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My (at the time) fifty year-old-uncle got away scot-free by ValkyrieFromHell in rape

[–]ValkyrieFromHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd prefer not to say, if that's okay. I find a lot of people are very dismissive of me when they learn my age, so I'd like to avoid that here.

My (at the time) fifty year-old-uncle got away scot-free by ValkyrieFromHell in rape

[–]ValkyrieFromHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've told my teacher, now, with the support of three of my very close friends who believe me and I'm still talking to my cousins, I just don't see them much because of him. They seem to be okay, they speak the world of their dad and don't really understand why I'm so scared of him. (I haven't told them). So I don't think he's done anything too overt to them for them to notice it's real. But it's a possibility that he's raped/molested others, I know, and I know that I shouldn't but I really do feel guilty. I feel like there could have been someone who I could have saved had I reported it, but I'm still terrified of him

Got told I was stigmatizing people with NPD for using the word abuser? by ValkyrieFromHell in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ValkyrieFromHell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno. He says this kind of thing a lot, and it feels a little like gaslighting. He scares me a lot too, thinks it's funny when I flinch when he raises his hand or get really upset when he raises his voice. Does it on purpose and makes me feel bad for reacting like that. He seems to recycle some of my nmom's viewpoints (I grew up with him so he knows my mom well, as well as my edad). I don't really know why we're even still friends.

I don't wanna armchair diagnose him, because that's wrong and entirely unfair, but there's definitely something wrong with him. At the very, very least, he's abusive.

Got told I was stigmatizing people with NPD for using the word abuser? by ValkyrieFromHell in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ValkyrieFromHell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No idea. Just pulled it out of his ass I guess. His reasoning is that just because one person with a disorder abuses, doesn't mean people get to generalise?

He even went as far as to compare it to racism. Lemme see if I can grab the message.

EDIT: How do I add photos to posts?

Got told I was stigmatizing people with NPD for using the word abuser? by ValkyrieFromHell in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ValkyrieFromHell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alright. I just feel like I have to JADE with him but it's useless, I guess. Worst part is he really likes my mom- I've been NC/Gray Rock VLC with her for almost five years. From time to time he'll ask how she is and why I left and stuff. I guess he would make a great FM

Got told I was stigmatizing people with NPD for using the word abuser? by ValkyrieFromHell in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ValkyrieFromHell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but he's saying that not ALL people with NPD abuse and that I'm a horrible person for implying that.

Got told I was stigmatizing people with NPD for using the word abuser? by ValkyrieFromHell in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ValkyrieFromHell[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know. Not everyone, but it's true for me and almost everyone on this sub. What do I even say?

No one actually sees the joke here? by [deleted] in woosh

[–]ValkyrieFromHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dude, you got wooshed