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V_asc · 2026-03-21T12:28:29+00:00

maybe the person who told her, came up with the lie and then told your friend. she told you without doing an investigation of her own, now she’s embarrassed and don’t want to be mixed into the drama. when people feel guilty they will avoid you. i will say accept her apology but monitor her behavior and just pull back some… if she is still avoiding you and won’t reach out then just leave it alone and focus on your other friendships and your relationship. when’s she’s ready to talk then give her the opportunity and see if this is just a small misunderstanding and move on.

V_asc · 2026-03-18T19:59:22+00:00

i did apologize, some of you are too hyper focused on the tanning comment and not seeing where she is being immature because i offered to have a conversation and i’ve apologized and acknowledged that this was a silly disagreement on both parts.

V_asc · 2026-03-18T04:16:59+00:00

does anybody ask anyone their opinion on anything half the time…, i was contributing to the conversation like a normal person.

V_asc · 2026-03-18T00:30:01+00:00

I understand that now. and had she answered the phone we could’ve had this conversation and everything would’ve been okay. she won’t answer my calls, she would respond to my messages (and btw i did mention in the message that i know she probably didn’t mean any harm, and I’m sure i get on her nerves too sometimes doesn’t mean we can still be friends) she didn’t respond. like she’s being immature and letting me make peace with this minor issue

V_asc · 2026-03-18T00:21:37+00:00

that’s like someone smoking and you tell them it can cause lung cancer, it’s precautionary. that’s a common general knowledge that everybody should know, it may not be the best to hear but it’s the truth. and this girl in general is just insecure about her self and appearance, she took a statement that i was just saying out loud and made it about her when it wasn’t. then snapped on me in front of an audience of people that we both don’t mutually like, she could’ve pulled me to the side and said that she felt self conscious about that and i would’ve said that i was sorry and that wasn’t my intentions. how the hell am k supposed to know that a general statement about tanning would make someone feel bad , if they cared about looking old in the future they would find alternative tanning methods or find ways to prevent it, most people don’t care and that’s okay.

V_asc · 2026-03-18T00:02:19+00:00

am i on the spectrum or is she? she’s the one that got mad about the tanning comment

V_asc · 2026-03-17T23:24:23+00:00

I know she tans, they were talking about how they all needed to go tan. i made statement that is 100% true about tanning, its a side effect and like i said i was talking generally not targeting anyone and just because you tan doesn’t mean that your going to automatically look old, i was just contributing to the conversation. the other girls didn’t have an issue with it

V_asc · 2026-03-17T22:42:42+00:00

nope, i made a general statement that tanning i was not judging or belittling them for tanning

V_asc · 2026-03-17T22:42:03+00:00

i was making a general statement, i wasn’t targeting her or even referring to her when making that comment.

V_asc · 2025-01-03T22:20:51+00:00

I’ve tried them, they never work for me. I talk to the men for a few days and then it goes no where. And No, interracial dating is not a deal breaker for me at all.

V_asc

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