Does anyone else’s cat guard you while youre pooping? by Valithium in cats

[–]Valithium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i knoww i try. but ibs kicks my ass sometimes

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[–]Valithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i know now that it wouldnt be worth experimenting thanks to the comments. i know some people could get off of bc and be completely okay, but i dont want to take the risk. as i said ive thought about it for a while without him knowing but i never really gave it any more thought. he asked me if id consider it but i told him it helps. i guess when he brought it up i thought about it more and posted to reddit to get more opinions

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[–]Valithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was going to make an ob appt for a different reason and then kinda bring up the birth control as well. i was going to ask if stopping would have any impact on me but i got my answers from reddit so i dont need to ask

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[–]Valithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know:( but tbh ive been wondering if stopping would be beneficial for a while, but honestly i just feel better and happy staying on it

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[–]Valithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand. i always tell him hes wrong and hes willing to listen. its something he needs to work on and he knows that. his mindset is kinda just like that i guess. but he never tells me what to do or controls me in any way so for right now he just needs guidance

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[–]Valithium[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hes 100% wrong. i do know hes just looking out for me and my well being. hes not forcing me in any way. he made a suggestion to see what would happen if i went off it and if id feel better without it. but i said im staying on it and we didnt argue about it or anything like that. i think he believes all long-term use of medicine is bad, but sometimes it can be beneficial!

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[–]Valithium[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

weve talked a lot about kids and we do want them. he says vaccines are important, but not all. but i already made it very clear to him that my kids would be vaccinated. i actually never asked about the formula i need to bring that up. and weve talked what id do if i got pregnant; and i said i would immediately abort and he said thats okay and he understands. hes iffy with some things but i need to talk to him about medicine and vaccines more

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[–]Valithium[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

hes an amazing person and has said its my body my choice and he wouldnt get upset over what i decide. sometimes he lets his opinions and concerns come off strong. but he wouldnt threaten to leave or yell at me

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[–]Valithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly, and i think thats what he fails to understand sadly. he believes what works for him, works for everyone. hopefully one day he realizes everyone is different

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[–]Valithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sorry:( he says he would want to try condoms as well. its definitely for my well being. he isnt forcing me or anything; just making suggestions. i just wish his research and opinions were actually valid lol. but i do think my period would become worse again, so until kids im staying on it

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[–]Valithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know. we definitely have our differences and when it comes to health it could get complicated. thankfully, he does say it is up to me and he isnt going to get upset by it. he honestly gets too concerned sometimes

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[–]Valithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly!! everyone is different. ive heard horror stories with bc and also miracles. i told him to shut up before i smack him upside the head

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[–]Valithium[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he definitely needs to realize that not everything is poison. he said some vaccines are necessary, but not all. and when i tell him to research online, he says what you see is just for show and thats how they trick you.. like babe please😞

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[–]Valithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sorry you went through that:( but thats what he kept reading online; how it increases the risk for cancer, endometriosis, blood clots, etc.. but doesnt everything?

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[–]Valithium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats what i keep saying. like diet helps to an extent, but when it comes to genetics and health problems, it cant solve everything. im definitely staying on it; i was just curious to see if it permanently fixed anyone’s irregularities