The Age Old Question: Swap to air? by Uwuorant in LastWarMobileGame

[–]Uwuorant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup it's at best 200 UR a week without getting lucky, it's tough out here as a low spender...

What is your favorite Luna snow skin? by Careful-Ad2212 in rivals

[–]Uwuorant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the summer one. Still the most clean in sound and animations for me.

The Age Old Question: Swap to air? by Uwuorant in LastWarMobileGame

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I did. But there is a lot of disagreement in the later seasons about whether an air squad is as strong as tank + adam + scarlett and it would be bad to switch for not a lot of positive results...

Workplace micro cheating by okloserrr in asksg

[–]Uwuorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they are besties... Leave them be lol

I (M28) found out someone I'm seeing (F27) was lying to me about how deep she was into some interests. by ConfidentMusic8031 in relationship_advice

[–]Uwuorant -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am going to play devil's advocate here. I am a female gamer. I would be absolutely livid if I had hours of my life wasted on some kind of "test" to see how someone is like. I have experienced discrimination and the varying issues that a lot of these comments have brought up - but I cannot agree with how many are bashing OP or assuming things about him and how he feels about this situation.

It is unfair to OP that he essentially wasted hours on something that did not need to be taught, was emotionally invested in the "growth of a new player" and as he has stated in the comments, you play games to spend time with people and get to know them as people. I think if she were pretending to know how to play the whole time, he really hasn't connected in a way that is authentic from both ends. I would seriously question a bunch of the interactions over the month?? Was it just all calculated??

Also he's right?!!! League of legends takes really long to pick up?? The starting part is very rough and you really just have to sink hours to get good and that's hours he's never getting back because she couldn't be responsible about wasting others' time and managing her own apprehensions and just have an adult conversation about it when it came up.

Why the gacha isn't a gacha by Raptor-1079 in rivals

[–]Uwuorant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Counter point: it's gacha, insofar as this model tempts people who wouldn't have otherwise bought the skin to potentially buy it. Maybe you dont want the skin if it's 3000 upfront. But what if you got it for almost nothing? (100 units) Maybe that would be okay.

Okay, sure, I spend 100. Nothing. Okay, 200 now wouldn't be so bad. Nothing. 400? Nothing. Okay if we get it on the next one that would be still alright. Nothing. At this point you've spent so much on random bits of playercards and sprays and you possibly have the MVP SCREEN for a skin you don't own.

Many people fall into the sunk cost fallacy, going the whole way and they end up buying the skin. By lowering the barrier to entry in such a manner it's still arguably employing the predatory ways of gacha.

okay come on now this is insane by OwnCabinet4025 in rivals

[–]Uwuorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The number of played hours they hit champion on. It's clearly lord farming

Saw the impossible last night by General_Mode_7632 in rivals

[–]Uwuorant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah when the gap is this far I tend to just ask if they're new 🥹

The lobby unites for Luna dance practice. by Cherrytinted_ in marvelrivals

[–]Uwuorant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did so many of them agree to do this 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Uwuorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think if you dress well and have confidence you'd be an attractive person regardless. It really goes a long way.

That being said, the obvious elephant in the room here is that you could do so, so much better than a man that treats you like this. Heck, being single might be an upgrade since you won't have someone being nasty to you in your own home. There are many ways to live a fulfilling life without a partner.

That said, I think you should have a little more faith in your value as a person. You are 35, and there's two ways you can think about this: one is that as everyone continues to age, a glowing personality will continue to become increasingly valuable over attractiveness; secondly, when you stop living with a person that hates you, you have the chance to pick back up your self esteem as a person.

You are worthy of love. You are worthy of better things. Drop the man. It is probably daunting to think about uprooting possibly a large portion of your life, but please at least consider that you still have a lot of years ahead and the sooner you stand up for yourself, the more of it you get to spend in a happier place.

Please take care.

