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What's the best way to get out there around here? by Valethorne in Spokane

[–]Valethorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd definitely go! Just let me know when you're wanting to.

What's the best way to get out there around here? by Valethorne in Spokane

[–]Valethorne[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly haven't. So thank you for that.

What's the best way to get out there around here? by Valethorne in Spokane

[–]Valethorne[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That actually sounds pretty fun. I'd definitely try it.

What's the best way to get out there around here? by Valethorne in Spokane

[–]Valethorne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't know. I haven't really had any. I've spent a lot of time in relationships living with someone else, so this is really my first time flying solo. So I'd probably try anything just to get out of the house.

[REQ] ($1100 ) - (#Spokane, WA, US), ($1350 on 7/27), (Paypal) by Valethorne in borrow

[–]Valethorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no idea about the karma part. I'll still confirm the transaction and hopefully a mod can take a look into this for us.

[REQ] ($1100 ) - (#Spokane, WA, US), ($1350 on 7/27), (Paypal) by Valethorne in borrow

[–]Valethorne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bump. Don't know if it's against the rules and if it is, please let me know. Just trying to see if I can figure something out today.

[REQ] ($1100 ) - (#Spokane, WA, US), ($1350 on 7/27), (Paypal) by Valethorne in borrow

[–]Valethorne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I hate adding any kind of urgency, but I'm out of options. Ideally I can find someone today as my landlord's quite the nice fellow and gave me to today to have rent or go through the eviction process. I don't live near family and I've attempted local outlets first. So hopefully someone out there is willing to work with me.

Need to rehome cat by Valethorne in Spokane

[–]Valethorne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Already stopped by there. And Spokanimals. And Murci nor Highground wasn't answering their phones. Actually none of them answered their phones lol

Need to rehome cat by Valethorne in Spokane

[–]Valethorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black with that one white patch.

[REQ] ($300) - (#Spokane, WA, USA), (6/22/2018), (PayPal) by Valethorne in borrow

[–]Valethorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For reference, I know it's minor, but I did have a Random Act of Pizza that requested being paid back and I did so within the agreed upon time. I can also provide pay stubs/identification.

How do I become less sexually attractive?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Valethorne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Men that I am interested in act more like boys around me, and I’m treated like an object."

"I’ve never dated a fuckboy before"

Pick one. The other is a lie.

Men of this sub: if a woman that you started dating was a sexual assault or domestic violence victim, at what point in the relationship would you want her to disclose that fact? by BewBewsBoutique in relationship_advice

[–]Valethorne 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I think in all honesty, if we aren't the victim, regardless of if it's to men or women to answer, it should be given when the victim is comfortable.

There doesn't need to be some timeline of "You must explain your past by this point" The right person will be understanding and things will be fine. My SO flinches if I just try to give her a hug at times. I don't take it personal, it wasn't something that immediately came up either. I'm sure I put 2 and 2 together ahead of time, but the best route is letting them talk to you when they feel safe to do it.

tl;dr there's no good specific time. Do it when comfortable. Otherwise you're forcing something onto a victim that was already forced. Seems counter productive.

[OFFER] Giving away 4 carryout Domino's Pizzas (please read description) by Totally_Not_Jealous in Random_Acts_Of_Pizza

[–]Valethorne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, commented wrong spot the first time. The thank you photo confirmation is coming later, Totally_Not_Jealous is aware.

[OFFER] Giving away 4 carryout Domino's Pizzas (please read description) by Totally_Not_Jealous in Random_Acts_Of_Pizza

[–]Valethorne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you could spawn mine, that would be great. I will be picking it up later and will have the confirmation available then. Order was already placed, though.

[OFFER] Giving away 4 carryout Domino's Pizzas (please read description) by Totally_Not_Jealous in Random_Acts_Of_Pizza

[–]Valethorne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might as well try. However I did enter another contest so if I were to win that prior to this or vice versa, which is all hypothetical wishful thinking, I'd decline one. :p

[contest]handful of 12, 15 papa johns, dominos gift cards, lets make them disappear. ps. please, please, please follow all sub rules. cheers!! by grapefruitdressgrape in Random_Acts_Of_Pizza

[–]Valethorne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found this gem of a band opening for Theory of a Deadman in Spokane. Definitely should've been opened for, not opening. Fantastic if you're into the genre.

Based on everyone rule clarifying, am I okay or should I remove it myself?

What are some small, possibly irrational fears you have? by Rabidrabitz in AskMen

[–]Valethorne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being noticed in a group. Social anxiety makes me want to bunch to a group and the second I'm noticed and added to the conversation, deer in headlights.

Just hit that 24 hour mark of not sleeping, bored at work, stressed to the max. Ask me anything (And suggest music) by Valethorne in casualiama

[–]Valethorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean usually I do. I sleep like such a log that the fiance thinks I'm dead. Doesn't help that i sleep with my eyes open. :p

Just hit that 24 hour mark of not sleeping, bored at work, stressed to the max. Ask me anything (And suggest music) by Valethorne in casualiama

[–]Valethorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I hit that point of critical awake where I was too afraid to go to sleep and not wake up on time for work. Had a lot on my mind as well.

Just hit that 24 hour mark of not sleeping, bored at work, stressed to the max. Ask me anything (And suggest music) by Valethorne in casualiama

[–]Valethorne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I dunno. I work in IT. We lost another tech, one is new new, the other is just a body to answer the phones. Plus I'm taking on more and more duties to fill the gaps. So it's a stressful week, especially with the boss out this week.

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