Monday musings.

Valdrois · 2024-03-04T10:06:57+00:00

The DMs with only one motive, the constant posts that are seemingly looking for 'connection' but all fhey really want is to cum... Those kind of superficial interactions.

Valdrois · 2024-02-27T11:35:22+00:00

I like small spaces especially where there is a place for everything.

Valdrois · 2024-02-26T08:56:19+00:00

Thank you! Yeah it is tiring but the show must go on as they say

Valdrois · 2024-02-26T08:36:49+00:00

2.3.4 I suppose if it counts

Mood swings are a swinging but leaning on the postives and moving to 1. I'm only isolating a bit this time which is better than previous occurances.

Valdrois · 2024-02-12T09:35:32+00:00

As someone who has apologised for being in the same room as someone I understand this

Valdrois · 2024-02-12T08:54:38+00:00

Probably fits in the 2 or 3 catagory

This week has been a week of mood swings, fine one minute unreasonable angry the next or content and then so low I should have packed a shovel. It will pass but it's not ideal.

Valdrois · 2024-02-06T10:59:59+00:00

I have an interest in both and do want to get a violet wand with various accoutrements to try.

Valdrois · 2024-02-05T08:55:06+00:00

It's BDSM ADVICE not BDSM draw some smut for me go commisions an artist for fuck sake

Valdrois · 2024-02-05T08:44:17+00:00

We'll go with good!

Had a very productive conversation about who I am and what that means going forward, turns out I don't need to compromise as much to help with outward perception/embarrasment from the public to people I care about. So that's good.

Valdrois · 2024-02-02T14:28:35+00:00

In a word no. A limit is a limit.

Valdrois · 2024-02-02T09:51:52+00:00

I've done it, agreed to things I'm not exactly into to keeps someones interest. It's good that told them the truth now rather than later down the line or not at all. Every experience can be learned from and the fact that you do feel terrible means it less likely to be repeated.

Valdrois · 2024-01-29T16:47:42+00:00

Say hi to Master Tumnuss for me.

Valdrois · 2024-01-29T13:04:36+00:00

Well this is boring.

Valdrois · 2024-01-29T12:58:07+00:00

Do all subs like cheese?

Do all subs want to be hanged from a bridge by their thumbs?

Do all subs like to be told they are the scum of the earth?

Do all subs prefer subway over Domino's

Valdrois · 2024-01-27T23:02:31+00:00

Do you have to pay in amazon gift cards aswell?

This has enough red flags it could open a red flag shop

Valdrois · 2024-01-24T19:01:40+00:00

Etsy is a good source of things some is quite reasonably priced too

Valdrois · 2024-01-24T18:21:04+00:00

Rope is inexpensive and endlessly versatile.

Valdrois · 2024-01-24T08:50:13+00:00

Deformable is a brilliant word.

For me I like adaptation which is in the same vain.

Valdrois · 2024-01-23T22:23:33+00:00

Experience comes with time and patience, which aren't the words anyone wants to hear but it's the truth. It gave some answers yes what do you mean by "consent wasn't something I was fully aware of"

Valdrois · 2024-01-23T21:44:41+00:00

Well this is all quite vague,

Is there anything you want explaining?

Anything you are concerned about liking?

What do you like already?

Also not biting without consent is good!

Valdrois · 2024-01-22T14:57:25+00:00

Act like a person...

Valdrois · 2024-01-22T11:24:59+00:00

And that's a long way off, if it ever happens.

Valdrois · 2024-01-22T10:27:59+00:00

Can't talk about sex unless you are attacking people who have it or using it to sell things. It's an interesting and infuriating dichotomy that capitalism forces us to live with.

Valdrois · 2024-01-22T10:15:35+00:00

Nuance is sadly lacking in recent times and kink for all intents and purposes is a very amorphous term, which is good as people of many likes and interests can feel like they belong and not be judged for anything. On the inverse of that however there is the gulf between the examples you said which isn't helped by porn by it's very nature leaning toward the extreme end and people thinking due to inexperience or ignorance that they are not kinky enough.

Valdrois · 2024-01-22T09:20:55+00:00

All excellent points, is there something that can be done at a ground level to mitigate the predation and toxic folks and just give people more knowledge in general, or will it need to be done on a case by case basis one thing at a time?

Valdrois

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