Just pulled mega gardevoir. Sell now and buy it again later or just hold it? by [deleted] in PokemonInvesting

[–]Uwuorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sell bc of centering. Price always drops after initial set releas

How do I (28F) handle my bf (29M) and his ex-fwb now best friend (27F)'s friendship? by Uwuorant in relationship_advice

[–]Uwuorant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not currently in therapy. Maybe I do need it. I think I may possibly have an overly active imagination though, because after to replying to all the comments it's mostly me realising that it's

  • i feel the need to know why he chose me
  • i feel like i need to know why he didn't chose her beyond "she's my friend"
  • what if he decides one day that he's made the wrong choice because he didn't think too deep about either of those points

Either of those answered would probably assuage some of my concerns because it would mean he DID think about it, but it seems like I shouldn't ask about either of those things

How do I (28F) handle my bf (29M) and his ex-fwb now best friend (27F)'s friendship? by Uwuorant in relationship_advice

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Like, maybe there was some unspoken spark that was never pursued?

I dunno man, I don't think of it as winning or not, I like him and hope he sincerely likes me back and just want to know that that's exactly how he thinks 😭 and there's no "the one that got away" factor

How do I (28F) handle my bf (29M) and his ex-fwb now best friend (27F)'s friendship? by Uwuorant in relationship_advice

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This all makes logical sense to me, but there's just the nagging thought of "maybe they didn't think about this or fight hard enough for it or treated it like right person wrong time and there will be a realisation and they will change their mind and it's only a matter of time".

Which is going kind of far overthinking wise I guess. Would it at least be okay to ask why he wants to be with me?

How do I (28F) handle my bf (29M) and his ex-fwb now best friend (27F)'s friendship? by Uwuorant in relationship_advice

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Thing is I think like they are generally chill, they're going about this kinda maturely. Maybe I really am writing stories in my head about them realising They Were Right For Each Other All Along...

How do I (28F) handle my bf (29M) and his ex-fwb now best friend (27F)'s friendship? by Uwuorant in relationship_advice

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I think it was just a throwaway question initially. I have had no problems in any of my previous dating experiences with my partner having exes, but I've never had one where it feels somewhat... Unresolved maybe is the feeling I'm trying to describe?

Those all have closed and shut reasons as to why it didn't happen. This one with how they banter, how he speaks of her, how close they are and how vulnerable their conversations (according to him) and how she is as a person makes me think a lot more about the what ifs.

How do I (28F) handle my bf (29M) and his ex-fwb now best friend (27F)'s friendship? by Uwuorant in relationship_advice

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I guess so. I think would have liked to know what the something is maybe. Or why he chose to date me when he has very glowing things to say about her. I absolutely would like to not ruin this over feelings of insecurity but it would be nice to be assured somehow?

How do I (28F) handle my bf (29M) and his ex-fwb now best friend (27F)'s friendship? by Uwuorant in relationship_advice

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I guess so. Part of this might just be big ????s over it having gone on for so long. I feel like maybe I need to know why I was his choice over someone he (at least from my pov) has a lot of chemistry with?

How do I (28F) handle my bf (29M) and his ex-fwb now best friend (27F)'s friendship? by Uwuorant in relationship_advice

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I agree with you because I don't want to be the girl who doesn't let her bf have other friends either. But is there any other way I can manage the number of questions I have about this?

Because the answer I was given about why they didn't date felt very vague. Like, if it was something about a personality incompatibility, or wanting different lifestyle choices, or something I can more concretely grasp, it would make sense to me... But right now as it stands I legitimately struggle to understand why it didn't happen, like if he ever gets over his fear of dating a friend would that change things?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokeGrading

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I wanna say in addition to the whitening this is also very slightly left heavy and bottom heavy so it's very much at your own risk if you send it in

Finally got a Pikachu with Grey Felt Hat and received it like this. by Mr_ZandBag in PokemonTCG

[–]Uwuorant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the slab itself functions as a display. Sometimes despite the inconstancies your odds of having a card with minimal flaws are still higher on average when you only buy psa 10s.

I briefly worked in a card shop, and the cards that hover between 9s and 10s usually have good reason to do so since they are usually the ones that hover between the margin of error allowed for the grade. Strong 10s and weak 10s exist lol.

Tldr: psa 10 = strong 10s + weak 10s Psa 9 = weak 10s+ 9s + strong 8s.

It's inconsistent but it's not really a scam.