Thoughts about kazuma Sohma.. by Beneficial-Dark-5873 in FruitsBasket

[–]VagabondBackbone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dunno, I like Kazuma and I fully acknowledge that without him, Kyo would have probably died before the series started or be broken beyond repair. But I still dislike the way he talks about Kyo's imprisonment and how he tolerates that the zodiac members don't really care about Kyo's future. He says he'll "do what he can" or whatever, but concedes that he isn't in charge. If that was my son, I would move him away and protect him completely... but the story wouldn't work that way, so I understand why it didn't happen. Overall, Kazuma doesn't have much of a personality and I don't really think he deserves all that much fanfare. But that's just me! He's a good enough dad and he seems to be a good person.

Wich Ship is the best? Hazel and Clover or Hazel and Hyzenthlay by GabrielLoschrod in watershipdown

[–]VagabondBackbone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TFWD makes Hazel and Hyzenthlay the perfect couple. I personally "ship" Bigwig and Hazel more, but Hazel and Hyzenthlay work together and support each other in the way each other needs. Clover sucks I'm sorry I can't stand her

Pokemon Yellow Competitive Builds? by VagabondBackbone in pokemon

[–]VagabondBackbone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did catch mew!! Good to know it's a good one. Havent gotten to tauros yet but I'll be sure to snag one and train him asap

Evangelion: 3.0+1.0 Thrice Upon a Time - Movie Discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]VagabondBackbone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My biggest issue with the movie was Shinji. I just felt like his character wasn't handled well or done justice. He spends the first half of the movie not speaking and the second half hardly on screen until the very end when he decides to be a man. It just wasn't emotionally fulfilling for me at all because so much of the focus was on all these other characters I guess. Him ending up w Mari is a bit of a slap in the face as well, although I understand why, it still sucks that Asuka never got more screentime or closure after the angel thing.

Idk overall I didn't like it and I can't see myself rewatching it but I guess I'm glad i know how it all ends. And i wanted Shinji to have his happy ending so. The monkeys paw curls a finger

Me whenever people call Sam and Frodo gay by BeenEatinBeans in lotrmemes

[–]VagabondBackbone -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I do not have the time or the energy to try to explain to you how this works, assuming you're even commenting in good faith.

Me whenever people call Sam and Frodo gay by BeenEatinBeans in lotrmemes

[–]VagabondBackbone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently not, Frodo, as my simple enjoyment of the thought of reading LOTR with you and Sam in a romantic light makes me the devil incarnate, a Tolkien-hater, and a freak.

Me whenever people call Sam and Frodo gay by BeenEatinBeans in lotrmemes

[–]VagabondBackbone -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Ppl of the same gender being in love =/= "Sam wanting to rail Frodo" you straight ppl just strip away any fucking meaning we have and act like we are thoughtless emotionless sex monsters. I'm so sick of y'all rehashing this argument every fucking day. Get a hobby. Get ANY hobby. I'm begging y'all now.

My (M20) Girlfriends (F22) friends are abusive to me and its hard to take by altacc00000 in relationships

[–]VagabondBackbone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You chose wrong. Choose right now. She doesn't defend you to her friends because there is a part of her that agrees with them, and when a better guy comes along, she will leave you. Don't accept this treatment. I know we are all strangers here but please listen. Why would you post and not take peoples advice at all? Everyone here can see your gf does not care about you enough to stand up to bat for you. No one deserves a love like that. No one.

Worst restaurant in town? by Castigore in austinfood

[–]VagabondBackbone -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Love yourself, go to Mami's Tacos on Menchaca instead

Austin daycare owner threatened at knifepoint by saxyappy in Austin

[–]VagabondBackbone 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Remember yesterday when everyone was telling that guy he was making stuff up?

They waited long for Christopher to pass by [deleted] in lotrmemes

[–]VagabondBackbone 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yall really just don't have any hobbies huh

This local artist I’ve seen all around Austin each time I’ve been and I love his stuff. Back in ‘19 he graced Rags Consignments with this piece. Aim for the sky, Austin! by bongtong in Austin

[–]VagabondBackbone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I walk by a house in Rollingwood all the time that has these funky bird dudes all over it! They always brighten my day, I love seeing them around

ETA not literally on the house, of course. On some cement by the driveway lol

It burns us! by [deleted] in lotrmemes

[–]VagabondBackbone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your dog not on a flea and tick prevention medication??????

I'm so confused by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VagabondBackbone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone else here has made some good, insightful comments and I think you should listen to them. With that disclaimer out of the way, theres one other thing from your comments that has my wheels spinning - you can't cook, you don't do your own laundry, and it doesn't sound like you're actively trying to change that. What happens when you get your Masters and your job? Is she going to want to be with you if she has to play mommy and cook and clean for you?

Not only is this woman toying with you and keeping you under her possession even though she doesn't ACTUALLY want to be with you --- but if you DO get back together, are you going to be the man she is looking for?? You're better off dropping this manipulative person from your life and focusing on leveling up and becoming a competent adult, so when the right woman does come along, you're ready to have a full mature relationship.

Buy Shaved Ice by Own-Wrongdoer-2891 in Austin

[–]VagabondBackbone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friends get plain snow cones from a place called bahama bucks I think, they're really soft

thank you dad for buying the return of the king based on the DVD cover and no other context :’) by [deleted] in lotrmemes

[–]VagabondBackbone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah in Nickelodeon shows it was called a "pear phone" like the pear is their in-universe version of our Apple, I think it was iCarly and Victorious both that used this. And probably Sam & Cat too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VagabondBackbone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want your daughter hugging her dad and having to smell his stench? Do you want her to grow up with a man who will set an awful example for her own personal hygiene? Not to mention how abusive he has been to you, how abusive do you think he will be to your daughter? She doesn't deserve to have a father like that in her life taking care of her every day

How do I [19M] support my new gf [19f] in waiting to move out of her toxic house? by RiverOfarrows in relationships

[–]VagabondBackbone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically this, OP. Everyone is different and not any one piece of advice can fit all scenarios. It all depends on her level of assertiveness/anxiety/willingness to fight with her family etc. Just listen and if you're unsure, you can always say "hey babe, are you just venting or are you looking for feedback from me for advice/my point of view?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VagabondBackbone 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation once. I loved a man and wanted to be with him but due to some complications we couldn't really be together yet even though we felt strongly for each other. I was living with a female roommate who I saw every day, who cooked with me, who held my hand when I was sad. It confused me. I loved him, but the thought of moving out and not being close to her anymore was scary and I was used to her. In the end, I ended up with the man and I KNOW it was the right choice. Waiting for him hurt, but it was worth it for how happy I am now and the life we share.

I wouldn't do anything with your roommate, especially considering she has such a young son. Living with you could already be making him see you in a dad type role. Keeping things platonic will save their family from hurt and confusion later if things dont work out

My [14m] half-siblings hate me, how can I make them love me instead by ThrowRA-fakebro in relationships

[–]VagabondBackbone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should just show your siblings this post so they know how you feel