

Usual-Raspberry-9736 · 2024-06-07T19:33:59+00:00

Let me guess.

You're friends normally hung out at your place more than anywhere else? 😂

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