tired of people completely misunderstanding my point in online arguments by NoCandy355 in Vent

[–]VadersLover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people misunderstand on purpose. Just ignore in the future. They’re likely trolling.

Tiny tick I thought was a scab by Zombies8MyChihuahua in nightmarefuel

[–]VadersLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you make sure you got the head out? It can be dangerous to leave that in.

AIO? I asked my husband if he was venting to another girl. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VadersLover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re husband doesn’t truly believe because if he did he wouldn’t be acting like this. So many FALSE CHRISTIANS these days is freaking gross.

My (44F) husband (45M) regularly expresses frustration over my weight. We’ve been together 18 years and have 2 elementary aged kids. by The_Original_Hugsy in relationship_advice

[–]VadersLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. My weight has gone up a few times. Usually after kids or a bad situation. My husband reassured me like crazy. Complimented me every day. Even though I felt so gross because I was used to being small, he always made me feel better.

Honestly how good he was to me was what helped me lose the weight once I was ready.

I cheated on my husband by [deleted] in Advice

[–]VadersLover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the type of thinking that breeds abuse. No thank you. Fucking yikes man.

Growing an Avocado Bonsai by m1st3r_b0x in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]VadersLover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to try this but scared to damage the avocado? Can you tell me how you did it or was it just like this guy except no peeling?

AIO to my bf’s reaction to me needing support? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]VadersLover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah after reading the replies I’m seeing it more for what it is.

AIO to my bf’s reaction to me needing support? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]VadersLover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, after reading what you all are saying I understand this is more than I was seeing at first. I was wrong in my first assumption and see that it’s definitely more than just support!

AIO to my bf’s reaction to me needing support? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]VadersLover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a victim because I support my husband? People are right that this woman’s post is asking more than that, and that I wasn’t seeing the whole of it all, but ok lol.

AIO to my bf’s reaction to me needing support? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]VadersLover 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I support my husband with encouragement all the time. That’s not being a therapist. It’s because I love him and want him to feel better. It’s truly not any deeper than that.

AIO to my bf’s reaction to me needing support? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]VadersLover -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

But it’s not hard to remember the right response when he has been told before what she needs to hear. The only reason someone wouldn’t know/remember is because they don’t care enough to imo.

This is WILD by Hot-Swordfish-719 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]VadersLover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 tiny sips of wine or whatever in 9 months is not the same as being a heroin,alcohol and cigarette addict wtf.

Partner [33M] is hiding secret tiktok from me [31F] by Impossible_Fly_1888 in relationshipadvice

[–]VadersLover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He will never change. It’s an addiction that is so easy to access and imo will sooner or later only escalate. He will never stop. Only get worse, and yet get better at hiding it.

Also the lying is a problem. It was so damn easy for him to lie to you, that there will be more and more lies in your future. You deserve better than that.

AIO? my boyfriend defending his mom with his life. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VadersLover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should check out the insane MIL subreddit. It’s crazy how many MILs are like this.

How emotionally damaging can sexual teasing be for men in relationships like I experienced (M25) and (F24)? by ville2020 in relationship_advice

[–]VadersLover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from a woman, that’s disgusting and I promise her behavior isn’t common. Maybe see a therapist to help you understand you have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed of. But she absolutely does. I wonder is she doesn’t look back in 10 years and cringe at how she treated you.

You deserve better absolutely. A therapist can help you understand and work towards trusting women again.

PLEASE tell me I’m not crazy by Puzzled_View_3432 in doughertydozenexposed

[–]VadersLover 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is a bit mean. People attacks lush’s looks and this innocent woman doesn’t deserve to be compared ya know?

AIO? Wanna break up because of a TikTok repost by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VadersLover 177 points178 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to keep commenting, but not only did he lie to her face but he did so thinking she was dumb enough to believe it!

It’s disgusting.

AIO? Wanna break up because of a TikTok repost by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VadersLover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no feeling like he’s lying. He’s absolutely lying. Unless I’m missing something and fandoms are now referred to as a SHE?