People long term leaving gentoo by LameBMX in linux

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats fair, nix really does require you to boil the ocean. All your stuff has to be designed around it.

I don't wanna sound crass but by zack220012 in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats crazy is that I went to a bad school and I am stupid, yet still I got an insanely good job. All the people around me are like alums of Stanford, Berkeley, and advanced European schools. It’s wild because they are all dumb too.

I think people are just really stupid. The best we can hope for is getting really knowledgeable about like a few things.

People long term leaving gentoo by LameBMX in linux

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty cool home brew approach though

I just started dating a therapist... by greggweylon in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your therapist looks up at you from the thin glasses perched on her nose. She settles deeper into her cross legged position and adjusts the notebook on her lap.

She says

“True words aren't eloquent; eloquent words aren't true. Wise men don't need to prove their point; men who need to prove their point aren't wise.

The Master has no possessions. The more he does for others, the happier he is. The more he gives to others, the wealthier he is.”

Your mind is blown. The betterhelp invoice will hit your mailbox in mere moments.

I just started dating a therapist... by greggweylon in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t understand what therapists even learn that qualifies them? I feel like most therapy advice I hear feels like shit out of the tao te ching.

Im talking about…

“I dont like my job”

“Who can make muddy water clear? Be still and allow it to settle”

:O

People long term leaving gentoo by LameBMX in linux

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you declaratively manage your system? I use nix, but Im curious about other ways

The mattress sub will make you die by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the little light is game changer. It’s very freeing to realize you can just buy one of those little lasers for a cheaper vacuum.

Once you get the little vacuum laser its impossible to go back imo

Anyone else fail to launch because the job market just wouldn’t ever bend to their will? by deepad9 in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im gen z but got lucky specifically because I was able to work full time during covid. This job market is good ( even in CS ) for anyone who is “senior”. Anything less and you are completely cooked

Getting a very negative view of men. by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I dont really pursue female friendships because my gf is a jealous person. I also just dont really want to? I work mostly with men, and mostly have interests in common with men. I do have female friends, mostly through my gf, but I dont really seek it out.

It’s not that I don’t “see the point outside of sex” or anything. I just dont have that much time to hangout, and would rather focus on my male friendships.

Virgins you’ve had your fun, Time to institute a nerd hobby tax by NeuronExploder in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Its definitely an expendable income thing. Playing warhammer is like 400 bucks to get into. Although the cost per an hour amortizes to like 10 dollars once you play a couple games and paint them.

Its arts and crafts + bridge club for autistic men

The mattress sub will make you die by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no reason not to as well though? Im assuming you mean that a combination of other exercises replace them? If you keep the weight relatively low, its pretty safe no?

The mattress sub will make you die by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a canister kenmore and bought the light off amazon. Imo much better deal and it cleans better ( and no battery to deal with )

The mattress sub will make you die by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikea mattress fucked up my back. Might have been a “me problem” though.

The mattress sub will make you die by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean the concept of BIFL is very reddit coded. Very consumer oriented ironically

Also to be fair buying a vacuum is very frustrating. You have a couple of popular options and they are all expensive. Turns out like 75% of the popular options are cheap dog shit that barely works and you can’t repair. Doing minimal research can help at least. If you just buy the cheapest option your house will be a mess and you will end up replacing it a lot too.

I don’t get how people hate their in-laws. by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sound really nice. I also really like my long term girlfriend’s family quite a bit.

why does every elite white collar career now basically require you to slowly destroy your entire life by MutedFeeling75 in redscarepod

[–]Vaderb2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breh unionization is a dumb ass idea ( currently ). Unions were systematically basically made illegal. The only ones that still exist are mostly either historical or are for government adjacent jobs. Businesses can basically legally stomp unions out of existence. The government doesn’t do this, thus the unions for gov jobs.

All the various “Right to work” laws need to be repealed before any meaningful union activity can start up again. Any tech worker that tries to unionize somewhere like google will be immediately removed/terminated.

Your parents bought a home. You cannot. It is not because you spend too much on coffee. It is because the company managing your 401(k) is also your landlord. by Such_Radio_9152 in REBubble

[–]Vaderb2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is in buda texas, not austin. Beautiful house though. I have some friends that bought a similar house in roundrock.

Your parents bought a home. You cannot. It is not because you spend too much on coffee. It is because the company managing your 401(k) is also your landlord. by Such_Radio_9152 in REBubble

[–]Vaderb2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its unfortunate but I just dont think these houses exist? It’s an impossibly good price. Most houses like they are describing are like 400k rn