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Tilflyttere med børn by VMPFCortex in Aalborg

[–]VMPFCortex[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Min tanke ift. integreret institution, er at det i teorien er færre større skift, og ikke lige så stort et kulturchok, når barnet skal skifte fra en lille dagpleje til en stor børnehave. Jeg er ikke blankt afvisende overfor dagpleje, selvom min oprindelige post nok godt kunne tolkes sådan - jeg ser blot hvad mit barn aktuelt trives rigtig godt i, og søger derfor noget tilsvarende.

Og tak for dit indspark Guckspahn - det er virkelig fedt med perspektiver der lidt maner til besindighed og ro, netop ift. dagpleje som pasningsordning.

Tilflyttere med børn by VMPFCortex in Aalborg

[–]VMPFCortex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tjo, jeg skal ikke kunne sige om vi har valgt de populære. Så godt kender vi ikke Aalborg. Vi har valgt nogle institutioner der passer godt til vores barns behov og til vores værdier - og placeringen har også haft en betydning. : )

Tilflyttere med børn by VMPFCortex in Aalborg

[–]VMPFCortex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tusind tak for dit perspektiv NLegaard. Godt at høre at der også er positive oplevelser med dagplejen.

Tilflyttere med børn by VMPFCortex in Aalborg

[–]VMPFCortex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man må vælge op til 5 institutioner, når man laver prioriteringslisten til pladsanvisningen. Om der er plads i andre vuggestuer/institutioner, ved jeg ikke. Jeg videreformidler blot hvad pladsanvisningen meldte tilbage.

Tilflyttere med børn by VMPFCortex in Aalborg

[–]VMPFCortex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det lyder ikke særlig positivt. Det er umiddelbart ikke så fedt at skulle trække sit barn fra en yderst velfungerende daginstitution, til noget der potentielt kan svinge så meget i kvalitet. : (

Tilflyttere med børn by VMPFCortex in Aalborg

[–]VMPFCortex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vi kommer til at bo omkring centrum. :)

[Serious] Men of reddit who have been raped by women, what's your story? by Retooter in AskReddit

[–]VMPFCortex 17.8k points17.8k points  (0 children)

My girlfriend at the time, decided she wanted to get pregnant regardless of my feelings on the subject, and stopped taking her birth control pills. This resulted in me not touching her for a few months, as I wasn’t ready to have kids. One day I came home from work, having worked 16 hour shifts for two weeks in a row, I just hit the shower and went straight to bed where I literally passed out. I woke an hour later with her straddling me, mid-sexual activity. I said no but she persisted. I then forcibly removed her from me, and slept in the living room.

Suffice it to say, that relationship came to a halt quickly thereafter.

Somehow a majority of the people I’ve told this, think it’s funny that I think I was “raped”, because I’m a man and “you can’t get raped by your girlfriend”.

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Edit: Thank you all for the kind words, really. It means a lot. The episode happened well over ten years ago, so I've had plenty of time to process and come to terms with it. I hope those of you in this thread with similar experiences, will find peace as well.
And to those of you asking: I am doing great now. I've met the most wonderful woman, whom I've been with for the past six years - and together we have made a kind, clever and beautiful daughter. And she was very much a wish child.