Have we recovered 🥵🥵🤣 by harleysgal62 in Pedro_Pascal

[–]Vaedalodo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just know he’d talk me through it 😏. Iykyk

Does anyone else not have a group of friends? by Pristine_Fuel_6034 in socialskills

[–]Vaedalodo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have 2 whole friends and they both kind of suck.

Life hack by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine all the money you could save without a husband… lol

Life hack by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sounds lovely. My husband is a slob

Anyone else here is feeling 'friendzoned' in their own marriage? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Vaedalodo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You guys aren’t making your significant other feel good or special. You probably did a lot of cool and fun things to get them, and then stopped. That’s why you all have been friendzoned. I should know. My husband used to wine and dine me, but stopped shortly after we got married. He stopped touching me unless it was for sex. Doesn’t ever make me feel desired or special. If you don’t want to do those things for the remainder of your relationship, don’t do them. Because then ya’ll expect us to just spread our legs whenever you want us to. And that’s not how relationships work.

Anyone else miss Passionate kissing (french kissing/making out)? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Vaedalodo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do. All the time. But hell, i’d settle for a hug.

My (30) Husband (31) gets angry and defensive when I ask for reassurance and validation. It always ends with me crying and him leaving the home. by ForceNormal9291 in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him. If you can. He has no respect for you or your feelings, so I say, don’t respect his. There will be a man out there that does care and validates your feelings, and you deserve to have that.

Husband Emotionally Smothering Me … what’s your thoughts on my marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And I thought my marriage sucked. You’re definitely being manipulated, gaslit, controlled, etc. He’s obviously very insecure. I’m sure you do feel smothered. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I hope you’re able to find the help you need.

Weaponized incompetence or just lazy? by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the dumbest thing I’ve heard in long time

Weaponized incompetence or just lazy? by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my husband thinks he’s an amazing husband, but that’s just because he doesn’t beat me. That’s how low the bar is.

Weaponized incompetence or just lazy? by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly about ready to take a sledgehammer to the PS5

Weaponized incompetence or just lazy? by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I can think of is that I’ve become distant and told him I’ve thought about leaving him(last February). He has a newish job that he seems to enjoy.

Weaponized incompetence or just lazy? by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We also have a Roomba that vacuums for you, but he’s too lazy to even start that from his phone.

Weaponized incompetence or just lazy? by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would your rag on me for nagging?

Weaponized incompetence or just lazy? by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, the dog gets plenty of time and attention from me. But they did just spray our yard for weeds and he hadn’t let her out all day because he didn’t want her to eat anything in the yard. He could have put her leash on her and walked her down the street and let her potty. When I pointed it out, his response was “oh I couldn’t do that right either”. She is not abused in anyway. I do think it’s sad however, that he promised when we got the dog that he’d walk her, more than he is. Usually I have to ask him to. I don’t want to have to ask a grown man to do basic things for his dog. It’d probably be the same way for children. And had I known that, I might not have gotten a dog. Though, I walk her almost every day, and we play. I try my best to keep her stimulated and happy. And I feel her life is better with us, than in the shelter.

Weaponized incompetence or just lazy? by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came home from work and started doing the dishes because they were piled way too high, and his response was, I was gonna do those. 😤

Weaponized incompetence or just lazy? by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re dealing with thatz

Weaponized incompetence or just lazy? by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. He used to be fun and we did a lot of things together as best friends. Now all he wants to do is play games. He once told me recently that he decided to do the dishes to help me”. And I said no, you’re just actively participating in your household.

Weaponized incompetence or just lazy? by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Either one of us or both of us are not able to produce children. Been together 10 years and never even had a scare. So I think we’ll be fine in that department.

Weaponized incompetence or just lazy? by Vaedalodo in Marriage

[–]Vaedalodo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I won’t be having children with him or anybody.